Wondering what you should do when you get one of those moments?
Pick a number between 1 - 4 !
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group 1
I'm getting that you could benefit from slowing down and doing things more methodically - try not to do things in such a hurry.
You could be going too fast or feel overstimulated. This /could/ be due to hormonal imbalances - or if you have periods? it might be that time.
Your advice is to take the day off. Anything that you can ask someone else to do (that is a necessity) ask them. Anything that isn't urgent - put it off till tomorrow.
Take a mental health day, you have permission!
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group 2
I'm getting butterflies with group 2. This could be generally feeling nervous about something, or you could be having nausea.
There could be social anxiety here or recently you were disappointed about something, maybe even in yourself.
You have quite a few suggestions!
Take care of your skin! You will feel better physically if you use lotion or try to soothe any dry/rough/itchy patches. Use something that smells amazing, or feels luxurious in some way.
Chocolate/cacao stuff. Whether it's scents, or eating something chocolatey. Have something even in a small way that resembles that. (as long as you aren't allergic)
Look in the mirror and say ONE good thing about yourself, to yourself. I will give you an example. "Your hair looks nice today". Or "you did a great job on that paper".
Be patient with yourself group 2.
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group 3
There are so many things that might benefit group 3, especially at other times than now, in the future that will still be valid.
Some here might have issues with dissociation, or maybe daydreaming a little too much. It's times like that especially, that some of these suggestions will serve you (when you feel unfocused).
Switch to being back in the moment by punching a pillow or shouting into it, instead of dwelling on emotions. Let them out on an inoffensive piece of furniture.
Another way for you to be in the present is to do stretches of all kinds. Focus on how better your joints feel, or breathing through bigger stretches that expand your current flexibility. Be brave.
Take the day off and bake. Following a recipe step by step will take you out of your head, and allow freedom. (there will also be something tasty by the end of it).
And finally, change the linen in your space. So if you for example find it difficult to change all of your bedding, change your pillow case. Or if you have the energy, clean your curtains. Something that just refreshes the material that you are on or around. It makes an enormous difference when your pillows feel clean and smell nice - if you have trouble letting go of old thoughts or memories, clean material = clean slate.
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group 4
You might be overdoing it group 4, or these suggestions are great when you've gotten stuck on something to the point you miss sleep. Someone here might even be up too late on the computer or gaming. At an extreme, we all know there can be too much of a good thing.
For some reason I got "head, shoulders, knees and toes" lol
We might have a hoarder here (I'm 99% joking)
Your suggestions are to clear out your clutter and organise. It might be overwhelming in your space or home right now, and you would feel TONS better if you got rid of any trash/unused items - and fully stored and organised what is important.
This combination of ideas also tells me that you might be (underneath it all) feeling really unproductive due to avoiding some of the day to day tasks in life. Which we all do - I've done it (and had to clean up for several hours because of it). You will feel so much better about yourself if you sort through some things :)
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Picture 1
The Empress, Nine of Pentacles, High Priestess.
Think of the Muse. But you to be your own muse and your own museum before even bringing your focus onto others. You've long catered to them, it's time to detach from the necccesity of your beauty and gifts only being real or valid if it pleases someone else. You need to leave that idea behind for some time because you won't be able to create from it otherwise.
You are meant to embody softness without apologizing for your sensitivity. Romanticize your life, create beauty wherever you go, and stop believing that tenderness makes you weak. Your gift is reminding others that gentleness is power. Some of you have spent too much time hiding your beauty, your talents, or your softness from the world. It’s time to crown yourself. This energy is about luxury and realizing that your mere presence is art. You don't need to chase anything; let your own blooming attract everything meant for you. Nourish your mind, romanticize your daily rituals, and step into your magnetic power.
You may have noticed the harder you grill and try the more futile your results have been. You may have grown resentful as a result as well.
Accept that you're a magnet for what you desire and also accept that you can nurture and keep them. By not over watering but learning that you and your environment are supposed to bloom simultaneously. Once you accept that, your own subconscious will make sure to move you to places which encourage that.
Picture 2
The Tower, Queen of Wands, Judgement.
Think of the Alchemist. You may have been deemed as weak or too contained, perhaps even a hermit by some. Maybe you yourself feel like something beyond than just a 'black sheep' in your family. You are meant to embody transformation. This is your season of turning endings into beginnings and pain into purpose. Trust your ability to rise from what tried to consume you.
