Hi, friends! I have a new spicy reading for you (though it's mildly spicy, nothing crazy lmao). We're going to be looking into your sex appeal and what makes you magnetic, alluring, and attractive to people. So, pick the pile you feel called to and find your messages below!
Ever wonder why some people just can't get over you? Or even who can't get over you? What happened to cause the obsession? And how come it is still ongoing?
Well, babe, your fav is here to spill the tea, and yup, it is hot!
Pile One
They are obsessed with your recent sense of renewal. You have shed a part of yourself that wasn't necessary for where you are going. You look refreshed and different, and people have taken notice.
This is not the same you from six months ago. Something has died, and something else has been born. And the people around you? They can feel the shift. Some of them are inspired. But the one obsessing over you? They are confused. They miss the old you, the one they could predict, the one they felt superior to. Now you walk into a room with a new kind of quiet confidence, and it unsettles them.
You used to bloom in their garden, so to speak. You were a fixture, someone they could count on to stay the same. But you have outgrown the soil they planted you in. And instead of celebrating your growth, they resent you for leaving them behind. They hide it behind fake smiles and backhanded compliments, but the obsession is real. They keep tabs on you. They watch your stories. They ask about you to mutual friends. They want to know who the new you is, because they cannot figure you out anymore.
Once upon a time, a garden was full of flowers that had bloomed in the same spot for years. One day, a flower decided to drop its seeds across the fence, into a field it had never seen before. The other flowers called it reckless, said it was abandoning them. But the flower knew its roots had gone stale. The next season, the garden was bare, while the field was full of new blossoms. The old flowers, still stuck in their patch of dirt, could only watch from a distance, wondering why they had never had the courage to leave.
What does that tell us? Some people will never forgive you for growing where they chose to stay still. Their obsession is not love. It is the pain of watching someone do what they were too afraid to try.
So keep walking, Pile One. Keep shedding what no longer fits. The right people will not mourn your old self. They will celebrate the one you are becoming. And the ones that obsess? Let them watch. You are not here to stay small for their comfort.
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Pile Two
They are obsessed with your worth, or at least your perceived worth. You are someone that is in demand, Pile Two, and people instinctively put you on some type of pedestal. Some of you could have had a glow up recently, and you are turning heads!
But here is the thing. They don't just want you. They want what you represent. Abundance, commitment, grace. You walk into a room and people see someone who has their life together, someone who chose themselves, and it drives them crazy because they are still waiting for permission to do the same.
This person is obsessed with the idea of you. Not the real you. The version of you they built in their head. The one that has everything they feel they are missing. And instead of using that as fuel to level up, they sit in their bitterness and watch you from the corner of their eye, hoping you slip. Hoping you fall. Hoping you prove that no one can actually be that happy.
Once upon a time, a woman caught a fish for dinner and inside it found a golden ring. She put it on her finger and instantly felt wealthy, beautiful, and powerful. The next day, her neighbor saw the ring and asked where she got it. The woman told her the story. So the neighbor went to the river and fished all day, but caught nothing. She grew angry, convinced the woman had lied. That night, she snuck into the woman's house and stole the ring. But when she put it on, it felt cold and heavy. Nothing changed. She threw it into the woods and went home empty‑handed.
What does that tell us? You cannot steal someone else's worth. You cannot copy their glow. You cannot fish in their river and expect to catch the same blessing. The ring was never about the jewelry. It was about the woman who was ready to receive it.
So, Pile Two, do not let the envy of others dim your shine. The same people who obsess over your worth will also be the first to try to tear it down when they realize they cannot have it for themselves. Keep turning heads. Keep glowing. The right people will celebrate you, not compete with you.
