The purpose of this is to provide fun pick a card readings, while not filling my main feed of them to be considerate to uninterested followers.
It will also help to be more organised, and to help you find what you need! I hope you enjoy, as my intention is to interest or uplift with anything I may bring to this page.
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A side note: Pick a card readings are purely for fun, or perhaps even a little inner reflection. If they make you feel fearful or anxious, please do avoid them, and do know you are welcome to chat with me about it.
As we speak, a specific goddess is in the background, supporting you.
Letâs unveil who this is with the help of Goddess oracle cards, so that we can amplify their blessings!
What does the Goddess have to say to you?
Pick between 1 -7, in the picture below.
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GROUP 1
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Butterfly Maiden
âYou are experiencing enormous change right now, which brings great blessings.â
This Goddess is a Native American spirit who ensures bountiful harvests. Sheâs a springtime Goddess who helps us escape from any cocoon situation that may feel trapping to us, or traps our joy. This Goddess is one to call on when you feel stuck. She will also guide you through life transitions.
I think a sentence I heard might apply: âItâs like youâre not sure when to walk awayâ.
âAs you go through this period of change, itâs natural for you to wonder if your future is safe. Iâm here to assure you that youâre part of natures cycle of birth, death and rebirth. To bring in desired newness, you must let old parts of your life fall away. These changes are to be celebrated, not feared.â
This Goddess is reassuring you, and helping you to breath deeply through the fearful and anxious moments. Even when good might be happening, it could still be overwhelming to your mind or nervous system. Itâs time to reach out now, slowly and surely. You are really blossoming and growing as a person!
You could see signs of this goddess through butterflies, moths, and something else I canât quite put my finger on⊠Itâs like it has a big body with wings. Not a bee or wasp, something even less harmless. Tell me if there is another flying insect that youâve been seeing a lot, or got real close to you.
The bigger the butterfly (or other) the bigger the change!
Iâm also seeing a telephone, so an important call could come through this summer.
I see children, and plaiting hair. Green really stands out too.
Let me know if this resonated!
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GROUP 2
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AineÂ
Leap of faith
âTake a risk, and put your heartâs true desire into action!â
Group two, itâs time to throw your hat in the ring - I nearly wrote heart. This could be a leap of faith romantically for someone here, and for another it could be for a goal. Are there some football (soccer) lovers here? Iâve been watching the matches taking place in America. Crazy times, though.
Ok also, Iâm seeing a little bit of a tower moment (real? Imagined? Anxiety about it? Not sure) But Iâm seeing a situation that sucks, and thereâs no better time to try for something, the logic behind it being what else is there to lose. I hope you get what I mean by thatâŠ
example: A person loses their job, hasnât gotten employed again yet, so they think - may as well try a side hustle, not like it would hurt to see. That kind of thing.
The guidebook description talks about a tendency to procrastinate and ignore dreams or wishes. Indecision blocks growth, and your souls desire. It asks you not to worry about making a wrong decision - making a decision is better than not making one at all. Do not allow yourself to freeze like this.
It goes on to say once you choose, and settle with a goal or dream, heaven will support it!
The power is in the decision, in the intention! So set it!
Guidebook messages:
Your chosen path is the right one for you
Your material needs will be taken care of
Take action steps towards you dream
âDonât hesitate or delay a moment longer!â
About:
Aine is a Celtic goddess and a fairy queen. She helps to grow crops and oversee animals. She had many children with mortal men.
Call on Aine when you desire guidance and the courage to take risks.
Hope that made sense!
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You got two goddess cards group 3, how lucky are you? Oh my. If you felt drawn to group 1, itâs ok, just means thereâs a lot of energy and work in your life - go ahead and read it. Triple goddess energy.Â
Ishtar
Boundaries
âLove yourself enough to say no to others demands on your time and energy.â
Ishtar feels really to the point, I opened the guidebook and landed IMMEDIATELY on her page.
Ishtar has been invoked since the Babylonian times as an embodiment of Venus energy. Ishtar is all about the divine feminine and all aspects of that - nurturing, fertility, healing and much more. She will help both men and women.
âA sincere desire to give and be of service is wonderful. However, thereâs a distinction between giving of yourself, and giving up yourself. If you feel tired, guilty, or resentful when helping others, then youâre not truly helping them, are you? Youâre injecting poisonous energy into the relationship, and then no one benefits. Step back and reassess the situation. As you respect your own boundaries, others will begin to recognise them within you, and within themselves too.â
-Youâre giving too much
-Donât do things out of obligation
I do think youâre very tired, because Iâm finding myself get woozy, and a little mixed up while I type. Please get some extra sleep, and unwind. It feels like you need to spend some time doing not very much (Calmly napping, cuddling a pet, watching a silly show, etc) Take a deep breath, and let yourself be still.
Next we have Vesta.
Vesta is the roman goddess of home and hearth. She is a fire goddess who brings warmth to homes. Call upon her for changes that you want to see in your home situation.
Looks like these boundaries have most to do with your home life, and family. Especially those you live with!
âYour household situation is improving, either through a move or a healthy change in the occupants.â
Guidebook notes:
Youâre moving/just moved
A problem with neighbours is resolving
Clear the space in your home (I also think clear the energy)
Increased romance/harmony in the home
Iâm getting a lot of responsible energy from this group. Itâs clear as day that you may benefit from delegating chores, only taking your fair share in duties, and defining whoâs space is where in shared living. With Ishtar and boundaries, and a mention of neighbours, this could be pointing to issues of a land boundary, such as where your garden ends and theirs begins. Maybe there have been arguments or pettiness.
It seems very tiresome right now, please call on these goddesses to give you courage to put your foot down and demand the space you deserve, the rights you deserve, the rest you deserve.
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Group 4, you got 2 goddess cards! Though I think one card may be describing your spirit guide. Could it be for someone here Artemis acts as your guide? Or a goddess closely works with you already?
Before I properly begin to write and share the meanings, I feel the need to mention how I had a big urge to take a break, have a snack, get hydrated, and with both these cards they are quite nature oriented. I wonder if youâve been getting messages to get outside, get fresh air, take care of yourself etc.
Artemis
Artemis, the greek Goddess, is the twin sister of Apollo, the sun God. She can help us concentrate and focus, just like she does with her bow and arrow. She offers protection to all who call upon her.
âYou and your loved ones are safe and spiritually protected.â
âLike me, you have a sacred mission to spread love and light. ( As I typed that, I heard âlet there be lightâ) Yet this isnât a position that comes with tension or worry. Instead, the gentle essence of a joyful heart sets your power into motion. Why would there be any tension in your mind or system unless you somehow believed you were unsafe? And how could you be unsafe when you have called upon the spiritual warriors to watch over you? Your prayers have activated the flawless protection of heaven.â
-Angels are watching over you and your family.
-The worst is now behind you
Cordelia
Go outside
âYou have been indoors too long. Go outside and get some fresh air.â
Both of these cards so far as well are giving animal vibes. If you have a pet, make sure to spend time with them - it will help your nervous system and they want to be near you anyway. If you have been worried about any animals wellbeing, or concerned about animal welfare, these 2 Goddesses are listening and helping you endeavour to improve the lives and wellbeing of all animals. If you are feeling called to work with animals in any capacity, you are being supported! Ask for protection for yourself, those you care about, and vulnerable animals.
Cordelia is a Celtic fairy Goddess who helps watch over the flowers that bloom during spring and summer. These may be very important seasons for you this year. She is associated with Beltane. You can also call upon her to thaw out a cold situation such as a dreary relationship or job.
Notes:
-Spend time in nature
-Make job changes that allow you to connect with nature in some way
-Practice environmentalism
-Balance your life. Make sure to play.Â
If you have been facing issues within a group, call upon both of these goddesses to create warmth and joy in the environment.
Lastly, Iâm seeing someone here could be worried about global warming, and the wellbeing of the environment. You are very much heard by the Goddesses, and as you call on them for guidance, you too can do your bit to protect the world and itâs inhabitants.
Be receptive to the guidance of these beings, as they can give you a very specific focus to the betterment of your surroundings.
Group 4 I really like you, you seem like a very caring person.
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GROUP 5
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Isis
Past life
âThis situation involves your past life memories.â
Iâm seeing genuinely a heavy or intense past life for those in group 5, that issue is definitely showing up. You could have patterns or habits that relate to that life, without realising. You could also behave defensively, even if you havenât experienced a particular issue in this current lifetime. The fear of something may still remain in your energy!
Persecution could have been a factor. Iâm seeing an innocent person who was judged or harmed. Iâm also seeing knights of templar. I really notice how the figure clutches onto their item - there could have been a big loss in that life, and you never could move on, or your sentimentality simply took hold of you.
You could have been a water sign, or you are now. As for places, there are quite a few different ones, including egypt/greece. Someone here could have Pluto in the 12th, or 1st house. There is a feeling of atonement.
Isis is coming forward to say you only have to pay as long as you think you have to. You could release this, by choice. Any promises, any regrets, any shame - it is only so strong because you havenât let go since that time. You have a choice - will you let go, now?
You could feel like a villain, even when you havenât objectively been one. Other people might have made you feel like you were, when in reality they were the villains. You read as the type of person who is deathly afraid of being bad, of doing bad. Know that these deep fears come from that past life, or the things you went through currently (whether deserved or not).
There is deep shame for some reason here, and Isis is with you to get you past that. There is also extremely self protective energy. This could genuinely be from some type of trauma, whether current life or previous. Isis does seem like the perfect being to aid with such deep matters. I notice Isis is a very wise being, who works with people of great depth too. Isis is not for the weak of mind. You must be very strong. Itâs genuinely a gift and a complement if Isis reaches out to you.
Call upon Isis to help you let go of the past. You can begin anew.
A sign she might be with you could be goosebumps or a shiver.
âYour roots upon this planet are strong and deep, and some of the roots have anchored you so deeply, in fact, that youâre paralysed when it comes to moving forward. Iâve called your attention to this conditions so that you may unearth and uproot past memories. Sometimes you bury those memories to shield yourself from psychic pain or embarrassment, so you wonât remember those awkward moments when life tested you to the maximum. Reveal those lessons to yourself now, strong sorcerer/sorceress and move forward.â
-get a past life regression to gain insights
-Ancient fears from a past life are resurfacing now
-Your current situation relates to a childhood issue
Isis is the Egyptian high priestess moon goddess. She is motherly AND business like. Feminine yet extremely strong. She married Osiris, and had a son, Horus. Isis is known as a goddess of divine magic and alchemy. Work with her for witch craft only if you are serious about it. You can call upon her to assist in many areas, including help with past life memories.