You are undergoing a massive spiritual upgrade, it'll come in the form of sudden realisations or you trying to help someone and end up saying something that was the guidance you needed all along, could also be something your friend tells you and it ends up being just what you had to act on. However, this also requires burning away the versions of you that accepted less than you deserve and even wanted to begin with. This is a time of intense passion, creative awakening, internal as well as external transformation. I believe as though you've been craving for something that gives you a form of purpose. Something to devote yourself to. Stop playing nice with situations that drain your magic and draw a thick line between yourself and people who play coy and siphoon your energy instead
Rise from the ashes of your old self. And know that it's okay to let your desires consume you. It is also okay to be raw about certain things that caused you pain and grief. You don't have to forgive and let go when you can and are meant to transmute it. Be bold. Like they say, heavy is the head that wears the crown.
Picture 3
The High Priestess, Death, King of Swords.
Think of the mystic. You are meant to embody intuition. You don't need all the answers before taking the next step. The more you trust your inner voice, the more aligned your path becomes. Protect your energy and honor what you know deep within. As simple as that. You may have been subjected to people who have made you feel that you owe them and explanation for every little thing be it your goals, ideas, even what you like and dislike etc and they likely have controlled your narrative or have stolen your creative flow without giving anything back.
There is a powerful transformation happening in your subconscious mind and your voice. This energy is about the power of what is left unsaid, learning when to hold your peace and let your energy do the talking.
However, this long coccoon phase of yours is ending as well.
Listen to your dreams, trust your internal compass, and prepare to speak your truth into existence with absolute clarity and precision. Your words hold more power than you think.
I do twin flame readings, but only if the theme of the reading is why you are holding onto a toxic relationship, how to remove it from your life, and what healthy pattern can fill its place.
For the longest time your own indecisiveness has been the thorn in your chest. You may have felt mentally immovable from your circumstances. The first shift comes from realising that there's unexplored territory ahead.
Your shift is a reinvention through identity and self-worth. You’re shedding an older version of yourself that played small, stayed quiet, or shaped themselves around other people’s expectations. The energy here is elegance, confidence, attraction, and personal power. The word "refinement" popped up in my head. You are also moving away from the disposable or temporary and toward things that have lasting value and elegance.
You are becoming more selective with people, places as well as media. For some this can even be food. There will also be a shift in how you "speak" your truth.
You'll care less about proving yourself but put more emphasis on expressing yourself. Which in turn will shift your energy from being overlooked to actually commanding presence.
Previously you may have been more reactive or some of you may have suppressed your true emotions a lot but the connections you're about to make and build will be gentle ones, healing to the soul. So you wouldn't have to walk on egg shells feeling like you need to dim your light or dress a certain way so as to not stand out or fit in. There is emphasis on harmony and good friendships too. The same feeling we would get making friends as children. With a sense of innocence and not networking or status.
Timings: Coming 3 months
𝕻𝖎𝖈𝖙𝖚𝖗𝖊 𝟐
You've felt that each time you begin something or whenever anything of value is offered to you there's some pain that follows. You hesitate in your happiness.
You've learnt your grief too well. But you are also tired of walking with it. At this point you've begin to wonder what has all of this done to that very essence and foundation of yours? Is your wisdom through pain and surviving all that you are? A lot of what you've been used to is crumbling. Falling down like a house of cards. Only this time, you couldn't be happier.
I see a lot of emotional depth and healing. A transformation from the inside out. You’re not just changing externally but your emotional world, mindset, and inner stability are evolving too.
The attachments you let go of is making room for better connections, celebration and stability. You'll see whatever you have gratitude towards multiplying. You might feel inclined towards softer or lighter fabrics, shades of brown, white and dark green as well.
You will walk away, far away. An opportunity will come through, could be in the form of work, education, just ample money to travel etc. you don't need to worry about the bridge of incidences for this. You've been there for a lot of people, you have done your part, do your part in tending to yourself too. Something that involves you learning about what you love, how you express that love, romanticize your life for you instead of tending to the grieving bits constantly, build something out of that love. It's something you've craved to do anyway. Don't keep yourself from it.
Timings: 2 to 5 weeks from now.
𝕻𝖎𝖈𝖙𝖚𝖗𝖊 𝟑
You've often felt that you want too much so you didn't voice your desires or simply added a filter to them so that they looked "achievable" or "practical" to you and others. This has kept you from shining bright for the longest time. It has likely affected your chest in someway as well. Heaviness or tightness or perhaps even anxiety that sinks to your stomach.