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Pile Three
They obsess over you because you seem unbothered and lucky. You keep shining regardless. This person is jealous of your joie de vivre. I feel like they have a hidden admiration that twisted itself into envy. They compared your life to theirs, your happiness to theirs, and your blessings as well. This person wants to see you hurt or lose. Your success bothers them in a weird way. They have a huge scarcity mindset, where your win prevents them from theirs, even if you are not competing in the same race. This person is actually so sad. Like they are legit miserable, Pile Three. I hope you do not take their dark energy seriously, because like most things in life, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.
Once upon a time, Greed and Envy found a magic bottle. They rubbed it, and a genie appeared. The genie said to both of them, "Make a wish, and whatever you wish for, the other person will get twice."
Greed starts, asking for a million dollars. Envy watches him, happy with his money. And when the genie turns to him and asks him to make his wish, he says:
"I wish to be blind in one eye."
Now, what does that tell us? Envy doesn't make sense. It makes you do things that are detrimental to your growth, just for the sake of getting one over on someone else.
What you have to take from this story, Pile Three, is that they will always lose by their own hands. You won't even have to lift a finger, frankly, because people like this are bound for self‑destruction. Cleanse your energy and keep doing you. The rest of the world loves to watch you shining.
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Tried something different this time and you can expect more of that in the coming year which, I will intend is the best year in a long time for you.
This reading is offered as collective guidance for reflection and perspective.
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Picture 1
(Cleansing, Quiet power, Reset, Minimalism)
2026 for you is about washing away what was never yours to carry. Old guilt borrowed expectations, dusty identities that stuck to you just because they were nearby. All gone. This year works gently but relentlessly.
Your boundaries will become healthy and effortless. Meaning, it's a proper boundary and not a therapy speak one where you avoid accountability. You stop over-scrubbing to be "good enough" "clean enough" There's a return to simplicity, to rituals that ground you. Your daily routines, private comforts, small pleasures that stabilize your nervous system.
There's a theme here of detox without the drama or perfomance that comes along with it. In 2026, you stop needing closure conversations. People don't get long explanations. Situations resolve simply because you no longer resonate with them. The soap image tells you that any sticky residue is quietly washed off.
Expect:
- Less time on social media or doom scrolling. It may not even be an active choice for some of you but a subconscious thing that happens
- Leaning towards minimalistic living and aesthetics. Preferring lighter or flowy fabrics. Desire to grow your hair longer as well
- Wanting to visit beaches or water bodies in general.
- Nervous system regulation (your body feels safer in your own presence)
-Fewer crises, more quiet clarity
- Investing in things and activities that bring you calm and comfort over what's trending. Less fixation on trends overall.
- Love or relationships that focus on acts of service, bonding in silence, conflict resolution and straight forwardness.
- Careers that don't put you in hustle mode and become your forefront or simply learning to seperate work life and personal life properly. - Choosing peace even when ego wants noise because it's so habituated to it.
You may notice that problems shrink when you don't engage with them. This year rewards emotional maturity. Your power comes from not reacting. You don't have to disappear or punish yourself or anyone for it. As things clear out for you and you become less cluttered in your surroundings and headspace you'll realize that, by the end of 2026, you trust yourself so deeply that you no longer need the validation of strangers or circumstances that are subjected to change and that's because you've watched yourself choose calm again and again.
2026 will begin with a gentle question, "Do you see yourself yet?" Because once you do, the world has no choice but to follow your lead.
This year revolves around reclaiming your image, how you see yourself, how you present, how you name who you are. There’s confidence being rebuilt from the inside out. You stop shapeshifting to enter rooms that don’t deserve you.
There’s also a theme of reflection: people mirror your growth back to you. Some will fall away because they can’t recognize you anymore. Others will step up because they can't not. Your intuition sharpens. You trust your taste, your timing, your inner voice. You don't wait for a compliment to know who and what you are.
Expect:
– There’s certainly a theme of visibility, being seen for your real talent.
– Being recognized without having to perform. Becoming a muse.
– Illusions dissolving.
– Possibility of wealth 'multiplying'. Having gratitude for what you have an constantly receive will bring in more.