If this touches on a past life you know about, Iâd love to hear!
I wish for the best for you group 5, I genuinely think you are good people. You care too much to be a villain lol.
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Lakshmi - Bright future
âStop worrying. Everything is going to be fine.â
I would be so amused if anyone from group 5 came here.
Lakshmi is a hindu goddess who brings abundance to those who call her. Sheâs happy to bring supply to you, whether that means money, time, knowledge or opportunity. She works with Ganesh, who is known as the overcomer of obstacles. They both help release fear and accept abundance.
âThis is a kind universe, and everyone within it is working in your favour. There are no tests, obstacles, or blocks in your way, except your own projections of fear into your future. Why would you wish darkness upon yourself when light shines all around you? Step into this brightness by lightening your thoughts and feelings. You must stop worrying. Refuse to think of anything except your bright today and tomorrow, and I promise you it shall be so.â
Iâm also seeing that you should allow yourself to be in photos more! You will love to look back on happy, bright times, and your youth. Even if you think youâre 'old' now, this is the youngest you will be! So really memorialise stuff to remember well.
This Goddess asks you to be present in the moment as there is something good to just sink into right now. Whether thatâs good food, a healthy relationship, or a comfortable place to stay. There is something to celebrate, and simply enjoy to the fullest. If there is an opportunity for a vacation, go for it! It looks like it will be fun.
When this card shows up, you really, truly are looked after. You are going to be ok. Things are going to be ok. When in doubt, when you want to know you will have what you need, call upon Lakshmi, and she will smile upon you and your fortune.
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Hello group 7, you have the lucky number, and I got âI should be so luckyâ in my head as I started to type. Maybe this is a reference to your love life, as the lyrics say.
You have two cards, and they are both Egyptian goddesses. You might have a very strong connection to Egypt, the culture, or perhaps you are an old soul. With the lion, there could be people with Leo placements here - take that as extra confirmation.
For some reason health and wellness is coming through. This is confirmation that itâs a good idea to improve your bodily strength and fitness, with the help of professionals who can assist you in knowing what is healthiest for your body.
For those who are single, Iâm seeing if you feel stronger in your body, that will translate to other areas of your life. It will help your confidence immensely, and you will begin to behave differently and as a result, you could attract better potential partners who align with you more.
Sekhmet - Be strong
âYou are stronger than you think you are, and your strength assures a happy outcome.â
Her name means strong and mighty. Sekhmet is fiercely protective. Call upon her to shore up your strength and power. She is married to the deity Ptah. She sometimes appears as a woman with the head of a lion.
Bast - IndependentÂ
âYour independence is a foundation for your strength and successâ
She shows herself as a cat and protects with her night seeing vision. Her traits are graceful, independent, playful, intuitive. Bast also works with cat lovers to help them. She is daughter of sun God, Ra. She is both a moon AND sun goddess.Â
These cards are interesting combined. Thereâs something that you need to hold out, for your own sake. Whether thatâs resisting the temptation to eat a full party size cake alone (What, just me?), or to message that ex. Whatever it is you have to stick to, you can do it! Call upon these Goddesses for the self control, strength and grace to do whatâs best for you and your wellbeing!
These Goddesses love to remind you of your inherent divine nature, your worthiness, how very special you truly are. How you deserve to ooze confidence and security in your own body. You deserve to feel good in yourself, and about yourself.
So whether this is a detox, a glow up, or a health kick, you can do this!Â
These two cards also suggest not to give into peer pressure, and do things on your own call. People might have opinions on how you should look or live your life, but do what is healthy and right for YOU.
Extra notes from the guidebook:
-Donât yield to pressure
-Donât underestimate yourselfÂ
-Avoid indulging in complaining
-Spend some time alone
-Make your own decision
-Ask for needs to be met
Hope you liked your reading!
Ps. Is there like one person who has an overweight cat here lmao, ask Bast for help to improve their health and habits.
Wondering what you should do when you get one of those moments?
Pick a number between 1 - 4 !
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group 1
I'm getting that you could benefit from slowing down and doing things more methodically - try not to do things in such a hurry.
You could be going too fast or feel overstimulated. This /could/ be due to hormonal imbalances - or if you have periods? it might be that time.
Your advice is to take the day off. Anything that you can ask someone else to do (that is a necessity) ask them. Anything that isn't urgent - put it off till tomorrow.
Take a mental health day, you have permission!
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group 2
I'm getting butterflies with group 2. This could be generally feeling nervous about something, or you could be having nausea.
There could be social anxiety here or recently you were disappointed about something, maybe even in yourself.
You have quite a few suggestions!
Take care of your skin! You will feel better physically if you use lotion or try to soothe any dry/rough/itchy patches. Use something that smells amazing, or feels luxurious in some way.
Chocolate/cacao stuff. Whether it's scents, or eating something chocolatey. Have something even in a small way that resembles that. (as long as you aren't allergic)
Look in the mirror and say ONE good thing about yourself, to yourself. I will give you an example. "Your hair looks nice today". Or "you did a great job on that paper".
Be patient with yourself group 2.
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group 3
There are so many things that might benefit group 3, especially at other times than now, in the future that will still be valid.
Some here might have issues with dissociation, or maybe daydreaming a little too much. It's times like that especially, that some of these suggestions will serve you (when you feel unfocused).
Switch to being back in the moment by punching a pillow or shouting into it, instead of dwelling on emotions. Let them out on an inoffensive piece of furniture.
Another way for you to be in the present is to do stretches of all kinds. Focus on how better your joints feel, or breathing through bigger stretches that expand your current flexibility. Be brave.
Take the day off and bake. Following a recipe step by step will take you out of your head, and allow freedom. (there will also be something tasty by the end of it).
And finally, change the linen in your space. So if you for example find it difficult to change all of your bedding, change your pillow case. Or if you have the energy, clean your curtains. Something that just refreshes the material that you are on or around. It makes an enormous difference when your pillows feel clean and smell nice - if you have trouble letting go of old thoughts or memories, clean material = clean slate.
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group 4
You might be overdoing it group 4, or these suggestions are great when you've gotten stuck on something to the point you miss sleep. Someone here might even be up too late on the computer or gaming. At an extreme, we all know there can be too much of a good thing.
For some reason I got "head, shoulders, knees and toes" lol
We might have a hoarder here (I'm 99% joking)
Your suggestions are to clear out your clutter and organise. It might be overwhelming in your space or home right now, and you would feel TONS better if you got rid of any trash/unused items - and fully stored and organised what is important.
This combination of ideas also tells me that you might be (underneath it all) feeling really unproductive due to avoiding some of the day to day tasks in life. Which we all do - I've done it (and had to clean up for several hours because of it). You will feel so much better about yourself if you sort through some things :)
The angels sent you a letter! :0 It flew that way!
I wonder what it says? It must be pretty urgent for them to have literally flown over here.
I guess I'll organise them for you - they have numbers to pick from!
So it looks like letter 1 is the gold on top left. Group 2 is the red one top right. Group 3 is the green bottom left, and Group 4 is the pink bottom right! Whew.
Signs this could be for you, if you need confirmation:
you have been thinking about a sibling. Being far away from family. Lots of emotions about being unable to help someone.Â
You work with Aphrodite, or have seen things about them lately.
You have felt compelled to take your time. Realising you canât force something.
Feeling very emotional lately. There has been an internal struggle/conflict of logic vs emotion.
You have been working on catching patterns/habits.
Your initials could include C or I.
The angels are asking you to take time alone now, to formulate your own thoughts. This kind of message tends to come up after times of chaos, busyness, and high energy.
You will have received nudges to do this, no matter how hard you have tried to focus on other things, or push through and get things done.
Your sticker says keep it up, and the angels want to say âWell doneâ.
For seeing the bright side.Â
For holding the love in the moment. For holding it together, even when things got hard. Even when you got so scared, or so angry you got nauseous.
Now is the time to rest. Put down your weapons. The angels ask you to surrender and embrace the loving energy they are sending to you. Because they are always sending this to you. It is available to you now.Â
Reinvention and comfort tells me that your life is undergoing a lot of recalibration, and so are you.Â
I will be honest about all of the things that come to mind, and the sensations that I get. I am getting a lot of emotion and even grief with this group, it may not be that extreme for many but there it is. For some this loss could be a break up.Â
This could be dealing with long held grief, if not recent.
If you have been finding yourself irritable, or holding back anger, this is a sign of underlying emotion.
The angels message is this:
Through all your of tears, and ends in life, they are always sitting next to you - letting you shed everything you need. Only by release, physical, emotional, energetic, can you begin anew. Anew not to replace how special something was, but a new start that lives in love of that. In honour of that.Â
And if you have lost someone, live anew - for them.Â
Whatever has saddened you, lean on your angels, or your deity/guide. They are comforting you as you read this very moment.
Adorn yourself says it as it is: Give yourself permission to be loved.Â
An Idea that comes in mind:
Meditate and imagine the sea, or physically go to the beach - imagine your emotions are all channeled into a pebble (feel them release into it, you no longer hold them), and you try to skip it along the water.
The more you do this with more pebbles, the lighter and better they are at skipping. All of your weighty emotions sank into the sea, ready to become part of natures cycle once more.
Oh group 2, I love that so much. You have the out of this world sticker, and you got fairy magic. You majestic souls, you!. I love this.
Ways to confirm this reading is for you:
Dark hair/eyes OR Iâm getting mexican/spanish vibes.
You have worked with the fairies, or are working with them
Passionate/intense souls
Moonstone is prominent
Mix of fire/water elements
You enjoy quirky art
Enjoys dancing
Longer hair than expected for demographic/gender
Might have been feeling sad or down lately (initials spell out sad) OR your initials involve those letters.
Something you are waiting for will take a lunar cycle.
These cards are suggesting that you are in your head right now, and could benefit from reaching out (I know, I know - you seem the independent type) to someone who cares. Really tell them whatâs on your mind.
Transport reads to me as movement as well, so physical movement is being advised for you, no matter how little you can do. If youâre not well, it can be as simple as doing some small stretches. Just know that the angels are requesting that you get some of your mental anxieties out via energetic movement.Â
Another thing the Angels are mentioning is banning gossip. And that goes for both ways - talking about others, but also caring about what others are saying. There could be something you enjoy doing that you could be afraid of showing to others, for fear of backpack or humiliation.Â
However, those who love you will accept all of your quirky and interesting self. Iâm getting that one particular person in your life really genuinely loves everything about you. For some this is a partner, for others a mother figure. Please donât be embarrassed about what you enjoy, or how you have been thinking lately. You are different, yes, but you are still so very human too.Â
Please donât be shy! The first step is always to start moving, in the smallest way! The angels really want to mention that.Â
I just got a message that I saw later than I would have liked - and that really makes me think you could be thinking youâre too late to do something. I promise, people do so many things at all ages - life twists and turns and keeps things interesting. There is no set way, route or age.