Your shift is the biggest one since you're stepping into a completely different life or timeline. The old version of you cannot come where you’re going because new opportunities, environments, and standards are opening whether you're ready or not. Your next step is simply deciding that this is your new reality now the same way you decide to wake up in the morning, brush your teeth and then make yourself breakfast. Do not overcomplicate things further. Because you only need to tell yourself change is happening as you read. The pacing is not yours to worry about.
The biggest thing you need to remember is that you're not forcing your way in anymore. You belong in this new space. Your power won't be aggressive ambition, it'll be quiet certainty and controlled power. A sense of magnetism that you are building up. You need to trust in yourself before full evidence appears to you.
It is highly likely you'll be entering unfamiliar environments, becoming more private and discerning but I still see visibility and recognition for you and you having the confidence to be in it. I sense that you've lived your life on trial and service mode for so long, it is actually your time to finally embody and be. That in itself will align everything for you. If you leave behind people and places with this new identity, don't overthink too much on it. Those who belong by your side will still be there.
The angels sent you a letter! :0 It flew that way!
I wonder what it says? It must be pretty urgent for them to have literally flown over here.
I guess I'll organise them for you - they have numbers to pick from!
So it looks like letter 1 is the gold on top left. Group 2 is the red one top right. Group 3 is the green bottom left, and Group 4 is the pink bottom right! Whew.
Signs this could be for you, if you need confirmation:
you have been thinking about a sibling. Being far away from family. Lots of emotions about being unable to help someone.
You work with Aphrodite, or have seen things about them lately.
You have felt compelled to take your time. Realising you can’t force something.
Feeling very emotional lately. There has been an internal struggle/conflict of logic vs emotion.
You have been working on catching patterns/habits.
Your initials could include C or I.
The angels are asking you to take time alone now, to formulate your own thoughts. This kind of message tends to come up after times of chaos, busyness, and high energy.
You will have received nudges to do this, no matter how hard you have tried to focus on other things, or push through and get things done.
Your sticker says keep it up, and the angels want to say “Well done”.
For seeing the bright side.
For holding the love in the moment. For holding it together, even when things got hard. Even when you got so scared, or so angry you got nauseous.
Now is the time to rest. Put down your weapons. The angels ask you to surrender and embrace the loving energy they are sending to you. Because they are always sending this to you. It is available to you now.
Reinvention and comfort tells me that your life is undergoing a lot of recalibration, and so are you.
I will be honest about all of the things that come to mind, and the sensations that I get. I am getting a lot of emotion and even grief with this group, it may not be that extreme for many but there it is. For some this loss could be a break up.
This could be dealing with long held grief, if not recent.
If you have been finding yourself irritable, or holding back anger, this is a sign of underlying emotion.
The angels message is this:
Through all your of tears, and ends in life, they are always sitting next to you - letting you shed everything you need. Only by release, physical, emotional, energetic, can you begin anew. Anew not to replace how special something was, but a new start that lives in love of that. In honour of that.
And if you have lost someone, live anew - for them.
Whatever has saddened you, lean on your angels, or your deity/guide. They are comforting you as you read this very moment.
Adorn yourself says it as it is: Give yourself permission to be loved.
An Idea that comes in mind:
Meditate and imagine the sea, or physically go to the beach - imagine your emotions are all channeled into a pebble (feel them release into it, you no longer hold them), and you try to skip it along the water.
The more you do this with more pebbles, the lighter and better they are at skipping. All of your weighty emotions sank into the sea, ready to become part of natures cycle once more.
Oh group 2, I love that so much. You have the out of this world sticker, and you got fairy magic. You majestic souls, you!. I love this.
Ways to confirm this reading is for you:
Dark hair/eyes OR I’m getting mexican/spanish vibes.
You have worked with the fairies, or are working with them
Passionate/intense souls
Moonstone is prominent
Mix of fire/water elements
You enjoy quirky art
Enjoys dancing
Longer hair than expected for demographic/gender
Might have been feeling sad or down lately (initials spell out sad) OR your initials involve those letters.
Something you are waiting for will take a lunar cycle.
These cards are suggesting that you are in your head right now, and could benefit from reaching out (I know, I know - you seem the independent type) to someone who cares. Really tell them what’s on your mind.
Transport reads to me as movement as well, so physical movement is being advised for you, no matter how little you can do. If you’re not well, it can be as simple as doing some small stretches. Just know that the angels are requesting that you get some of your mental anxieties out via energetic movement.
Another thing the Angels are mentioning is banning gossip. And that goes for both ways - talking about others, but also caring about what others are saying. There could be something you enjoy doing that you could be afraid of showing to others, for fear of backpack or humiliation.