– Bear in mind, this year will bring things doubling or as stated above, multiplying. So be mindful of what or who you are engaging with or what you're putting out in the world.
– A rebrand/change in appearance and physique or even your environment (location)
– Wanting to buy tangible things that reflect you as a person not just your tastes. Also investing in skincare, outfits, makeup that highlight your features rather than alter it.
– Setting a trend. Standing out.
– Opportunites through being seen, referrals, right place at right time etc
– Connections and Love that mirror who you are choosing to be and identifying as. Eg. If you identify as someone who is chosen and loved then you'll get exactly that only if you don't negotiate your self worth.
This year may bring literal mirror moments: photos, profiles, public presence, personal branding, fixation on preserving memories and photographs. You curate your life more intentionally from what you consume, who has access, how you speak about yourself.
2026 ends with you occupying your own lane fully.
Picture 3
(Pleasure, Reward, Receiving Without Guilt, Slowing down)
2026 is about letting yourself have the good thing. Joy without justification. Celebration without waiting for permission.
This year brings rewards that feel almost indulgent: rest, love, money, sweetness, romance, creativity. And the lesson is learning not to sabotage it by saying “this is too much” or “I didn’t earn this yet.” You did. Even if the work was invisible. Even if the struggle was internal. There’s a recurring theme of reward arriving without fanfare. Like realizing one day that things are… good. And you don’t immediately look for the catch or worry about tomorrow or what's expected of you the next day.
There’s nourishment here, emotional and physical. You learn to savor instead of rush. To take the bite. To stay at the table. Abundance doesn't have to be loud it just needs to make you feel fulfilled.
Expect:
– Celebration tied to milestones and even the little victories.
– Moments of sweetness after long stretches of effort.
– Learning to receive without over explaining your worth.
– New and memorable experiences that previously felt out of reach.
– A sort of fullness in appearance as well and increase in appetite.
– Inclination to learn cooking or baking as well or wanting to try new cuisines. There's a fixation on nourishment. Towards yourself and towards the ones you hold dear. You'll be leaving behind a sacricity mindset that you've had.
– Of course spend money with a healthy financial mindset but your needs will be met. You'll have more than enough or what you spend will come back to you.
– A healthy give and take in all areas of your life. Relish things bit by bit and not all at once.
– Not rushing past moments and not rushing others as well.
– Possible inclination towards maximalism in aesthetic or wanting to surround yourself with dopamine decor.
– However, avoid over indulgence in escapism or substances (alcohol etc.)
– Desire to start a business or investing.
There’s also healing around guilt. You stop thinking happiness must be earned through suffering. This year will teach you to sit with joy without bracing for the fall. You take the bite and stay present. Slow down a bit, there's nothing to chase.
divider by @uzmacchiato (clouds), @cafekitsune (reblog) and me (do not copy)
Instruction: Choose the group that you feel drawn to. Try not to use more than one group unless you feel strongly drawn to multiple. Interpret according to your situation.
Groups:
1 - 2 - 3
4 - 5 - 6
If you don't feel drawn to any group, this reading is not for you!
Disclaimer: Energy is constantly changing. This is only for entertainment purposes. Reader discretion is advised.
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Decks Used: The Antique Anatomy Tarot, The Literary Witches, Barbieri Zodiac Oracle.
GROUP ONE
Cards: Justice rx, Knight of Wands, The Empress rx, Cancer, Leo rx, Saturn, Elixir rx, Milk, Cat.
Tarot: You will be treated unfairly by a superior despite all your hard work. I see you need to take on an offensive position rather than defensive. Fight for yourself. I hear that the action is not one of silent revenge, but calling things out right there, confrontational and direct.
Oracle: Be careful of a coworker. Someone who was helpful in the past and never have given you any reasons not to trust them, will betray you or attempt to. You might get a sudden gut feeling about it, but the deception will be subtle, so it would be understandable to miss it. They might give you a seemingly good advice/idea. Probably a woman. In school, someone might give you wrong answers in an exam or tell you fake info about an exam.