I got âDancing in your room, weâll know better when youâre olderâ from a song too. Youâll only keep yourself waiting. Do it when you want to - which is clearly now. The angels are nudging you to be brave and step forward to the things you are interested in. They know if you look in hindsight, you would much prefer that you had a go at something. :)
Use your age to your benefit. You will never be this young again, after all.
Ultimately the angels message is this:
If you love it, go for it!
Ps. They say Love you (They think youâre such a cutie)
Hello group 3, I think your cards are really interesting. Youâve got a bit of a morose or thoughtful energy going on right now it seems.
Confirmation clues this is your group:
Your nails need a manicure
You feel out of balance in life or tend to be accident prone
You got really disappointed by something recentlyÂ
Youâre a shut book - Itâs hard to get things from this group
Itâs raining as you read this
Initials could be P, F, B
You are very imaginative (A daydreamer, an artist)
You enjoy time alone
Iâm getting someone who loves so purely. Stars in their eyes love. You sure know how to yearn.
Group 3, you need to let go and let your hair down. Iâm getting clues about your energy when it comes to feeling a bit tense, or introverted, and needing to loosen up.Â
The angels main message, is youâve been way too serious lately. The things you have been asking them (or your guides) are all well and good, but if youâre not in the mindset, or energetically open, thereâs not much you can do to sense the nuance in their answers. Often things are right under our nose anyway - much like the mouse atop the cats head.
Just like when we canât find the other matching sock, itâs often overlooked, or in the most obvious place. But it takes being in a less intense searching energy - you think you have to empty the whole drawer to find it when in this mindset. (This is totally not a reflection of a recent event, I definitely didnât overlook it after searching in places that were illogical for like 30 minutes. I definitely DID NOT do that). And instead of the sock, replace that with whatever you are trying to find. There must just be a sock goblin at my house. Thief.
In general, they want to tell you that life is always at a balance. Justice reminds us that there is a time for focus, and a time for play. You canât go without one side. So stop being a stickler, and have some fun, darn it!Â
Not only that, but you are being urged to see where the love is in your life. Pay more attention to your loved ones or your partner. There is a lot of fun to be had, please donât sacrifice that to be productive, or to try and figure something out. There is a time and place for things, and the time now is for fun. Everything will align, and you will be ready for the answers you seek after a refreshment break.
Take all the fun you can get, please. Mr/ms serious.
Ps. One of the ideas for you was to watch a movie or go to the cinema.
Pps. If you asked your angels a yes or no question, the answer is yes.
For some reason with grow with grace, I got growing pains. As you grow older and mature, there are certain moves you have to make that can be painful. An example would be moving out from the family home. While something is exciting, it will still require to leave things behind.
The angels are telling you itâs your time to shine and make a big move in life. These cards are pointing to an opportunity to go out and adventure in the world. Whether thatâs a backpacking trip, or moving home abroad. Iâm getting career vibes, so there could be an opportunity to really step up for you here, and it could require you learning something new, especially a language (or maybe even coding!).
Sometimes you have to say goodbye to things, as some are valid only for a season.
The angels want to give you a high five, as you are achieving something big in your life - whether this is finishing school, getting that role, or winning that opportunity.Â
I also got that you wonât be on your own during this opportunity - Iâm seeing if itâs a move, itâs with a partner. Or if itâs a role, you will have support (such as it being an internship).
If this hasnât happened for you yet, the angels are letting you know this is very possible for you. If itâs correct when it says âyour spirit is in need of new adventureâ then this is reminding you of whatâs possible. The direction looks great when it comes to technology or communication.
The angels letter concludes that it is time for you to move forward now! Itâs time to move on and adventure. You will learn so much about people, relationships, and how to effectively communicate!
The angels are so excited for you, if you are travelling (which seems strongly emphasised) just ask them for their protection!
Most of you collectively and subconsciously decided that you wanted to know:Â Deep down, REALLY deep down - WHICH mean girl are you?
Itâs the question of the century. Obviously, I will be picking a group. I hope itâs Regina *whispers*
So letâs settle down, grab a drink, and watch mean girls together while deciphering ourselves unnecessarily.
Pick from left to right, group 1 to 4.
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GROUP 1
Cady
âI lover her, sheâs like a martianâ
You clever thing, you. I know I wonât pick this group, because I hate maths. But you, you understand facts. If youâre not a mathematician in the making, you are my book-smart group. Less street-smart, maybe, but still. Youâre a smart cookie and you can think fast!
Just like the martian quote, you could often feel that way in social settings. In school, you could have been the quiet one, or the one who was labelled as different. Maybe even misunderstood.
âOh no, maybe it was only ok when Janis said itâ
Cady is so smart, but so innocent. She doesnât mean ill (at least not for now), but she can read the room wrong and have difficulty understanding the subtleties.Â
Just like her, you could have foot in mouth disease, or things tumble out way too fast and you just want to gather it all back in and rewind.Â
7 of swords shows up, and this echoes the sneakiness in Cady that you wouldnât think she had, due to her innocent attitude. She really did shine with her cunning nature, when she interfered with Reginaâs skin care and diet.
âYouâre not pretending anymore, youâre plastic.â
Like Cady, you are capable of being a chameleon. However, you could face issues in losing your individuality due to it. There is an inner integrity that always calls you, though, and your feelings of shame arise whenever you feel like youâre not being true to who you are.
Here we have a group of people that have assimilated lessons regarding being true to themselves, honest, and understanding the impact their behaviour actually has on others. Because even if at times you thought you werenât that important, people noticed you more than you think.
5 of pentacles and 10 of cups shows that you know what itâs like to be an outsider, to feel left out or the butt of a joke. But here, 10 of cups talks about finding happiness in where you are, and having a solid foundation with loved ones, prioritising family or those who you view as such.
Why are you so mean?
8 of swords
You turn the tables, and at times you could feel the need to victimise someone simply because they did that to you. You know how to put the spotlight on someone, just so, to highlight their flaws. You cunning creature.
With 4 of pentacles reversed and judgement, we see a person who can become envious without realising how it colours their actions, and in retrospect, how it impacts everyone.
Itâs this odd sense of wanting to be just as important (if not more) yet not realising the power you actually hold right now.
Your mean girl healing moment
2 of cups, 7 of cups
Your healing moment as Cady comes when you realise you donât have to pretend to be from the same school as strangers to make a true connection. (She doesnât even go here)
I think Cady has a powerful mind, and it can make everything so much bigger and more important than it is a lot of the time. So here with the 7, we choose - who and what is most important to us? Which is the most valuable connection. We donât need to please many, or be part of the group. Our solid, special and important connections are all we need to feel like we truly belong.
In the past you might have agreed to be friends or connected with people that you didn't feel that strong of a connection to, simply to have a connection.
You don't need to accept watered down relationships. If you aren't truly resonating with someone or a group, it means a different community is calling for you. There is someone who is quirky or different like you, who will have a special connection with you and you will FEEL it. Let yourself feel through social developments, rather than trying to think logically with that big noggin'. (As in, just because you think it logically works, doesn't mean it's the best thing for your happiness. Or just because someone offered to be your friend, doesn't mean you have to say yes.)
Your last special mention, a message just for our Cadys
Queen of plastics
You may never fully intend to be mean, but just like Cady innocently spat something out she doubted after, itâs important to try and be upstanding and considerate (yes, even if the person you are talking to is Regina).
This card talks about your caring, pragmatic and considerate spirit. You are truly a wonderful addition to those around you.
A special message for you is that itâs not wrong to have wondrous ideas, either. You will find a way, step by step, to make something happen in the real world. Donât doubt your resourcefulness.
This is a reassurance as well that you can be yourself - dress how you want, wear makeup or don't, do what matters regardless of judgement.
Queen of plastics is also great with money so as a special mention, if you've not made financial plans as of yet - here's a sign to begin. It's a nice time to consider your practical future. (Money, plans on where you want to live, do you want a family, career ladder stuff).
If you have more than enough to get by, this is also a consideration on sharing generosity in a small way to those who are going through a tough time (such as the homelessness or displacement).
I hope you enjoyed your reading, Cadyâs of the bunch - you are truly so smart, and you have the strongest ability to own yourself - I love that! Never make yourself small for anyone ever again!
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GROUP 2
Karen
âOh my god Karen, you canât just ask people why theyâre white.â
Group 2 is my funny without trying to be funny group. You have a way of talking that makes people amused or laugh, and you could just be making an observation.
This group is giving air sign energy so prominent placements in gemini. libra or Aquarius. Doesn't have to be, but if you're looking for confirmation there it is. Another message of confirmation is that someone here is either considering or proceeding with a move of residence. There can be home improvements going on as well, especially with the garden.
Like Karen, you could have a fuller face, or a pouty look/bigger eyes. if not literally lighter hair.
Karen isnât the brightest spark, but I wouldnât take this as group 2 being dumb. This to me tells that you give an impression that you are away with the fairies, or a bit more spaced out. You could be very imaginative and open minded.
I like karen because she goes with the flow, and seems able to actually move on. You have a friendly, happy, cheerful vibe that is very much needed.
âIf someone said something bad about you, youâd want me to tell you right?â
âNo.â
Karen is so funny but so real. You could have the perspective here that there is no point dwelling, or giving power to something negative said about you.
Youâd rather be doing whatever, and stay happy. She makes little mistakes like putting the jewels on the wrong way in the mirror, so you might find yourself getting things the wrong way around, or missing little details. This could be because your mind drifts elsewhere, or you get excited and hurry.
Out of all the mean girls, Karen is the most detached. So this tells me that group 2 here doesn't really have interest in creating drama, you can take it or leave it. But when something disturbs your peace, that's when you have a problem.
To be honest, I think Karen is the most emotionally stable one out of them all! We could learn so much from group 2. She's just here for the fun of it.
Queen of cups present in the reading tells me you might take a lot after your mother, regardless of gender.
Why can you be so mean?
Queen of cups, king of daggers
I had a intake of air then, gosh group 2s. The way you can be so mean is that you can appear friendly or nice one minute, but you can switch up all of a sudden!Â
I think a lot of the time it can happen when you are tired of someone and their behaviour. Itâs like Karen on that phone call, one minute she doesnât want to know - the next? Sheâs saying the cut throat âsheâs so annoyingâ after playing nice.