However, those who love you will accept all of your quirky and interesting self. I’m getting that one particular person in your life really genuinely loves everything about you. For some this is a partner, for others a mother figure. Please don’t be embarrassed about what you enjoy, or how you have been thinking lately. You are different, yes, but you are still so very human too.
Please don’t be shy! The first step is always to start moving, in the smallest way! The angels really want to mention that.
I just got a message that I saw later than I would have liked - and that really makes me think you could be thinking you’re too late to do something. I promise, people do so many things at all ages - life twists and turns and keeps things interesting. There is no set way, route or age.
I got “Dancing in your room, we’ll know better when you’re older” from a song too. You’ll only keep yourself waiting. Do it when you want to - which is clearly now. The angels are nudging you to be brave and step forward to the things you are interested in. They know if you look in hindsight, you would much prefer that you had a go at something. :)
Use your age to your benefit. You will never be this young again, after all.
Ultimately the angels message is this:
If you love it, go for it!
Ps. They say Love you (They think you’re such a cutie)
Hello group 3, I think your cards are really interesting. You’ve got a bit of a morose or thoughtful energy going on right now it seems.
Confirmation clues this is your group:
Your nails need a manicure
You feel out of balance in life or tend to be accident prone
You got really disappointed by something recently
You’re a shut book - It’s hard to get things from this group
It’s raining as you read this
Initials could be P, F, B
You are very imaginative (A daydreamer, an artist)
You enjoy time alone
I’m getting someone who loves so purely. Stars in their eyes love. You sure know how to yearn.
Group 3, you need to let go and let your hair down. I’m getting clues about your energy when it comes to feeling a bit tense, or introverted, and needing to loosen up.
The angels main message, is you’ve been way too serious lately. The things you have been asking them (or your guides) are all well and good, but if you’re not in the mindset, or energetically open, there’s not much you can do to sense the nuance in their answers. Often things are right under our nose anyway - much like the mouse atop the cats head.
Just like when we can’t find the other matching sock, it’s often overlooked, or in the most obvious place. But it takes being in a less intense searching energy - you think you have to empty the whole drawer to find it when in this mindset. (This is totally not a reflection of a recent event, I definitely didn’t overlook it after searching in places that were illogical for like 30 minutes. I definitely DID NOT do that). And instead of the sock, replace that with whatever you are trying to find. There must just be a sock goblin at my house. Thief.
In general, they want to tell you that life is always at a balance. Justice reminds us that there is a time for focus, and a time for play. You can’t go without one side. So stop being a stickler, and have some fun, darn it!
Not only that, but you are being urged to see where the love is in your life. Pay more attention to your loved ones or your partner. There is a lot of fun to be had, please don’t sacrifice that to be productive, or to try and figure something out. There is a time and place for things, and the time now is for fun. Everything will align, and you will be ready for the answers you seek after a refreshment break.
Take all the fun you can get, please. Mr/ms serious.
Ps. One of the ideas for you was to watch a movie or go to the cinema.
Pps. If you asked your angels a yes or no question, the answer is yes.
For some reason with grow with grace, I got growing pains. As you grow older and mature, there are certain moves you have to make that can be painful. An example would be moving out from the family home. While something is exciting, it will still require to leave things behind.
The angels are telling you it’s your time to shine and make a big move in life. These cards are pointing to an opportunity to go out and adventure in the world. Whether that’s a backpacking trip, or moving home abroad. I’m getting career vibes, so there could be an opportunity to really step up for you here, and it could require you learning something new, especially a language (or maybe even coding!).
Sometimes you have to say goodbye to things, as some are valid only for a season.
The angels want to give you a high five, as you are achieving something big in your life - whether this is finishing school, getting that role, or winning that opportunity.
I also got that you won’t be on your own during this opportunity - I’m seeing if it’s a move, it’s with a partner. Or if it’s a role, you will have support (such as it being an internship).
If this hasn’t happened for you yet, the angels are letting you know this is very possible for you. If it’s correct when it says “your spirit is in need of new adventure” then this is reminding you of what’s possible. The direction looks great when it comes to technology or communication.
The angels letter concludes that it is time for you to move forward now! It’s time to move on and adventure. You will learn so much about people, relationships, and how to effectively communicate!
The angels are so excited for you, if you are travelling (which seems strongly emphasised) just ask them for their protection!
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Most of you collectively and subconsciously decided that you wanted to know: Deep down, REALLY deep down - WHICH mean girl are you?