Zodiac: Instant message. You might have troubles and blockages coming your way in the Leo and Cancer seasons, so roughly end of June till end of August. Hard times. You might be studying to retake a failed exam. Coworker problems.
Astrology: Libra, Leo x2, Venus, Cancer, Saturn.
(Double Leo tells me you will get a lot of attention. A woman will oppose you, very beautiful and feminine with strong Libra/Venusian energy. Saturn indicates difficult times and obstacles. Cancer can talk about manipulative energy.)
Numbers: 11, 3, 4, 5, 19 (42=6) = 2, 3, 4, 5, 1 (15=6).
(Any of these can be important dates. I see you will have to reeavulate who you trust and how to react to difficult situation without dismissing your own feelings. The troubles will begin gradually, rather than arrive all at once.)
GROUP TWO
Cards: Queen of Cups, The Star, 7 of Cups rx, Gemini rx, Mars rx, Jupiter, Teacup, Peacock horizontal, Janet Frame (Belonging).
Tarot: It's a hopeful time for you. Good for staring new projects and jobs. Go wild and attend interviews for better jobs. Send your CVs. No, you're not delusional. No, you're not delusional. The stars are quite literally alligning for you. If you struggle mentally, it will be a calm time period for you.
Oracle: You will receive valuable information through gossip or networking (or by accident). I don't think it will be something to ruin someone's career/life, but it will give you an idea on how to proceed in your career and what steps you should take. Be careful of being cocky/oversharing what you know. Don't boast too much, but don't play coy as it can raise suspicions. Be aware of when to show your cards.
Zodiac: First message I got is "AI" because of a 'Gemini' card. You might work in tech or study it. Involved with computers and software in general. There's luck on your side at the moment, so take the opportunity. However, it's something that's meant to be used calmly and without rush. Just sit and enjoy, listen and think. You can use it to rest and gather your strength.
Astrology: Cancer, Aquarius, Scorpio, Gemini, Mars, Jupiter.
(Good time for networking and working in groups. You have a way with words in this time period and some great charisma. You are in tune with people's emotions and know how to navigate them without being shady or manipulative. Lucky time period for you.)
Numbers: 17, 7, 3, 17, 18 (62=8) = 8, 7, 3, 8, 9 (35=8).
(Can be important dates, especially 17, 7, 1 and 8. If you want to move forward in something, it's a good time to do so. Take the opportunity. The doors are open for you to do whatever you wish for.)
GROUP THREE
Cards: Queen of Swords, 3 of Pentacles, 5 of Swords rx, Moon rx, Air rx, Mercury rx, Toni Morrison (Power) rx, Knife rx, Sappho (Love).
Tarot: Your mind is stuck on something and you will be unable to move on from this topic for a while. I see you looking back and thinking of the past. Outwardly, you might be cold and calm. People will try not to anger you. You might want to check Angel Number 33.
Oracle: So, this is quite specific. I see you have been betrayed (or will be) by someone you love (cheating or a breakup, either platonic or romantic). Your focus in this time period will be healing your broken heart, not much attention on the career/school aspect. But that's okay. I don't see any consequences in the field, I think you will still do your job well enough. Queer love might be a big thing here.
Zodiac: Emotionally, you're somewhere far away. You're deep in thought, quiet and prefering to avoid social interaction. You use few words and communicate when needed. Your mind is busy, but you don't externalise it.
Astrology: Libra, Capricorn, Aquarius, Moon, Air, Mercury.
(You're stoic in this time period. Calm, firm, professional but distant. Can't say much else, other than what I said before.)
Numbers: 3, 5, 14, 25, 15 (62=8) = 3, 5, 5, 7, 6 (26=8).