If you arenât feeling the best, and you really get tested (Iâm going to assume you guys arenât always going to feel this way, youâre my nice girls. Why isnât there a movie called nice girls?) :(
ANYWAY. What was I saying.
You know where it hurts. You might, like Karen, be underestimated. However, when push comes to shove you know exactly what to say. And even the shortest sentence can be like a dagger to a heart. (And it can be shocking/hilarious to people watching)
I think youâre quick, pile 2. Quicker than people realise. They only find out when they try you.
(Great job at seeming friendly and nice but having that bite! Iâm not complaining.)
Your mean girl healing moment
The Magician
Your healing and overcoming the inner mean girl spirit (letting go of the plastic) is all about acknowledging just how much youâve got going for you. You are smarter than you think, more kind than you think, more realistic than you think, and more passionate than you think. I really strongly get the feeling group 2s here have been sooooo underestimated, just like Karen was the least mentioned mean girl.Â
The reason for this varies, Some of you could be attractive and that sets a negative view of your intellect. You could have your head in the clouds so people donât think thereâs much going on (spoiler: thereâs a reason your head is up in the clouds - thereâs a lot there).Â
Fact is, itâs not fair. And I really think our Karens here have been really impacted by the negativity, or the lack of recognition. Your intuition is on point as well, itâs your best asset. (Just like Karen, who is kind of psychic - she can tell when itâs going to rain, you know.)
A special message for group 2
The lovers
You are meant to experience love. For those in a relationship, it is truly special. For those not, you are going to align with your match. Gemini might be a significant sign, or during the months of June and September.
If you are looking for love, Iâm getting that a red flag is if a person tries to get frisky with you too quickly. Thatâs going to be a sign theyâre not it.Â
Your partner is (or will be), someone who is super smart. Professional type smart. You will think they are on a whole other level, and you donât match - but what did I say about finding your match? You are just as smart. Maybe in different ways. You are going to laugh a lot. This is the person you can be your true self with, and that finally, you feel seen and valued.
They will love your energy, your cheer, and they will feel like you bring a lot of joy into their life.Â
You are meaningful.
Ok Karens, hope you enjoyed your reading!
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GROUP 3
Regina
âSheâs a queen bee - a starâ
âReginaâs like the barbie doll I never had. Iâve never seen anybody so glamorous.â
âI could hate her, and at the same time I still wanted her to like meâ
My assertive king/queen! You have a spine of steel, literally.
âShe fractured her spine, and she still looks like a rockstarâ
Something I notice about Regina is that she canât accept to simply love herself without question. When she invited Cady over with everyone, they gather in a mirror and admonish something about themselves, despite elevating themselves above others at school.Â
Itâs almost as if she canât fully accept herself. Maybe you still deal with insecurity or shame, no matter how many compliments you might receive.Â
You could have been guilty of judging others for 100% loving the way they look or act, because maybe you saw it as being full of themselves. Itâs a strange way we sometimes balance it out, almost trying to humble ourselves without realising. I think you might get triggered by the Cadys in your life, because you wonder: can it really be that simple?
If Cady is booksmart, Regina is for sure street smart. You guys know whatâs up! And you know how to play the game. Heck, you run the game.Â
You have a pull on people where they will believe a lot of what you say - you might find that peopleâs reactions to you have been strong. It might have taught you to use your words carefully since they hold power.
Regina actually gives me cancerian vibes, and scorpio vibes. You might have placements in those signs. They tend to be quite popular, and learn to really become powerful.
âBecause sheâs a life ruiner. She ruins peopleâs livesâ
People could put you on a pedestal, and there might have been power imbalances.Â
Another thing of note that I think you have in common with Regina is that your emotions are VERY powerful. The rage in her scream when she discovered what was done to her was intense. You might have people TERRIFIED of making you angry. Your strong feelings are a superpower, for good or ill.
Why is group 3 so mean?
Strength, 7 of plastics
Group 3, just like regina, you have the tendency to overpower other people, alongside having a competitive spirit. You may want to win at times, no matter what. The true strength comes when you understand that sometimes, it hurts others. And sometimes, the strength is realising when something is worth winning or not. That goes for contests, and arguments too.
Regina loves being the Queen bee, and she canât have that taken away from her. She is willing to do whatever she can to hold that power, and doesnât want to allow everyone to shine in their own way. At your very worst, you may have a deep dark desire to push others out of the limelight, and be a one man band.
Your mean girl healing moment
10 of flames, the moon
Letting go of the need to win, have the last word, or know that youâve had an emotional affect on another is your healing moment as a Regina.
In the scene, we see Cady choosing to let bygones be bygones, and âsucking the poison outâ of the toxic situation she found herself in.Â
Maybe there have been moments where you felt you needed payback, you felt wronged. But now itâs time to acknowledge hard felt emotions, and move forward with your life. Your aggression or need to win can, like regina, be expressed elsewhere.Â
The wrongs can be righted, by letting go emotionally. We donât need to be like Gretchen, having a breakdown in a classroom. We can be graceful, like Cady here.
Special message for our Reginaâs
2 of swords, death
If youâve been wondering will they, wonât they, or whether itâs time to drop something or someone - death suggests that yes, thereâs no hanging on to this. Letâs not ruminate any longer and put ourselves in paralysis.Â
Iâm getting a situation-ship vibe for someone here (not all).
If you have felt betrayed by someone, now is the time to let it go. Not for them, but for your own peace of mind. To suck out the poison, so you can live again.
For maybe the rare person, Iâm getting the possibility of someone near to you being on the fence when it comes to their health, or potentially passing. It might be a bit of a waiting game (And that might be wearing you down in multiple ways).
Because of the halloween reference, October might be an important month.
Iâm seeing someone possibly having lost an old school friend as well, and the memories might be flooding back.
For another (quite a few options here arenât there) there could be guilt or a feeling of obligation that may have been pressuring you, and itâs time to release that. Whatever you think you should or should not have done, it is something you need to acknowledge as just the way you feel - not necessarily fact.Â
If this is about someone you love (or loved) or feeling like you made the wrong choice, please know that you did the best you could considering the state of your emotions at that time. There might have been some things you didnât know, so please donât hold yourself hostage to self blame or guilt.
Group 3, you are so powerful. I hope you realise that. You are also capable of much grace, and if you are on a healing journey Iâm rooting for you. You deserve to feel good about yourself. It helps not only you, but everyone else too. When you refocus, so does everyone else. You lead.
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GROUP 4
Gretchen
âThatâs why her hair is so big - itâs full of secrets.â
Just like Gretchen you might be a stickler for rules, even self imposed ones. Type A personality. You could also have dark hair and eyes.
Like this quote above mentions, group 4s are the best out of all here for keeping secrets and are the most trustworthy for keeping their mouths zipped. Just as the secrets slip out when she's finally had enough, group 4 only lets it out when they feel they are done protecting someone.
Gretchen is wonderful yet so insecure, and tries her very best to people please to be accepted.
My Gretchenâs here, you are truly a loyal friend. You tend to be the mediators, the ones that can get stuck in the middle. You might have felt overlooked, even though you were there for people the most, or for the longest time.
Gretchen is giving that person in the friend group where if thereâs less room on a path, everyone walks together and you are the one alone behind.Â
Gretchen goes on to learn a language and be part of a different group. Similar to Cady, she struggles with her own independence and trying to be accepted. However, this is quite talented and so this can suggest that group 4âs here either know more than one language, or are able to learn. You have the brain for it! You are smart with communication. Again, pointing to the mediation aspect. We have our natural communicators, therapists and maternal friends.
Why are you such a mean girl?
Queen of plastics, 9 of daggers
Most of the time I don't think group 4 is actually that mean, to be fair. This gives the idea of someone who has been through things, and when you are thinking clearly, you wouldn't dare add to someone's trials.
However, in moments where you aren't feeling yourself:
Your anxiety can get the best of you and make you act out. This is the group most likely to have been bullied, or been a bully (Or both! at different times), and I think that has contributed to your mental wellbeing in some way.
Queen of plastics in this context, can talk about being careless or not realising when someone is going through something. Here, she can lack the considerate nature of queen of plastics generally.Â
Next to 9 of daggers, your inner mean girl can shine through when you are wrapped up in your own troubles. When you have lots of stresses, other peoples problems either shrink or become invisible. (Not judging you, this is a classic trap of the human brain) You might have had a dark moment when you think other people have it easy compared to you.
Thereâs also an aspect of⊠you are not one to directly cause problems, especially socially.Â
But if you are in a negative spiral, you might feel that you are better than others as a result. Thatâs your inner mean girl. It really brings out the mediator aspect of Gretchen - sheâs outside the conflict, sheâs just passing on messages. Sheâs the nice one, after all, right? Why is everyone else being so crazy? *nudge nudge*
Healing the inner mean girl
7 of flames
Your healing mean girl journey involves learning to be assertive and when itâs important to stand up for yourself, rather than 100% stay out of difficult situations. Sometimes you need to be the âproblematicâ person, because itâs about something important.Â
You neednât be like Gretchen, ironing over things and going by other peoples rules all the time. You can make your own that you stand by! Wear those hoop earrings!
You might have a fear of intimidating other people, and as a result, pushing them away. But for you, group 4, in your situation I think if something is worth it, and you are being respectful then there is nothing to worry about. People who donât want fairness, or donât care about your well being will likely be the ones who react badly - they are the people you shouldnât worry about displeasing.Â
There seems to be a difficult time balancing your assertiveness over all. Maybe at certain points you were at extremes, and have surrendered to now just being passive, in fear of a bad reaction.Â
The key here is in acknowledging that you have grown into a person who can use their power and assertiveness for good. Trust in your ability to be fair and balanced when expressing your needs. And trust that others will show whether you want to be âinâ with them or not, through their reaction.
Special message for our Gretchens
Temperance
Iâm not kidding, I shuffled this after writing about difficulty striking that balance.Â
Some of you here could be fire signs, especially sagittarius, or have an earth placement. Maybe a mix of both.
I think you can get in your head a lot. You seem like a great person who is a wonderful friend to have, but you might have found yourself taken advantage of a lot, or made to be quiet.
These cards show a person who may not have been taught what true inner power or healthy self assertion looked like, even growing up. But Iâm seeing someone with emotional/relational intellect and wisdom that can definitely learn what it feels like to be balanced. Your emotional IQ is tip-top.