It’s the question of the century. Obviously, I will be picking a group. I hope it’s Regina *whispers*
So let’s settle down, grab a drink, and watch mean girls together while deciphering ourselves unnecessarily.
Pick from left to right, group 1 to 4.
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GROUP 1
Cady
“I lover her, she’s like a martian”
You clever thing, you. I know I won’t pick this group, because I hate maths. But you, you understand facts. If you’re not a mathematician in the making, you are my book-smart group. Less street-smart, maybe, but still. You’re a smart cookie and you can think fast!
Just like the martian quote, you could often feel that way in social settings. In school, you could have been the quiet one, or the one who was labelled as different. Maybe even misunderstood.
“Oh no, maybe it was only ok when Janis said it”
Cady is so smart, but so innocent. She doesn’t mean ill (at least not for now), but she can read the room wrong and have difficulty understanding the subtleties.
Just like her, you could have foot in mouth disease, or things tumble out way too fast and you just want to gather it all back in and rewind.
7 of swords shows up, and this echoes the sneakiness in Cady that you wouldn’t think she had, due to her innocent attitude. She really did shine with her cunning nature, when she interfered with Regina’s skin care and diet.
“You’re not pretending anymore, you’re plastic.”
Like Cady, you are capable of being a chameleon. However, you could face issues in losing your individuality due to it. There is an inner integrity that always calls you, though, and your feelings of shame arise whenever you feel like you’re not being true to who you are.
Here we have a group of people that have assimilated lessons regarding being true to themselves, honest, and understanding the impact their behaviour actually has on others. Because even if at times you thought you weren’t that important, people noticed you more than you think.
5 of pentacles and 10 of cups shows that you know what it’s like to be an outsider, to feel left out or the butt of a joke. But here, 10 of cups talks about finding happiness in where you are, and having a solid foundation with loved ones, prioritising family or those who you view as such.
Why are you so mean?
8 of swords
You turn the tables, and at times you could feel the need to victimise someone simply because they did that to you. You know how to put the spotlight on someone, just so, to highlight their flaws. You cunning creature.
With 4 of pentacles reversed and judgement, we see a person who can become envious without realising how it colours their actions, and in retrospect, how it impacts everyone.
It’s this odd sense of wanting to be just as important (if not more) yet not realising the power you actually hold right now.
Your mean girl healing moment
2 of cups, 7 of cups
Your healing moment as Cady comes when you realise you don’t have to pretend to be from the same school as strangers to make a true connection. (She doesn’t even go here)
I think Cady has a powerful mind, and it can make everything so much bigger and more important than it is a lot of the time. So here with the 7, we choose - who and what is most important to us? Which is the most valuable connection. We don’t need to please many, or be part of the group. Our solid, special and important connections are all we need to feel like we truly belong.
In the past you might have agreed to be friends or connected with people that you didn't feel that strong of a connection to, simply to have a connection.
You don't need to accept watered down relationships. If you aren't truly resonating with someone or a group, it means a different community is calling for you. There is someone who is quirky or different like you, who will have a special connection with you and you will FEEL it. Let yourself feel through social developments, rather than trying to think logically with that big noggin'. (As in, just because you think it logically works, doesn't mean it's the best thing for your happiness. Or just because someone offered to be your friend, doesn't mean you have to say yes.)
Your last special mention, a message just for our Cadys
Queen of plastics
You may never fully intend to be mean, but just like Cady innocently spat something out she doubted after, it’s important to try and be upstanding and considerate (yes, even if the person you are talking to is Regina).
This card talks about your caring, pragmatic and considerate spirit. You are truly a wonderful addition to those around you.
A special message for you is that it’s not wrong to have wondrous ideas, either. You will find a way, step by step, to make something happen in the real world. Don’t doubt your resourcefulness.
This is a reassurance as well that you can be yourself - dress how you want, wear makeup or don't, do what matters regardless of judgement.
Queen of plastics is also great with money so as a special mention, if you've not made financial plans as of yet - here's a sign to begin. It's a nice time to consider your practical future. (Money, plans on where you want to live, do you want a family, career ladder stuff).
If you have more than enough to get by, this is also a consideration on sharing generosity in a small way to those who are going through a tough time (such as the homelessness or displacement).
I hope you enjoyed your reading, Cady’s of the bunch - you are truly so smart, and you have the strongest ability to own yourself - I love that! Never make yourself small for anyone ever again!
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GROUP 2
Karen
“Oh my god Karen, you can’t just ask people why they’re white.”
Group 2 is my funny without trying to be funny group. You have a way of talking that makes people amused or laugh, and you could just be making an observation.
