#disowning

[one-time-i-dreamt]

For April Fool's, my parents disowned me. They didn’t like, lie and say they were disowning me and then go, "Haha, April Fool's! We’re not disowning you”, no, they actually just disowned me????????

[enmesheddaughterparentified]

Imagine thinking, "If you stop talking to your mom, I'll stop talking to you" would make me change my mind. Like, lmao, okay, byeeeee. Also as an fyi we didn't talk anyway. Like what exactly are you threatening me with? The continued silence from you?

[askmafiabobvelseb]

The out-coming

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Tw: transphobia

[asktheheirofslytherin]

Do you know Nymphadora is your niece too and Andromeda your sister in law and Ted Tonks (Mudblood) your brother in law. Very proud of your extended family, aren't you?

Mudbloods and blood traitors are no family to me, nor are they to Bella. 

[wonder-and-wildflowers]

Not so casual reminder that if you threaten to disown your children anytime they do something to mildly irratate you, or hold the fact that you "saved" them from an unhealthy environment over their heads--

your a piece of garbage. As far as I'm concerned, your an ab*sive piece of garbage too.

I hope your kid grows up to be happy and successful and fall in love with someone worth their time that will spoil them rotten. I also hope your kid never speaks to you again after they graduate highschool because they dont need that kind of energy in their life and shouldn't have to develope trauma that causes them to damn near have panic attacks everytime they do something to kinda sorta upset those they care about.

[greensupremetangerine]

I asked my grandma for our family history and apparently my great grandmother was disowned from the Hamilton family for marrying the son of an immigrant with an illegitimate career (great great grandfather was a baseball player), meaning, if not legally, I am technically by blood related to Alexandar Hamilton, and as my friend is as well, she is my family whether or not she continues calling me her fifth mother

So how was your day today?

[randomfandomsciencethings]

So I officially, once and for all, disowned my parents...

only after they disowned me.

Basically, I overheard my mom talking on the phone and saying how I might as well not be her kid anymore, and she was saying how she can’t wait until I leave because I’m “manipulative” and always “beat them down”. So, while I haven’t told them, I’ve decided they’re not my family. 

They don’t deserve that title, not since I was 8. They haven’t done anything to earn being called my parents, and I’m using the last bit of respect I have for myself and I’m going to distance myself from them. I don’t need their hatred and negativity in my life.

[transgenderadvice]

My friend ,about a month, ago just came out to his mom. He asked to be called by his pronouns and preferred name. His mom completely disowned him and told to stop using the name and pronouns and stop talking to his trans best friend. She is now crossing out his name and putting his dead name on all his school work. Me being across the country I can't help. Any suggestions on how he can handle this and how maybe I can help him.

Hey, anon.I’m going through the exact same thing at the moment, my mom found out I was trans after searching my phone. When I told her that I know this is who I am, she refused to accept me as a boy. She blocked the cell numbers of my two best friends because they happened to be trans. I know this is tough advice, but the best thing he can honestly do is wait. If his mom is anything like mine, efforts to go behind her back will end up in heartbreak. As for what you can do: continue to call him by his name and pronouns, and make sure he knows you’re there for him. If your mental health allows for it, let him vent to you. Be supportive. Before he knows it, he’ll be able to transition on his own.-Jake