Iâm seeing a person who doubts their ability too. Someone who has been put down in the past, maybe by a Regina in their life. How do you balance your identity by letting yourself feel capable, without letting it get to your head? I think group 4 worries a lot about that sort of thing.Â
But this is a reassurance for you. You are a kind person. You are a patient person. You have grown a lot. The only true battle is with your own head, after having the past experiences that youâve had.Â
You might be receiving a lot of messages to slow down, or balance instead of 100% resting or 100% being active. This is an important time in your life right now, maybe for your health (both mental or physical).
You are being asked to view yourself and others with due compassion. You could be pretty tough on yourself, so remember to pour into your cup and rejuvenate. Take a mental health break as well, because as much as Iâd like to see you on my page, I like it better when you drop social media, to stop your brain going into overdrive.Â
Extra note: Youâll know when to take the next step. You will feel when itâs right, so donât overdo it.
Group 4, I hope you enjoyed it and I wish for the peace that you deserve. Go do something repetitive or lightly focused (an example is knitting) and decompress. Stop pressuring yourself.
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Thatâs all we have, plastics!
Thanks so much for letting me identify you as one of the mean girls.
We are not all truly mean girls, but we certainly have that streak that can run away sometimes! Letâs move on as a better, wiser, and more rounded person just like they do in the end.
Iâm going to give you 3 options that are super secret, and whichever gets the most votes I will create the reading topic secretly assigned to it asap.
Iâm going to give you 3 options that are super secret, and whichever gets the most votes I will create the reading topic secretly assigned to it asap.
Group 1 is the purple butterfly, group 2 is the blue butterfly, and group 3 is the green butterfly.
GROUP 1 (Purple butterfly)
"You are supported and will have helpers whenever you need them. Let them come."
This is short and sweet:
You are not a target - You are only a victim if you choose to be.
Not everyone is out to get you.
If you have been bullied, or are experiencing that - you are NOT alone.
You could be thinking time has cut you off from others, how long it might have been since you were able to connect. Or perhaps you are worrying in time you will have no one.
Ultimately, you get to choose who you are, and what you think of yourself. So I will ask: Are you a victim? Or are you a strong person who deserves friendship?
Who are you - weak or strong? It's all about perception. What did you think of yourself before? and who are you becoming now?
You get to choose.
You are so, so powerful!
You can get out of a negative situation - seek help, to talk, and seek to see yourself in a different light!
Money signs because I'm manifesting it for everyone lol
"if you have a problem you have an opportunity, so let go of all blame"
Woo-woo! Negativity police check! Looks like we have a criminal on our hands!
Looks like you aren't seeing yourself for the energetic super power that you are. I'm seeing someone frustrated at other peoples BS - you could have experienced disappointment, or frustration.
But where is this coming from, hm?
Could it be, there is a reliance on others to set your mood to a positive one, as opposed to taking the helm for your own emotional management? (I do apologise if that sounds harsh but sometimes we need to shake ourselves).
Wake up, honey! You are giving your power away by letting others bother you this much. You are in charge of your feelings - so feel them! No blaming anyone! You feel how you feel and that's it. So, what are you gonna do next?
If this isn't you, and you're thinkin' - Tarotchariot, what are you TALKIN' ABOUT? - I suggest you look at the topic of emotional codependency within your relationships. if you feel emotionally secure, are you experiencing someone else who is reliant on you for validation? Does someone try to control the way you feel or react? Do you get set off by someone?
You are being asked to examine the emotional responsibility and caretaking of your own emotions, as well as others accountability for THEIRS.
There is a power give away here, and it's time to cut it out!
(PS. that situationship is no good! drop it! the romance police says NO)
Money signs for manifestation, you deserve treats!
I wouldn't be surprised group 3 if you selected another group. If you needed confirmation, this is it.
"Make real progress by pushing aside perfection and never looking back."
And so, as I thought, two cards from the previous groups show up TOGETHER. I feel like you might be interested to know, it's the 8 of swords and the devil.
This tells me of two things.
your self imposed trappings.
This belief that you need to be perfect, or have it all figured out. That's bol**cks. Who told you this cr*p? Think back on the way people spoke to you, or the things that were expected of you previously - the answer seems to be there.
The fear is stopping you. By holding yourself to these invisible standards, it helps no one. Literally, no one. There seems to be this part of you that wags their finger at you saying you shouldn't bother, or you did it wrong. If this is intense, please reach out for professional help. Someone here might struggle with OCD.
Your guides want you to move out and experience life, life in itself isn't actually that inherently safe as we would like it to be. Free yourself now and let yourself live!
2.
You could be feeling victimised despite the fact that you chose to move away from a toxic situation or person. If this is the case, yes that person was manipulative, and is kind of driving a narrative right now. But here's something cool:
It doesn't matter. It literally doesn't matter! Because you're not part of it anymore. You are not trapped in that situation anymore, so let it get out of your head, too! Don't stay trapped up there in your brain any longer, either. Toxic people love that power, so give it back to yourself and focus elsewhere. Give them the finger and walk away.
Pick a card reading: How is your loved one in spirit?
This reading was from the past, and I have no decided to post it after a long time. This was meant to be a timeless reading so it will still apply for you.
Last week (late june to early july 2021) , my father passed.
I babble here, press "keep reading" to get to picking a card.
I debated whether I would be able to create any content. Whether I had anything in me to give out, or any energy. I am a big advocate of being gentle with yourself and taking time out if something big has happened. However, the way I am coping with this loss, is to be active and to do things. Perhaps others can relate.
When I thought about what kind of "positive" pick a card I could bring out, all that I could think of - was perhaps something that showed energy continues, in a different way. Our loved ones aren't lost, and they still care for us and watch over us.
I kept thinking, it's too soon to hope for any signs from my father. There's usually an adjustment that needs to be made, usually angels or guides or other help needs to be assisting them. This is my way, though.
Sometimes, your faith can be tested. Sometimes, you're afraid of accepting what you usually would have taken as signs or synchronicities. Strangely, you can become sceptical. But I think it's because you just want it so much, and you don't want it to be pretend. You want it to be real, as real as it can be.
So here's to you, who share the feelings of loss, sentiment, and the knowing that things can never be the same. Perhaps just different.
I'm not saying I'm a skilled medium or anything. I've asked for the angels help, and our guardian angels to bring forward protection and messages. Hopefully, I can just see something and bring it to the table. Please know I mean well, and I hope we can all see what we need to. If you feel that you didn't get a message, don't worry, there will be one on its way to you in a different way.
-Many hugs from me, and from your loved one in spirit.
How is your loved one in spirit?
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There are 7 groups. Here is a list of what the charms assigned are to choose from:
A fortune cookie slip
A heart pendant with a pawprint
A purple bead (we call it the mystery bead)
Hello Kitty pendant
Beer cap
"YUP" badge
Sparkly, lilac bead.
((There are more than a few ways you can choose. You can choose what reminds you of someone. You can choose what stands out to you the most. You can choose the number, or a number that might be important to you. Maybe you have a lucky number here. Any way you would like to do this, I encourage you to pause, take a few deep breaths and be calm. You can close your eyes, and ask the angels or your guide, or even your specific loved one to direct you to it. It's all up to you, and if you have a hard time choosing, please don't force yourself to. Everything in its own time.))
Doubt, Honesty, Motivation, Healing from the past, relationship dynamics, Heal, Master, well deserved reward.
First impressions that may relate:
Head injury, maybe just had headaches a lot, something to do with the brain, a really shaky feeling, especially the hands, maybe nervousness or just the affect of a physical ailment, kind of skittish energy. Very shaky again when laying out the cards. "master" has a heart standing out so maybe for others there was a heart condition or someone had heartbreak.
Initials that may be connected: D - H - Z
Firstly I want to mention the message of the fortune cookie, which may be an added note to you from your loved one. It says: All your hard work will soon pay off.
With the well deserved reward card here in reverse, I can't help but get the impression maybe this person felt unsuccessful in life, but they believe you can be, and you can overcome the things that they didn't.
There's a lot going on here, because I'm seeing a few issues that loved ones might have had. I'm seeing the potential of one or perhaps more of the following:
Struggling with addiction
Struggling with trusting people
Struggling with an abusive partner or being abusive at some point, or betrayal
Struggling with having healthy relationship dynamics (for example, co-dependency)
Feeling like they messed up
Feeling like they put effort into relationships/work but never got things in return or recognition.
In this collection of cards, there are more masculine people than anything here. While this in my mind doesn't determine the gender of this person, I see it more as an energetic style. Masculine in my mind, means more action oriented, more motivated, more generous.
I can't help but think this person was hard on themselves and had a harsh opinion, because it seems now that they are in spirit, they are recognising what they've achieved in ways, and they are getting recognition in the spirit world. There are a few notes I made at first, and right before I get on that - They are ok. They are now healing.
They are free. Free from what once bound them in life. They are now geared up to begin truly healing and seeing themselves in a compassionate light. They're really looking deep inside themselves, looking at their own behaviour and that of others. This is a phase of deep insight and understanding for them, most likely looking back at their life. For this reason, I believe they may come to you and value your opinion on what might have transpired, as well as your opinion on the way they handled things in life. For this reason, you're welcome to write to them or speak out/pray to them and let your thoughts out.
If this person was involved in an unhealthy dynamic with you specifically, or hurt you, they want you to know that they are learning and taking stock of what happened, taking responsibility.
A song in the background stuck out to me just now, so in case it offers anything, I'll share some lyrics:
"You really gotta let this go man, if you wanna keep on growing, you gotta leave some things behind. You gotta step out of that mind, this time."
More than anything, I can say they are perfectly ok, and they are in a healing phase, learning to truly let go of the past. They seemed to have their fair share of suffering. I keep thinking, they just wanted recognition. It was partly an ego based thing.
I get the idea that they would like to heal their connection with you, or continue to support you with ensuring your relations in your life are healthy and happy. If they had troubled relationships especially, they want to help you and advise you in a way that you don't repeat or emulate what they experienced. For some who were a parent or grandparent of yours, they would like to see you discontinue patterns that formed in the family. Learn from their experiences. They just plainly and simply want healthy and happy connections for you.
Nothing has truly hurt them, only that there is a wish they listened more to their intuition about things or people who may not have meant well or taken advantage.
They may have had a closed heart when alive, but now their heart energy is opening and they are opening up to being more vulnerable. Therefore, they are more able to reach out, connect and feel more expressive.
I thought "poisoning themselves" and this could mean many things. It could mean eating unhealthily, taking part in activities that weren't helpful for them, anything.
I'm seeing a focus more on relationships, and the saying "under the thumb".
I'm also seeing feeling out of power when they were in physical, but now they are in spirit, they are regaining their inner power and energy.
Their life lessons may have involved honesty, intuition, and letting go of control.