This group is giving air sign energy so prominent placements in gemini. libra or Aquarius. Doesn't have to be, but if you're looking for confirmation there it is. Another message of confirmation is that someone here is either considering or proceeding with a move of residence. There can be home improvements going on as well, especially with the garden.
Like Karen, you could have a fuller face, or a pouty look/bigger eyes. if not literally lighter hair.
Karen isn’t the brightest spark, but I wouldn’t take this as group 2 being dumb. This to me tells that you give an impression that you are away with the fairies, or a bit more spaced out. You could be very imaginative and open minded.
I like karen because she goes with the flow, and seems able to actually move on. You have a friendly, happy, cheerful vibe that is very much needed.
“If someone said something bad about you, you’d want me to tell you right?”
“No.”
Karen is so funny but so real. You could have the perspective here that there is no point dwelling, or giving power to something negative said about you.
You’d rather be doing whatever, and stay happy. She makes little mistakes like putting the jewels on the wrong way in the mirror, so you might find yourself getting things the wrong way around, or missing little details. This could be because your mind drifts elsewhere, or you get excited and hurry.
Out of all the mean girls, Karen is the most detached. So this tells me that group 2 here doesn't really have interest in creating drama, you can take it or leave it. But when something disturbs your peace, that's when you have a problem.
To be honest, I think Karen is the most emotionally stable one out of them all! We could learn so much from group 2. She's just here for the fun of it.
Queen of cups present in the reading tells me you might take a lot after your mother, regardless of gender.
Why can you be so mean?
Queen of cups, king of daggers
I had a intake of air then, gosh group 2s. The way you can be so mean is that you can appear friendly or nice one minute, but you can switch up all of a sudden!
I think a lot of the time it can happen when you are tired of someone and their behaviour. It’s like Karen on that phone call, one minute she doesn’t want to know - the next? She’s saying the cut throat “she’s so annoying” after playing nice.
If you aren’t feeling the best, and you really get tested (I’m going to assume you guys aren’t always going to feel this way, you’re my nice girls. Why isn’t there a movie called nice girls?) :(
ANYWAY. What was I saying.
You know where it hurts. You might, like Karen, be underestimated. However, when push comes to shove you know exactly what to say. And even the shortest sentence can be like a dagger to a heart. (And it can be shocking/hilarious to people watching)
I think you’re quick, pile 2. Quicker than people realise. They only find out when they try you.
(Great job at seeming friendly and nice but having that bite! I’m not complaining.)
Your mean girl healing moment
The Magician
Your healing and overcoming the inner mean girl spirit (letting go of the plastic) is all about acknowledging just how much you’ve got going for you. You are smarter than you think, more kind than you think, more realistic than you think, and more passionate than you think. I really strongly get the feeling group 2s here have been sooooo underestimated, just like Karen was the least mentioned mean girl.
The reason for this varies, Some of you could be attractive and that sets a negative view of your intellect. You could have your head in the clouds so people don’t think there’s much going on (spoiler: there’s a reason your head is up in the clouds - there’s a lot there).
Fact is, it’s not fair. And I really think our Karens here have been really impacted by the negativity, or the lack of recognition. Your intuition is on point as well, it’s your best asset. (Just like Karen, who is kind of psychic - she can tell when it’s going to rain, you know.)
A special message for group 2
The lovers
You are meant to experience love. For those in a relationship, it is truly special. For those not, you are going to align with your match. Gemini might be a significant sign, or during the months of June and September.
If you are looking for love, I’m getting that a red flag is if a person tries to get frisky with you too quickly. That’s going to be a sign they’re not it.
Your partner is (or will be), someone who is super smart. Professional type smart. You will think they are on a whole other level, and you don’t match - but what did I say about finding your match? You are just as smart. Maybe in different ways. You are going to laugh a lot. This is the person you can be your true self with, and that finally, you feel seen and valued.
They will love your energy, your cheer, and they will feel like you bring a lot of joy into their life.
You are meaningful.
Ok Karens, hope you enjoyed your reading!
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GROUP 3
Regina
“She’s a queen bee - a star”
“Regina’s like the barbie doll I never had. I’ve never seen anybody so glamorous.”
“I could hate her, and at the same time I still wanted her to like me”
My assertive king/queen! You have a spine of steel, literally.
“She fractured her spine, and she still looks like a rockstar”
Something I notice about Regina is that she can’t accept to simply love herself without question. When she invited Cady over with everyone, they gather in a mirror and admonish something about themselves, despite elevating themselves above others at school.
