#demigender headcanons

[bumblingbee1]

Demigender Asami?

Demigender Asami.

[aroacehogwarts]

Polyro asexual demigirl Ginny in a queerplatonic relationship with aro asexual bigender Neville? Gryffindor!

“Oh, Neville,” Ginny said, breathtaken. 

“Do you like it?” 

Ginny threw herself into a hug with her kip, her queerplatonic partner. “I love it!”

Neville beamed and kissed her cheek. “I’m so glad,” se admitted. “Took forever! Wanted to make it myself. Hermione offered to help with the charms, but I did this completely by hand. Wanted it to be a true labor of love.”

Ginny ran her hands over her new black ring. It was sleek and thin and slightly wavy. Part of the band itself, which would be displayed on the top of her finger, was twisted into the vague shape of a mimbulus mimbletonia bulb - Neville’s favorite plant. Ginny slid it on. A perfect fit. Usually, rings were more Luna’s thing than Ginny’s or Neville’s, but they’d each made an exception for their pride rings.

“It’s gorgeous!” Ginny kissed Neville’s forehead. Then, she took hir hand, placing their ring’s fingers side by side to look at them together.

Neville’s ring was thicker than Ginny’s, more of a typical ring size, and marbled black and white. Etched on top in gold was a little golden snitch.

“Perfect,” Ginny couldn’t help but say.

“They do look great, especially together,” Neville agreed. Se hadn’t made them to be complimentary, specifically, but se did like the nod to their kip on each ring, and each had turned out better than expected.

And the rest of the day was spent as a rare day of relaxation, a time for the two to really catch up and spend time together for the first time in months. A much needed hang out that left them each feeling completely content come bedtime.

~Hufflepuff Mod

[hiddenhogwarts]

newt scamander is an ace/aro demiboy. he is also autistic and his favorite stim is animal skin (on living animals ofc)

[aroacehogwarts]

Asexual panromantic demi-girl Luna Lovegood just loves people. She surrounds herself with as many of her fellow queer witches, wizards, and wixen as she can. She has many fleeting romantic relationships but prefers to focus on her beautiful friendships. (Slytherin)

It’s about the crooked, almost shy smile that Ginny cracks when Luna always has perfect timing for slipping their hands together or gracing her with a flower crown.

It’s about the surprised, owlish look of mixed gratitude, relief, and disbelief Harry shares with her whenever she intuitively knows he needs some space away from someone - even if it’s herself.

It’s about the the faintest hint of a blush that spreads across Hermione’s face right before the gears start whirring to process and think about it when Luna either expands her worldview or says something so ridiculously out of left field that Hermione doesn’t know how to handle it besides to sit down and actually open her mind to let herself think about it.

It’s about the old, fumbling clumsiness that overtakes Neville whenever she gives him a truly blessed and genuine compliment that he’s knows is true but doesn’t accept - yet can’t reject Luna if she says it.

It’s about the loud bark of startled laughter and the coarse coughing that follows meant to cover up the laughter from Ron when Luna steps out of her somewhat childish-seeming demeanor and makes a crass joke that she knows will cheer him up.

Sure, Luna enjoys periodically making out with a datemate or having someone to go out with that brings new experiences and yet-to-be-discovered faucets of each other. But at the end of the day, Luna’s heart belongs with her friends and in the wilds. She doesn’t want to settle down. She wants to be free to set off to explore whenever she feels like it. She wants to devote herself to her friends and knowing them completely and being there for them. Asexual panro demigirl Luna is all about just living that best life for herself.

~Hufflepuff Mod

[aroacehogwarts]

Is it just me or do other people see Draco Malfoy as a demiromantic asexual?

It’s not just you.

Pansy quickly came to understand that Draco was very different than her when they were dating. He liked cuddling and sometimes enjoyed kissing, but he always stopped her from going any further. It was by chance that she heard a group of Ravenclaws talking about asexuality and immediately connected the term with Draco. She kept quiet until he was ready to say it on his own, though.

Blaise knew Draco pretty well and noticed that Draco never joined in when Blaise talked about how attracted some of their peers, whatever gender, were - and weren’t. He noticed how Draco’s eyes never followed someone when they walked away. Draco was the only boy of their year, besides Blaise, not talking about dating. Blaise wondered if Draco was aromantic and asexual until he Draco began crushing on Astoria, though Blaise still suspected Draco was arospec.

Narcissa never felt as though she knew Lucius well, but she knew her son. They talked all the time. She almost suspected Draco was hiding his affairs from her until he admitted to dating Pansy. She noticed the lack of excitement, though. Worried about her son, she delved into research, wondering if maybe he was sick in someway and if she could help. Instead she found all these terms like aromantic, asexual, bisexual, pansexual, lesbian, etc. She had always only known about gay and straight. This explained a lot of things, including about herself and her relationship to Lucius.

Astoria didn’t have much time to wonder. She became fast friends with Draco, and soon he was coming out to her as demiromantic and asexual. She came out as a gray-aromantic demigirl. They were dating not too long afterwards and very happy.

~Hufflepuff Mod