Their message to you says:
True wisdom comes when you get quiet and listen to your inner voice. The mountain is to remind you of the clarity that can be found when you take the time to be still and hear the messages from your higher self.
I'm seeing their message is they would like you to move on, heed the call of your higher self and heed your intuition. You may be coming to a big obstacle in your life right now, but this isn't to scare you, it is to reassure that part of overcoming that is to release the past. Things are paved out for you, and you will intuitively follow it if you allow yourself. Their advice is to really hone in on the words people say. I really feel like that's a big deal for them. If you have a weird feeling, investigate it.
Lastly, there are too many hints that there is something that you have been working really hard on is going to go well for you. Know that they're watching you and they're very proud. An example I can think of right now is if the family had never gone to college, and you're the first one to stick at it and get into a great college. Or you're the first one to get a great paying job after the family struggled monetarily. Just seeing you as successful somehow and being very proud because they never did it.
You seem responsible for breaking a certain pattern, or are on your way to doing that. Know that you do your loved ones a great service by doing this.
I hope this all made sense to you, and know there's much love, respect and protectiveness here for you from your loved one.
First impressions: Straightforward and confident, more simple and down to it.
Initials that may relate: S - A - M
They miss those on earth very much (deeply), but they were tired and ready to pass on it seems. I'm so sorry if it's correct when I say it was a slower passing.
I'm seeing a stubborn mindset, not in a bad way. I'm seeing a few different kinds of loved ones. For one this might actually be a pet, for another this is someone passed over who loved animals and may be with a pet that they loved. A necklace/chain really stands out. There also seems to be skin discoloration or a condition.
They watch over you and any other loved ones very closely, they miss being there and they know how much they are missed, too. They appreciate the love and the memories, they acknowledge the conversations, and I'm seeing candles lit for them or specific events held in their honour. That doesn't mean it has to be big, I just mean anything small or large that you or others have done in their name, or in thoughts of them.
In this group it seems more of a simple message for you, rather than to be about them. I'm seeing leaving was scary for them, but having the faith to let go. It appears more peaceful. I don't think there was any pain or struggle, from what I see in the cards.
I'm seeing sisterhood. There are more female figures in this group so it is more feminine energy whether trait wise or gender wise.
I get the feeling that when they let go and returned to spirit, they were greeted by other loved ones and family. The souls in this group want to help the earth and those on it, especially their darling loved ones. They have a bigger mission in mind. They have accomplished much lesson wise. I got the word 'sophisticated'.
I see this being when they were incarnated as a very unselfish
They were more sad to leave people behind, than anything. I'm seeing a very loving energy with a great enjoyment of music, whether listening or playing instruments. You may receive messages from them via music, so keep an ear out. If you have heard a song that pulled your heart strings, or reminded you of them, this is confirmation that they are with you.
They are in a space in the spirit world where they are fully embracing the energy and feeling far more used to it, they have acclimated well to it once again. They are ok and enjoying the freedom of movement. They will always be keeping an eye out for you. They love you very dearly and give you really big hugs, the person with their arms wide open really gives me the feeling of bear hugging.
Darling, it was their time. It just simply was, I see that because of a very spiritual influence, speaking of divine timing. Know that they weren't alone when they passed on, and you aren't alone, either. They are here supporting you and thinking of you very much.
Their advice card says:
It's time to take a leap of faith. To trust that there will be a soft landing as you leap forwards in your life now. Go for that promotion, ask for that pay rise; whatever it is now's your moment.
Trust like they did. Trust that you won't be alone, whatever you do in life. Trust that you're going into a positive period of change. Trust your instinct to make that move you've been really thinking on.
Windfall suggests you're on to something that could bring in more abundance. I see the hare as being alert and scared. Don't be scared, because I feel your loved one is saying we've all had enough of fear, now. Be the brave one, because things will turn out ok in the end. You really might find that you have not just a soft landing, but one filled with all sorts of miracles.
Take the opportunities in front of you, ask for what you've been wanting. You might be surprised. Your loved one is supporting you and encouraging you to move forward and take chances (in responsible ways of course). They are wanting your well being, and for you to really enjoy what life has to offer you.
One last thing - when you are afraid or anxious, they are right by your side comforting you. You might not notice it at the time, but if you try and relax, you might hear something. Sound really stands out.
Quick to act, was ready to come in and been going for many chances. seems to want to communicate more about you, less about themselves. Says I love you, catch you later, something about the sun burning out? Quite fun, fast paced energy eg wants to move on and forward, advanced, needs less help than average with communicating to people, want to give a really gentle message to slow down, don't be like me, calmer now, more peaceful, there's a lot of deep love and well wishes.
Initials that may relate: J - G
Can I just say, firstly - this person seems so lovely, I can't actually handle how sweet this message is.
Secondly, they hold much gratitude for the life they had, the chances that were available to them and all they experienced. I don't know if it's you or your loved one or both - but the indecision card pops up in connection with time and aging..
If there were any decisions to be made regarding their end of life care, or anything after they passed away, there is confirmation not to worry. In spirit, they seem calm, relaxed and at peace. In life, this person might have been intuitive, and it looks like it's something that runs in the family. However, I don't see it being the focus for them.
Oof. I literally had to say that, because I'm seeing the struggle that they went through. There is for sure someone here who seems to have had a harsh condition or an issue with their eye(s).
This is a really interesting person to see, because I'm seeing such a warm and caring person, yet on the surface they may seem spiky (like a hedgehog for example). Maybe they were even harsh at times. However, in spirit, this is not their true selves. They are extremely calm, grateful, and loving. They seem to have been really learning and looking deeper into certain circumstances and their perception. There's an increased gratitude, a more open minded and open ended perception, and now it has become more easy going where perhaps they may have been tense, anxious or impatient in life.
I get the idea that they believe you and they are similar in character or attitude, but at the same time I feel a strong message along the lines of this:
You may be similar to each other but you don't have to repeat the same decisions or actions that they did, even if they strongly suggested it when they were with you on earth. Any feeling of force, or that you must do something to please them, is no longer being presented. Looking back, they see so many opportunities and ways of being that they could have taken, and they could have been so different. Acknowledging this has really opened their perspective. Which as a reader seeing this, I hope any sense of obligation or duty that has been troubling you, can dissolve now.
As you grow older, they are hoping to see you be really true to yourself and follow your real joy and interest. There's no race in life, not really. For each person, they blossom and experience in their own time. There seems to be an exercise they taught you to calm down, or a recommendation. You might even benefit from doing some kind of soul retrieval (this is where you meditate on bringing all your energy back to yourself, from where you had spent it or given it elsewhere).
You have many choices in life, and while it can be terrifying, it's also an extremely good thing. Your loved one wants you to know not to worry about them, because it's as if they're on holiday right now. A real, amazing holiday.
They just love you, and adore you, and want to see you do what you want because that's best for you.
This is also assurance that if you've been struggling to make a decision or come to a conclusion on something, you'll come to it. It will take time but it will be right for you.
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GROUP 4
First impressions:
The heat was really getting to me on this one. Maybe they loved hot weather, maybe they were always too hot, maybe there's a great memory in the sun, maybe a hot day is when they passed. They want to say about the way they went. This person is REALLY funny, like stubborn get your butt in gear funny. The kind of humour that isn't *nice* - they're chill one minute and then they go off suddenly because they're bored. Lots going on, I think they must be mulling over things quite a bit. they have so much to say.Someone here likes flowers/gardening. They wanted to tell something before they passed. It was reassurance or something about caring. Wish they'd expressed their care more.
Initials: A - Y - U
Entering the reading, I found it tough to even start. Perhaps that's the way the person felt - hard to speak on more deep or emotional matters, maybe they didn't often know where to begin. Maybe it was literally difficult to communicate (whether mental or physical), or they were too young.
They wish they'd asked for help.
They appear to be in the hands and care of someone specific in spirit. It may be their partner if they departed before them, or a parent/grandparent they adored, or their spirit guide. The connection is wonderful and they are in safe hands. They are reunited with one or more other loved ones, and that's all that matters to them.
I'd say for how they're doing - they seem just fine, in safe hands like mentioned, as well as working through a burden that they still have over them. I don't know why, I just see some kind of burden. There may be sadness, or maybe even a bit of regret. More than anything, I get a strong opinion here that the focus is on your loved one wanting to build bridges and/or strengthen bonds both in spirit and with those present on earth right now. One or two may be seeking forgiveness.
I see a strong hint to a woman, or specifically mother hood. Your loved one is protected, and has joined what seems to be like as very strong ancestral connection/bond with many others.
For one or two reading this, this loved one may be a best friend.
With worry I feel like it's more for you, they might worry for you sometimes. Perseverance suggests what they went through before they passed might have been something they had to deal with for a long period of time, less likely to be a sudden passing.
I feel like if they had any notes for you on what's going on right now, it would probably be along the lines of trust the way you're feeling - if you're unhappy with something, let yourself express it in whatever way you feel is safe so you can truly understand what you need next. If you're seeking a new career or to level up in studies etc, you are extremely supported and they are proud over what you've achieved so far in your studies/work. It looks like they're seeing how much you've done, while it might be difficult for you to give yourself credit. They see what good you've done, they want you to, too!
Also, when it comes to communicating with you, I'm not seeing a strong suit at it right now. The energy might not be right, they might be finding it hard right now because of something they still are in the process of overcoming...However - I am seeing that they influence your *feelings*. If you suddenly find yourself nostalgic, or remembering things, this is likely due to their presence with you. If you feel sad about any memories, know they are shared with this person. Your connection is an interesting one in way where I would anticipate a reunion in a story because they miss each other dearly. Soul mate energy.
If you believe in reincarnation, this to me would be confirmation you will live a life together again.
Once again, to reiterate, they miss you dearly, they're ok but they need to gather their energy up again while with supportive beings. I wouldn't imagine they're super active right now, but that may change in time.
First impressions:
Indecisive, something about the back is uncomfortable and something about the stomach, maybe bad posture, pretty uncomfortable prior to leaving but then again no kidding, unlikely to be sudden, more normalised, wanted to learn a lot this life.
Initials that may relate: H - O - B
Yes, they have been around you. Yes, that was a sign.
They were so tired. Now they are in spirit, they are fully awake and energised. They were fighting so much. They want to say "look, see? so healthy now." Low key showing off, which is amusing. They are very happy now, and the sun is shining. They seem to have a quirky or sassy sense of humour. You might find that they joke with you in small ways or poke fun at you in a light way. Something about taking something too seriously.