(Can be important dates, especially 5, 26, 6. Take care of yourself. It's okay to take a break and reevaluate your personal life. Emotional healing can look different for everyone, so even if your way of doing so is unconvetional, it's okay to be like that. Be patient with yourself.)
GROUP FOUR
Cards: 8 of Cups, The Empress rx, The Magician, Aries, Sagittarius, Pisces, Boar rx, Mirabai (Devotion), Mary SHelley (Loss).
Tarot: You might be leaving your old job or getting rid of old perspectives. Maybe you have a sudden desire to change the course in your career. I see you starting a new job or a new project (or just a new mindset about how your future should look like). You might be erratic and very motivated, always on the move and active. I see you moving your hands a lot while you talk (ADHD anyone? I also heard manic). I see you accomplishing many tasks in this time period and whatever you touch, will be very easy for you to finish. Might get bored a lot. If you have bipolar, remember to take your meds as not to let mania do things that you can't take back. It also might be a warning for some of you that mania is coming.
Oracle: You might have never quite fit in with the groups at your job/school. Always the weirdo, always the odd one. Well, this time period you don't care. You just do you and take great pleasure in it. You see the weird looks people give you and just shrug, going on about your day. Maybe it's a turning point for you not to think about others' opinions.
Zodiac: Lots of fire and action, erratic and impulsive. Could be some risky decisions involved. You might be delusional and live in a fantasy world, which strengthens the message about mania. If not, you might just get into a weird headspace.
Astrology: Pisces x2, Venus, Mercury, Sagittarius, Aries.
(Weird headspace. Fantasy world. Daydreaming. Lots of passion and motivation. Action. Impulsive. Lots of talking. Yapping. Oversharing. Feeling your best self. Being non-critical when it comes to your behaviour. Risky behaviours. Sexual themes. Mania.)
Numbers: 8, 3, 1, 1, 9, 12 (34=7) = 8, 3, 1, 1, 9, 3 (25=7).
(Can be important dates, especially 1, 3, 8. You might get lots of new opportunities or just start creating new things for yourself. The self-reflection is present there, but it's disfigured, as in you reevaluate things but ignore some stuff as well. Weird combo which again is highlighting the mania aspect. Teamwork. Cooperating on a project. I heard orgy or group sex?)
GROUP FIVE
Cards: The Lovers, 7 of Swords, 5 of Wands, Libra rx, Saturn rx, Scorpio rx, Jamaica Kincaid (History), Pond rx, Emily Dickinson (The Soul) rx.
Tarot: I see you working with someone who completes you professionally. Could not ask for a better coworker to work with you on this project. Or maybe you both start a job/internship at the same place. Some workplace flirting. However, there are some dark clouds brewing. Is this person in a relationship? Or are they just leading you, enjoying the attention? I see some argument and conflicts, Julius Ceasar kind of thing when they all stab him. Some betrayal of trust. Frustration over trusting the wrong person.
Oracle: It's as if the pond leaks from the sky, trying to drown you (I heard "I'm gonna drown you" but the logicists are funny and unrealistic). This person might be jealous of your success/talent and trying to undermine you, but they're not very good at sabotaging. They think they're smarter than they really are.
Zodiac: You will overcome this obstacle, but it will seem unnecessary to you. Why even bring such a person into your life? I see that you did trust this person a lot, might even opened up about your doubts and fear. They're good at acting, though, and you wonder if any of the things they said were truthful.
Astrology: Gemini, Aquarius, Leo, Libra, Saturn, Scorpio.
(Air is dominant here. Lots of thinking and trying to analyze what went wrong in how you saw this person. Trying to understand logically, while keeping your emotions in check to avoid bias. Being cold and calculating when meeting new people. Being closed off to new connections. Prioritizing your own peace.)
Numbers: 6, 7, 5, 7, 8, 19 (52=7) = 6, 7, 5, 7, 8, 2 (35=8).