It’s almost as if she can’t fully accept herself. Maybe you still deal with insecurity or shame, no matter how many compliments you might receive.
You could have been guilty of judging others for 100% loving the way they look or act, because maybe you saw it as being full of themselves. It’s a strange way we sometimes balance it out, almost trying to humble ourselves without realising. I think you might get triggered by the Cadys in your life, because you wonder: can it really be that simple?
If Cady is booksmart, Regina is for sure street smart. You guys know what’s up! And you know how to play the game. Heck, you run the game.
You have a pull on people where they will believe a lot of what you say - you might find that people’s reactions to you have been strong. It might have taught you to use your words carefully since they hold power.
Regina actually gives me cancerian vibes, and scorpio vibes. You might have placements in those signs. They tend to be quite popular, and learn to really become powerful.
“Because she’s a life ruiner. She ruins people’s lives”
People could put you on a pedestal, and there might have been power imbalances.
Another thing of note that I think you have in common with Regina is that your emotions are VERY powerful. The rage in her scream when she discovered what was done to her was intense. You might have people TERRIFIED of making you angry. Your strong feelings are a superpower, for good or ill.
Why is group 3 so mean?
Strength, 7 of plastics
Group 3, just like regina, you have the tendency to overpower other people, alongside having a competitive spirit. You may want to win at times, no matter what. The true strength comes when you understand that sometimes, it hurts others. And sometimes, the strength is realising when something is worth winning or not. That goes for contests, and arguments too.
Regina loves being the Queen bee, and she can’t have that taken away from her. She is willing to do whatever she can to hold that power, and doesn’t want to allow everyone to shine in their own way. At your very worst, you may have a deep dark desire to push others out of the limelight, and be a one man band.
Your mean girl healing moment
10 of flames, the moon
Letting go of the need to win, have the last word, or know that you’ve had an emotional affect on another is your healing moment as a Regina.
In the scene, we see Cady choosing to let bygones be bygones, and “sucking the poison out” of the toxic situation she found herself in.
Maybe there have been moments where you felt you needed payback, you felt wronged. But now it’s time to acknowledge hard felt emotions, and move forward with your life. Your aggression or need to win can, like regina, be expressed elsewhere.
The wrongs can be righted, by letting go emotionally. We don’t need to be like Gretchen, having a breakdown in a classroom. We can be graceful, like Cady here.
Special message for our Regina’s
2 of swords, death
If you’ve been wondering will they, won’t they, or whether it’s time to drop something or someone - death suggests that yes, there’s no hanging on to this. Let’s not ruminate any longer and put ourselves in paralysis.
I’m getting a situation-ship vibe for someone here (not all).
If you have felt betrayed by someone, now is the time to let it go. Not for them, but for your own peace of mind. To suck out the poison, so you can live again.
For maybe the rare person, I’m getting the possibility of someone near to you being on the fence when it comes to their health, or potentially passing. It might be a bit of a waiting game (And that might be wearing you down in multiple ways).
Because of the halloween reference, October might be an important month.
I’m seeing someone possibly having lost an old school friend as well, and the memories might be flooding back.
For another (quite a few options here aren’t there) there could be guilt or a feeling of obligation that may have been pressuring you, and it’s time to release that. Whatever you think you should or should not have done, it is something you need to acknowledge as just the way you feel - not necessarily fact.
If this is about someone you love (or loved) or feeling like you made the wrong choice, please know that you did the best you could considering the state of your emotions at that time. There might have been some things you didn’t know, so please don’t hold yourself hostage to self blame or guilt.
Group 3, you are so powerful. I hope you realise that. You are also capable of much grace, and if you are on a healing journey I’m rooting for you. You deserve to feel good about yourself. It helps not only you, but everyone else too. When you refocus, so does everyone else. You lead.
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GROUP 4
Gretchen
“That’s why her hair is so big - it’s full of secrets.”
Just like Gretchen you might be a stickler for rules, even self imposed ones. Type A personality. You could also have dark hair and eyes.
Like this quote above mentions, group 4s are the best out of all here for keeping secrets and are the most trustworthy for keeping their mouths zipped. Just as the secrets slip out when she's finally had enough, group 4 only lets it out when they feel they are done protecting someone.
Gretchen is wonderful yet so insecure, and tries her very best to people please to be accepted.
My Gretchen’s here, you are truly a loyal friend. You tend to be the mediators, the ones that can get stuck in the middle. You might have felt overlooked, even though you were there for people the most, or for the longest time.