Their attention is mixed. Some of it is on loved ones and being an extra eye for you, some of it is on learning and of sharing love. It appears they've come to a good understanding of the life they experienced and have been able to appreciate some of the good they did, especially of being loving to others. In spirit, of course, values differ from humans egos or our perspectives on earth. To love, and to try and love truly unconditionally on earth, is a feat. It seems they've made head way on that theme.
Your loved one is so impressed with you. They are also hinting that you inherited a quality or talent from them.
I wonder if you wear a piece of jewellery that's sentimental or attached to them somehow? If so, they see that. Hold on to it for strength.
They simply want to communicate their love to you, and that they are here for you and they are listening to you. They could be working with you often. If you're going through a trying time, they want you to remember what they did, or what their advice was in the past. Let them inspire you.
Also - let people love you. Receive the love you deserve. They see so much in you, your qualities, talents and potential. They think the world of you. Remember your power because they know it's there.
Butterflies, and I see birds as signs too. You may even think you hear their voice, or their name.
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GROUP 6
First impressions:
Yup meaning you feel they've been around? It's true. Very focused on one thing. Probably had one big lesson in life. I get dizziness. Passed over peacefully, don't worry. You might be worried because of the way they went. They didn't suffer as much as you worry they did.
They want you to slow down, worry less and take things one step at a time. I see hush hush, like slow/quiet down. I smell smoke, if they used to smoke, they're at it again - sneaky lol. Maybe there was smoke or fire involved. More easy going, want to communicate you will be victorious with something - 6 of wands energy, they feel positive about what you'll be doing, it's a green light go ahead. There's a win mentioned.
Initials that may relate: P - F - R
You're still grieving heavily, it seems. Either it's very recent or you were very close. Your loved one seemed like a hard worker. They may have had an issue with "give and take" in life. They could have been overly giving, they might have had a hard time asking for or receiving things, or they may have been too scared to give energy or time. They are forgiving to family, through thick or thin.
They entered un well, and tapped into the healing power of the universe. They were happy and calm. They are youthful, and healthy again. It seems to be the time that they observe their life and interactions. This may have been a parent, grandparent or someone who fulfilled this kind of role to you somehow. They may as well have been family, if they weren't a blood relative. Parental energy.
They haven't been extremely communicative as of yet, because of the healing they are undergoing, but they have made small appearances or peeked out from spirit.
They want you to know that just because they're gone, doesn't mean you're alone or will be. They used up as much energy as they could, there was just no longer any left to sustain them, which is why I think solar plexus and the inner power/energy is a presence here.
They seem creative, and if you are directly related to them that means you are also very creative. Light eyes really stand out.
You may be at a time where lots of decisions need to be made (Perhaps the aftermath and everything that needs to be resolved), and you might be afraid of voicing your opinion if this involves one or more others. You have a right to put that forward because you also know and understand things. There is supportive energy around them.
They have a fire in their eyes. They do not give up easily, and I doubt they wanted to particularly leave, even if the going was tough. There's a lot of energy to return to them, and they have much love around them from beings who will provide different needs. They are connecting with others in spirit and it feels very calm. They are still getting situated.
They are particularly protective over someone, and so are already wondering how they are doing. If they seemed worried about anyone before they passed, please do check if they're ok.
This was supposed to be the last group that I completed, at the time of writing this pick a card reading. Years ago!
This was such a long time ago, so perhaps that means something to you when it comes to your passed over loved one. Maybe it's been a long time since they passed, a long time until you could even think about them, or maybe their situation dragged out. My sympathies are with you, truly.
Here are my first impressions with your reading, group 7:
I got goosebumps, so you may have received feelings, signs, such as being suddenly aware or hearing knocking. It's suddenly very cold. It could have been winter when they passed, or perhaps they suffered with an ailment that made them very cold. Ill equipped. There could have been an accident related to your loved one at some point (not necessarily what ended their life)
Initials I got (for you maybe, or for them)
B - W (or M) - J - Y - K
I also thought of BMW. Maybe they drove that brand.
The cards I got were:
"Healthy and happy "
"My death was painless. Please don't worry or hold on to guilt"
You may be getting signs as well where music stops and starts, or shows on your tv trip. Or maybe the volume turns up/down suddenly out of nowhere. This loved one plays with electrics and audio to get your attention.
Ultimately it looks like they've acclimated to the afterlife, and are currently in the process of releasing regret, guilt, and stormy emotions they experienced in life. They know now, how much those emotions affected their physical abilities in life. I'm getting major anxiety, a lump in my throat when I think about what they thought of during their life. It's like they could never escape something.
You might feel at fault for something, or like you added to problems. But what they want you to know is you were that rare connection to them that actually kept them grounded. You reminded them that there was something outside of their anxieties. I keep getting goosebumps, and my music in the background is chopping and changing. Maybe they were very changeable too.
What they want to say to you is that life is special, and you are special. The unicorn in one of these cards really stands out. I get a masculine energy to be honest.
I get something about overcoming clouds, and it makes me think of mental health issues. They could have struggled with it, potentially had addiction issues.
I'm also hearing "I wish you'd just talk to me" If you haven't tried to reach out and have a conversation with them, this is a suggestion to make time in a relaxed space/time to say everything you want to say to this person. The good, bad, and ugly. They just want to hear from you.
There are also aspects of control, and being able to let go. Something about by allowing others to be free, you can also be free. You free yourself.
The cards explain that they are always able to be with you and help you - just ask!
I got "I wanna go back but that's life." - "You think too much" - as lyrics that really stood out. I'm getting strong hints that for a lot here it's an important masculine person such as your father figure, or partner. I'm truly sorry.
Their message is all about the clouds and thunder. I really get that we all have expiration dates, and life can be chaotic, but take everything you can get from the moment. Get excited, go with the chaos because there will always be turbulence and we can't avoid it. But we can totally go with the vibe! I get really optimistic vibes, they want you to get excited instead of anxious.
They want you to see the magic, the rainbows after it absolutely hurls it down; the sky clearing after the thunder, the magic at how it can change so much! They want you to take in as much life as possible, because now they see the magic. Accept life and take it in both hands because that is true freedom. Stop doubting yourself, too. You can't be totally free from fear but you can get pretty close, and it feels good. It feels akin to...taking things as a challenge.
You will get a lot of songs that are intended to bring your mood or mindset up - so pay attention.
They want you to remember them as healthy and happy. Because that is what they now are. You just focus on yourself - no guilt. No expectation. There is so much power in life and they want you to have all of it.
I also can't help but get reincarnation vibes... They could be gearing up to go again.
I'm sorry for your loss, but I hope this reading might help!
This was a long time coming, and I've been pondering if I should release this after being unable to complete it. I have decided to do the last group and get this out in case anyone needs it, especially after something that recently happened again in 2026.
So, this reading will examine what your teacher or superior at work values and how to make the most of that, to get good feedback as well as get recognition.
You may not like what they want from a student or employee, but the cards are just going to reflect what they would appreciate.
The suggested actions on how to get good feedback are up to your discretion - Iâm not blatantly telling you what to do. I am simply sharing ideas on what the cards seem to express to be positive actions.
Ultimately, listen to your own intuition and logic when it comes to the important things in your life.
Please choose between 3 groups. Left to right. One is princess peach, two is the batman figure, and three is the star.
GROUP 1
What your teacher/boss values:
Listening
âI foster a heightened level of engaged listening in all my conversations, whether in person or over the phone. When I start to zone out or feel the urge to interrupt, I remind myself that itâs better to tune in and listen, really listen, to what other people are saying. Because without good, attentive listening, I wonât be able to â shoot, what did they just ask me?â
So your supervisor, boss, teacher - whoever is important in your work or school right now - finds it important that people really take in what theyâre saying, and demonstrate that they have truly listened to their advice, teaching or instructions.
Straight away, if youâre an employee, it will be important that you: pay full attention in meetings, or when they ask for something. If youâre uncertain, just absolutely ask again and make sure, so that they canât come back to you and tell you that you didnât listen to them.
Your natural skill:
Communication, Joyful space, filling the well.
All together it seems like you speak to people in a way that can cheer up the atmosphere! You might also make things in your study area/work area look much nicer than when you found it.
Communication here amuses me because it might be that youâre more of a talker than a listener.
âI am a masterful communicator with the ability to say what I think and feel in a way that doesnât invoke conflict. Watch as I dodge the bullets of sass and snark! Marvel as I avoid the trapos of passive-aggressiveness and victim-hood! Be amazed that even though itâs sometimes stressful, I choose to communicate - an act that saves us all from the grips of certain unspoken seething!
So if youâre a student, youâre probably great with group activities or doing presentations, but your teacher could be wanting you to be open minded and listen more to others and themselves.
At work you could hold strong opinions and be very forthright, but perhaps your boss might wish that you just listened and got on with a certain task. (Maybe they are too tired at times to have big discussions lol).
What you can do to get positive feedback:
You could actually discuss career choices with them. If you have a teacher in your situation, it might excite them that you have aspirations, and would love to help you commit to those. They seem to want a person to be open minded and dream big, recognising that there is still so much to learn.
In terms of workâŠ
the decisions you make/projects you do would impress them if you consider the long term aspects. Instead of considering the present benefits of an action or project, consider what you can secure for the business. If you could complete a long term project, sticking with it would be impressive, as well as working more deeply in a team effort.Â
It would probably help if you are in a position to form agreements, or business contracts. If you can secure a beneficial partnership, agreement, or be more business savvy, that would be super positive.Â
If youâre in customer service, this could look like getting more customers through the door, or getting someone to buy extra things.Â
Literally this could be a sales position saying âhey, make more sale contracts".
How to get along with them:
It seems like your teacher/superior sees that you might have a little trouble with authority, or that you might have a bit of a chip on your shoulder. This may or may not be true, but I feel that to just get along with them you might need to show and admit that they have the authority and control. They are in charge, and if you show that you accept that theyâre the one who has the say over things, then things will go a lot smoother for you.Â
Their attitude towards you will likely soften, and they will interpret it as you growing more mature and wise. This could help you if you are looking to grow within your role or go further. Itâs important for your opportunities in the future that this person sees you as mature and humble.Â
Even if you think this person is on a power trip, these cards are showing this will just appease them and help you out.Â
I mean, you might really have difficulty with the idea of authority or power. Maybe you donât like being told what to do, or you donât like to do things without understanding why itâs important. While thatâs valid, in your situation itâs likely that your teacher or superior would prefer it if you just moved on at times. It doesnât mean you lost, it doesnât mean they necessarily want to fight, either. I just feel that perhaps they want an easy time. They just want to ask for something, and for it to be done, no questions asked.
Hope this all made sense to you, and good luck with your work/studies!