(Can be important dates, especially 7 and 5. Lots of analyzing and reflecting on the past. Trying to learn from your mistakes. Trying to move on, maybe even too fast. Being cynical. Being cold to others. Exhaustion. Avoiding social interactions and focusing on your work.)
GROUP SIX
Cards: The Fool rx, 10 of Wands, Queen of Cups, Aquarius rx, Gemini, Saturn rx, Noose, Pond, Emily Dickinson (The Soul) rx.
Tarot: You might be going through a rough patch right now. Are you having doubts about your career path? Exhaustion, going from task to task automatically, mind blank. Going through the movements, doing your job, fullfilling your responsibilities. You might feel stuck and burnt out. Stagnation. Looking out of the window and dreaming. You might be depressed. At the same time, you're someone people heavily depend on. You might be reliable, responsible and calm, always grouding to those around you. It's time to take a break, babe. Go on vacation. Take a sick leave, if needed. Maybe you just need some antidepressants.
Oracle: Depression is highlighter here. Even if you don't think so, at least you have to admit you might be burnt out. There's nothing shameful about needing mental help. I'm not even going to tell you to pick up a new hobby, since you're so exhausted you barely make your own meals and clean your house. You should be alone for a while, with no one to bother you, to let your mind and body truly rest. You need sleep. Like a couple of days worth of it.
Zodiac: You need some break from people. The constant noise is starting to get to you. If you have kids, ask your friends or family to take them under their wing for a bit. If they're old enough, ask them to give you some space. Sleep. Bed rot. Scroll on your phone. Watch stupid movies. Whatever brings you comfort when you're like this.
Astrology: Uranus, Sagittarius, Cancer, Aquarius, Gemini, Saturn.
(Lots of mental noise and crying. You might feel empty with random times of bursting into tears over small things and triggers. Let people help you, even if it means isolating from them for a while.)
Numbers: 0, 10, 11, 3, 19 (43=7) = 0, 1, 2, 3, 2 (8).
(Can be important dates. 0 for me is a wild card, meaning things can happen any day and any way, with no way of predicting them. It depends on your actions and circumstances around you. Sudden breakdown or a crying fit might happen while you're at work. Small things can trigger it. It's going to accumulate, rising slowly but steadily until it explodes.)
∆ if you feel confused, close your eyes and take a deep breath and see which picture shows up in front of your eyes.
Enjoy!!<3
PILE 1
I'm getting that people who chose this pile have great judgement, they see the bigger picture and are self aware. They learn from their past instead of mourning over it or regretting their decisions. I won't recommend ignoring new opportunities at the moment, whether they are about your career or something you've been planning to do for a while. Though some things that have been unfold might hurt a little but you need to understand that it's all part of your growth. Some of you may have recently realized a truth that wasn't easy to accept. While it may have brought disappointment or sadness, this realization is helping you see things more clearly than before. Don't dwell on it but try to learn something from it. People of this pile gives very honest and fairness vibes but know that every actions has equal consequences so think before you do something. Try staying honest and fair to everyone as it will be for your own good too. Growth doesn't always come through comfort. Sometimes it arrives through realizations that challenge the way we previously viewed a situation.
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PILE 2
I feel like people who chose this pile are good with partnerships, they are cooperative and can easily work with other people. They show traits of diplomacy and can understand people's perspectives. They reciprocate feelings well whether good or bad. They don't like beating around the bush and tend to be straightforward. As they are good with partnerships, they can grow more through useful collaborations and teamwork. You should try developing your skills more as it will turn out to be fruitful and no effort would go in vain. You like being seen and enjoy when people recognize you for your work. It helps to boost your confidence and getting praised helps with quick recovery when you face a loss. Though i would recommend not completely being dependent on outer validation. I understand that it feels good to be praised but you should know inner validation matters more than outer validation. If you feel satisfied after doing something what other people say shouldn't matter. Try staying humble as sometimes people tend to become a lil arrogant with time. Other than that, I feel like you're naturally confident and know how to make things work for yourself. You don't like degrading yourself and believe you can make ends meet.