Gretchen is giving that person in the friend group where if there’s less room on a path, everyone walks together and you are the one alone behind.
Gretchen goes on to learn a language and be part of a different group. Similar to Cady, she struggles with her own independence and trying to be accepted. However, this is quite talented and so this can suggest that group 4’s here either know more than one language, or are able to learn. You have the brain for it! You are smart with communication. Again, pointing to the mediation aspect. We have our natural communicators, therapists and maternal friends.
Why are you such a mean girl?
Queen of plastics, 9 of daggers
Most of the time I don't think group 4 is actually that mean, to be fair. This gives the idea of someone who has been through things, and when you are thinking clearly, you wouldn't dare add to someone's trials.
However, in moments where you aren't feeling yourself:
Your anxiety can get the best of you and make you act out. This is the group most likely to have been bullied, or been a bully (Or both! at different times), and I think that has contributed to your mental wellbeing in some way.
Queen of plastics in this context, can talk about being careless or not realising when someone is going through something. Here, she can lack the considerate nature of queen of plastics generally.
Next to 9 of daggers, your inner mean girl can shine through when you are wrapped up in your own troubles. When you have lots of stresses, other peoples problems either shrink or become invisible. (Not judging you, this is a classic trap of the human brain) You might have had a dark moment when you think other people have it easy compared to you.
There’s also an aspect of… you are not one to directly cause problems, especially socially.
But if you are in a negative spiral, you might feel that you are better than others as a result. That’s your inner mean girl. It really brings out the mediator aspect of Gretchen - she’s outside the conflict, she’s just passing on messages. She’s the nice one, after all, right? Why is everyone else being so crazy? *nudge nudge*
Healing the inner mean girl
7 of flames
Your healing mean girl journey involves learning to be assertive and when it’s important to stand up for yourself, rather than 100% stay out of difficult situations. Sometimes you need to be the “problematic” person, because it’s about something important.
You needn’t be like Gretchen, ironing over things and going by other peoples rules all the time. You can make your own that you stand by! Wear those hoop earrings!
You might have a fear of intimidating other people, and as a result, pushing them away. But for you, group 4, in your situation I think if something is worth it, and you are being respectful then there is nothing to worry about. People who don’t want fairness, or don’t care about your well being will likely be the ones who react badly - they are the people you shouldn’t worry about displeasing.
There seems to be a difficult time balancing your assertiveness over all. Maybe at certain points you were at extremes, and have surrendered to now just being passive, in fear of a bad reaction.
The key here is in acknowledging that you have grown into a person who can use their power and assertiveness for good. Trust in your ability to be fair and balanced when expressing your needs. And trust that others will show whether you want to be “in” with them or not, through their reaction.
Special message for our Gretchens
Temperance
I’m not kidding, I shuffled this after writing about difficulty striking that balance.
Some of you here could be fire signs, especially sagittarius, or have an earth placement. Maybe a mix of both.
I think you can get in your head a lot. You seem like a great person who is a wonderful friend to have, but you might have found yourself taken advantage of a lot, or made to be quiet.
These cards show a person who may not have been taught what true inner power or healthy self assertion looked like, even growing up. But I’m seeing someone with emotional/relational intellect and wisdom that can definitely learn what it feels like to be balanced. Your emotional IQ is tip-top.
I’m seeing a person who doubts their ability too. Someone who has been put down in the past, maybe by a Regina in their life. How do you balance your identity by letting yourself feel capable, without letting it get to your head? I think group 4 worries a lot about that sort of thing.
But this is a reassurance for you. You are a kind person. You are a patient person. You have grown a lot. The only true battle is with your own head, after having the past experiences that you’ve had.
You might be receiving a lot of messages to slow down, or balance instead of 100% resting or 100% being active. This is an important time in your life right now, maybe for your health (both mental or physical).
You are being asked to view yourself and others with due compassion. You could be pretty tough on yourself, so remember to pour into your cup and rejuvenate. Take a mental health break as well, because as much as I’d like to see you on my page, I like it better when you drop social media, to stop your brain going into overdrive.
Extra note: You’ll know when to take the next step. You will feel when it’s right, so don’t overdo it.
Group 4, I hope you enjoyed it and I wish for the peace that you deserve. Go do something repetitive or lightly focused (an example is knitting) and decompress. Stop pressuring yourself.
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That’s all we have, plastics!
Thanks so much for letting me identify you as one of the mean girls.
We are not all truly mean girls, but we certainly have that streak that can run away sometimes! Let’s move on as a better, wiser, and more rounded person just like they do in the end.