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PILE 3
One thing that came to my mind after seeing this pile is main character. You hold great leaderships qualities and have practical approach to life. You tend to ask how things work before believing them. You seek stability everywhere whether its career, relationship or simply living. Your ideals have a solid base and every step is calculated. This is a very useful trait but sometimes this can lead towards a controlling nature or slight stubbornness. You think ahead of situations and are quite reliable. You hold accountability of your actions and are consistent when you get into something you actually enjoy. In relationships you're loyal and dependable, creating this sense of security and safety for them. Believing yourself is such a good trait to have these days but you should understand you can not be always right. Sometimes changing your perspective, changing the way you think can help to gain bigger wisdom. Try approaching different ways for things and that way you'll tend to make even better decisions. Don't rush it, first think about every possible path only then choose the best one for you. For the shadow side, these traits can sometimes lead towards dishonesty to prove your point right and can make you a little deceptive. Being independent is great but you should care about not obsessing over it.
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NOTE- Tarot cards only provide guidance and don't give out definite answers. It only gives possible insights based on certain energies, thoughts and surrounding vibes. This is a general reading with no solid opinions so only enjoy what resonates with you instead of paying it too much mind. Love y'all! Have fun mwah!!!
Group 1 is the purple butterfly, group 2 is the blue butterfly, and group 3 is the green butterfly.
GROUP 1 (Purple butterfly)
"You are supported and will have helpers whenever you need them. Let them come."
This is short and sweet:
You are not a target - You are only a victim if you choose to be.
Not everyone is out to get you.
If you have been bullied, or are experiencing that - you are NOT alone.
You could be thinking time has cut you off from others, how long it might have been since you were able to connect. Or perhaps you are worrying in time you will have no one.
Ultimately, you get to choose who you are, and what you think of yourself. So I will ask: Are you a victim? Or are you a strong person who deserves friendship?
Who are you - weak or strong? It's all about perception. What did you think of yourself before? and who are you becoming now?
You get to choose.
You are so, so powerful!
You can get out of a negative situation - seek help, to talk, and seek to see yourself in a different light!
Money signs because I'm manifesting it for everyone lol
"if you have a problem you have an opportunity, so let go of all blame"
Woo-woo! Negativity police check! Looks like we have a criminal on our hands!
Looks like you aren't seeing yourself for the energetic super power that you are. I'm seeing someone frustrated at other peoples BS - you could have experienced disappointment, or frustration.
But where is this coming from, hm?
Could it be, there is a reliance on others to set your mood to a positive one, as opposed to taking the helm for your own emotional management? (I do apologise if that sounds harsh but sometimes we need to shake ourselves).
Wake up, honey! You are giving your power away by letting others bother you this much. You are in charge of your feelings - so feel them! No blaming anyone! You feel how you feel and that's it. So, what are you gonna do next?
If this isn't you, and you're thinkin' - Tarotchariot, what are you TALKIN' ABOUT? - I suggest you look at the topic of emotional codependency within your relationships. if you feel emotionally secure, are you experiencing someone else who is reliant on you for validation? Does someone try to control the way you feel or react? Do you get set off by someone?
You are being asked to examine the emotional responsibility and caretaking of your own emotions, as well as others accountability for THEIRS.
There is a power give away here, and it's time to cut it out!
(PS. that situationship is no good! drop it! the romance police says NO)
Money signs for manifestation, you deserve treats!
I wouldn't be surprised group 3 if you selected another group. If you needed confirmation, this is it.
"Make real progress by pushing aside perfection and never looking back."
And so, as I thought, two cards from the previous groups show up TOGETHER. I feel like you might be interested to know, it's the 8 of swords and the devil.
This tells me of two things.
your self imposed trappings.
This belief that you need to be perfect, or have it all figured out. That's bol**cks. Who told you this cr*p? Think back on the way people spoke to you, or the things that were expected of you previously - the answer seems to be there.
The fear is stopping you. By holding yourself to these invisible standards, it helps no one. Literally, no one. There seems to be this part of you that wags their finger at you saying you shouldn't bother, or you did it wrong. If this is intense, please reach out for professional help. Someone here might struggle with OCD.
Your guides want you to move out and experience life, life in itself isn't actually that inherently safe as we would like it to be. Free yourself now and let yourself live!
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You could be feeling victimised despite the fact that you chose to move away from a toxic situation or person. If this is the case, yes that person was manipulative, and is kind of driving a narrative right now. But here's something cool:
It doesn't matter. It literally doesn't matter! Because you're not part of it anymore. You are not trapped in that situation anymore, so let it get out of your head, too! Don't stay trapped up there in your brain any longer, either. Toxic people love that power, so give it back to yourself and focus elsewhere. Give them the finger and walk away.
Hello friends! Pick a photo you feel drawn to, that sticks out to you or feels "right." Photos represent piles one through three, left to right.
This is a general reading; not everyone will resonate with this. If it feels true, take it with you!
I'd like to do more of these more regularly; little things you need to hear are one of my favorite readings 😊
Pile One:
You do a lot for other people. You're such a giving person. Maybe you focus on helping others so much because you feel like you need to be needed for people to keep you around. However, this has also created a situation in which you have no support. You feel that you can't ask for help from those same people you give so much to. BUT, you do have people who would be willing and able to help you! You are a member of your community, too. You deserve help and support when you need it. You're helping others even to your own detriment in some way. It's unsustainable. Getting some big "check yourself before you wreck yourself" vibes in that regard. Try reaching out to someone you know who you think could help you with something. Practice asking for help when you need it, and remind yourself that a "no" doesn't mean they resent you for asking, or won't be willing or able to help you in the future. You can also ask someone else for help with the same thing—the problem you need help with doesn't go away just because one person can't help. You don't deserve to suffer, and the people who love you don't want you to suffer, either.
Pile Two:
You have more power and control over your situation than you realize—and in fact, your current efforts are not in vain. They are paying off, even if it's a slow progress. Things have been really difficult, and it feels like they aren't getting any better, but you're doing it! You're working towards a better place, even if if feels like you aren't. On the flipside, you are allowed—required—to rest. Rome wasn't built in a day, and you should not hold yourself to that standard either. It probably feels like you aren't doing enough, and you need to get things done faster, but that could actually pull you into a spiral that sets you back again. Things are happening at the pace they need to happen. There is no need to rush it. Dedicate some time to working towards the future, and also take time to rest, to take care of yourself and make sure you're meeting your own needs. After all, it won't do any good to neglect what you need right now in an effort to meet your future needs.
Pile Three:
I think maybe you know what you need to hear, and have maybe been avoiding it because it's inconvenient or frightening. Three pentacle cards came up, so I feel like this is definitely related to work and/or finances. You're working a lot. A lot, a lot. You're neglecting your relationships, your wellbeing, your quality of life. And you know it's driving you into the ground, but you feel like you can't stop. This spread is letting you know that you really need to find a balance here. You need time to take care of yourself, your home, and your interpersonal relationships. This is potentially nearing "if you don't rest, your body will force you to" territory. It's also letting you know that you can make it work. This may require some creative problem solving, but the two of pentacles is saying that there is a solution here if you seek it.*
*I know this is a very touchy subject. I really hesitated to add this because of the nature of the topic, but I did draw this reading for pile three, and I figured maybe there was a reason. If it doesn't feel like it's applicable to your situation, it probably isn't, that's okay. This won't resonate with everyone. If it did help you, then I'm glad.
Divider Credits: @strangergraphics for pile three, @uzmacchiato for all others