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GROUP 2
What your teacher/boss values:
Networking
âOooh, itâs that magical, mystical word - ânetworkingâ - with the magical, mystical power of expanding your horizons, boosting your potential and filling your inbox with linkedin requests! Consider this a vote of confidence in your ability to network. You have a lot to offer the world, but if youâre offering it to the same small circle, youâre short-changing the rest of us (and yourself). Embrace this part of the grown up game, and choose to make it an adventure. You never know which of those linkedin thumbnails will turn out to be a picture of your new business partner or happy hour buddy.
Immediately they seem like a social kind of person, who likes it when everyone chats to each other. Even if theyâre an introvert normally, this person would probably feel out of sorts if their employee/student didnât at least ask how they are.
You are already in the game for their appreciation if you make an effort to get to know them, and have real conversations about what youâre doing as a team. Show interest! They love explaining what they and their other work buddies did that one time a year ago to solve an issue.
Your natural skill:
Focus
âI align with my ability to focus anytime, anywhere, on anything. Iâm a veritable magician, and I can magically focus pocus whenever I want. Look, itâs working right now! Iâm focused on everything except what I need to do!â
So itâs looking like you take what you do seriously, which is great! You can really hone in on things - you probably never miss the details. This really gives me introvert vibes though, where a person just wants to do their work, and go home. But your boss or teacher seems to be different, they seem to like the back and forth that having a team or group entails.
What you can do to get positive feedback:
Reach out to them, commit to improving your contractual connection. It seems like thereâs nothing wrong, per se, but there definitely could be improvement. Whether this regards your performance, or your connection to this person.
I also get the idea of offering to stay for the long haul. So, if they need help: offer to stay behind with them, for as long as is reasonable for you.Â
Make the little offers or gestures that would make the person consider keeping you if anything happened. Being kind would go a long way in general, maybe itâs a customer service role and it would really help if you appeared softer or more pleasant. Or perhaps itâs the office, and it would just help to engage in more pleasantries.
Thereâs a real focus on interpersonal stuff.
As well as that, offer to take care of a task, as well as offering to be a mediator if need be.
How to get along with them:
Confront, and trust.
Ok, so one little thing I see is that if your teacher/boss is male/masculine - they have a bit of an inner child thing going on that affects their attitudes or values. They just want to feel wanted, appreciated, and like people like them. They might have missed out on a few things, and that makes them look for it as an adult.Â
You can improve your work connection with them by acknowledging that. While you donât have to pander to them, understand that they might have different needs than you. And while you may not relate to their priorities, there are certain things that you can do to help them realize you will have their backs , if you work with them.
Maybe some of you here work with children, or are studying for a role related. If thatâs the case, it would benefit you to show your boss/teacher that you have values, morals and behaviours that would make you a trustworthy steward. (setting examples such as being very understanding with colleagues, or warm with peers)
The cards together allude more to inner workings, than relational actions.Â
Confront expresses themes of fear, while trust is self explanatory. They are opposites, so that might be meaningful to you.
So, we have confront:
âIntrospection and clarity are important at this time. Question the validity of feelings. Often they were based on childhood imagination, and are no more than illusions. Have the courage to explore your beliefs and misconceptions.â
So this could be possibly that you have misunderstood each other, and perhaps with trust itâs time to turn a new leaf.
âThis card reminds you that you are not alone. Put aside any fear, disillusionment, frustration, or hopelessness and open your heart. Expect to receive what you need. Even a good relationship can be improved. â
So it also seems that itâs a time to bring any worries you might have to this person. It would likely make them feel happy to know you trust that they can help you. I feel that for most here, your teacher or higher up is pretty good natured, even if there have been misunderstandings, or theyâve acted out at some point.
If you show that you have trust in them, or that you believe that they can help you, then it appears it will help improve your work connection.
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GROUP 3
What your teacher/boss values:
 Collaboration
âI take pride in my role as a good collaborator, and look for opportunities to help support my colleagues/ ideas, rather than dismiss them outright. I fill my meetings with YESâs and ANDs - and i celebrate the constructive power they have over BUTs and ORs. (Unless I work for a company that makes cigarettes and boats, in which case butts and oars would be⊠oh, never mind).
So this teacher or boss seems less strict, since they believe people can help each other. They donât think you need to do everything perfectly, and they prefer innovative ideas over lording over a project with what someone thinks is the only way. They like open minds, and teamwork.
Your natural skill:
Fulfilment
âI set my sights on a totally fulfilling life, and will settle for nothing less. Jobs are like relationships, and i can always choose to break up and move on knowing that something more satisfying and blissful is around the corner. It must be, right? Because Iâve looked everywhere else and how many places can bliss and satisfaction be hiding?â
A couple impressions from this. Youâre probably the type that doesnât stop investigating an issue or subject until you find the right answer or solution. Very good investigative work. The type to really go down the rabbit hole with something and come up with interesting ideas. I can see why you matched with the subject, or got hired in the first place. It matches the boss appreciating innovative thinking.
However, you probably need a little help being more flexible, from how intensely you can think on something. If you think youâve found the right way to handle something, you are likely to just keep with that - it works, after all, right?
Next is that actually, your current attitude about work or studies matches the boss or teacher as well. Youâre likely in a place where you are more lax about the work itself - not out of laziness, but out of standards and priorities.
Also, when it comes to the actual work you do, you do it to a very high standard. No one can complain about the quality of your work.
What you can do to get positive feedback:
Believe it or not, youâll catch more flies with honey than vinegar here. So focus on the collaboration aspect, rather than trying to seize all the acclaim.
As long as you really work with other colleagues/peers and network with them, there doesnât seem to be a problem. Even if you think some are sneaky or try to take the credit for things.
The teacher/boss really appreciates the group and the way you all achieve the result they want, rather than one person taking charge and being the one who fixed everything.
Put any competitiveness to rest, and use this work situation to enhance your teamwork abilities, and enjoy the social aspect. You will likely get the best feedback when you achieve big projects as a result of your interpersonal skills.
How to get along with them:
Change your focus
I really think you might be a little stubborn on your outlook or ideas, and your boss/teacher wants you to be a bit more loosey goosey. Become a little more imaginative, or dreamy. Give yourself permission to dream up some new interesting ideas. Maybe theyâre not based entirely on the facts that you presently know, but when you all talk to each other, maybe they will know something that connects the dots!
They want you to ease up a little, too. They actually care about your stress levels.
âItâs time to put the sorrows behind you and shift your focus to what is good and positive in your life. Appreciate the people who love you. Take stock of what brings you joy.Â
It will probably help you get along with them more (even if youâre just fine) if you take on a more positive, open minded outlook. Maybe youâre very reasonable, but it can put a dampener on things when they simply want to brainstorm with you. Iâm getting a bit of a perfectionist attitude, and it could amuse them, but at the end of the day, they donât need you to do everything uniform/perfectly. Itâs funny though.
Hope that made sense, good luck with your studies/work!
Let the romance angels help you dissolve the biggest road block right now in your love life, and assist in bringing in the right, healthy love you deserve.
Remember, what we might think we want, may not actually be the best for us! Love that stays is worth waiting for, and worth working for.
Of course, this is for singles. The individual snacks. You know, when they have their own separate packaging, even in a multipack. So unfair. And a waste of packaging.
So everyone, pick 1, 2 or 3 for your special romance advice.Â
Or, pick between the gold heart, pink heart or red heart.
That bad, huh? I just had the hardest time picking the card up off the floor.
Healing family issues
âYour love life benefits as you forgive your parentsâ
The angels say you would benefit from releasing your anger towards one of your parents. This card reinforces the importance of your beliefs and attitude about love being influenced by how your parents were. The guidebook really pushes forward the idea of needing to forgive. Perhaps if not a family member, there is simply an ex or old interest that you havenât let go of yet, even if itâs old resentment.
It also mentions unhealthy patterns and toxic attachments. Your recent love life could have reflected that, and so it has helped to create that block for you. These heavy feelings that you have been carrying, have affected all of your relationships, including the one you have with yourself.Â
Whatâs your biggest road block?
Keep an open mindÂ
Your soul mate may differ from your usual type and expectations.
This actually fits quite well with your recent situation. We grow up or watch our family and it creates certain expectations, or an outline of what you think love looks like. And it may be correct for them, but incorrect for you. Or, it could simply just not have been healthy love.
âThis may be especially true if you tend to date a certain âtypeâ of individual. This card may signal that youâve overlooked someoneâs romantic potential. Take time to get to know the people you meet, even if there isnât an initial attraction. At the very least, you will learn more about yourself and may make a new friend.â
So far with these 2 cards, This is giving me the impression you havenât 100% come to an understanding of yourself, your needs, and what matters to you on a deeper level romantically. Iâm also getting the idea that you take too much into account of what other people say you should expect or look for in a romantic partner. Not only that; but your family, or the way you grew up, is having far more of an influence on the habits or people that you try to court, than you think. Iâm also seeing a woman hold up what i feel like is a list. But an angel feels like a bird to me, just at her head. This gives me the thought that you must be more free thinking for sure, as it may be a slight need to control, and feel control over yourself. The angel flying above gives the idea of having a hard time being vulnerable, too.
What the romance angels want to say:
Past life relationship
âYou have known each other before.â
This paired with keep an open mind may perhaps mean you already know someone you were connected to in a past life, and you may be presently overlooking them. This will be applicable if youâve had a hint, feeling or intuitive dream. This wonât be for everyone.
âYou have some unfinished business in conjunction with a soulmate from a past life. This may involve forgiving someone, a joint project, or learning personal lessons such as patience.â
It also mentions that a sense of magnetism can go beyond logic as there is something that you must learn from eachother (hence bringing you to eachother strongly)
What the romance angels want to say⊠When I see this card, it usually means that yes, someone has been important, or has affected you, but it doesnât mean they are there to stay. Often people with a strong pull on you romantically are there to trigger or highlight something in you. Just because something feels strong, or intense, doesnât mean itâs forever. Some of these situations are learning experiences to help you let go, forgive, and grow romantically - so that you can have that wonderful partnership you so desire.
Next, we have forgiving and learning.
âAs you release and heal the past, you experience more love in your present moments.â
All cards present in your reading highlight forgiveness. Youâve likely been hurt very much, or feel anger at someoneâs behaviour. Itâs giving situationship, dragging along vibes. There could be a person you think about a lot, hoping that you haunt them too. Thereâs a few here that might have done wrong, or felt you did, and you would beg them if you could. Itâs a mixed bag when it comes to who was in the âwrongâ objectively.
As long as you hang on to whatever resentment or anger is present, the more it will hold you back. If youâre only paying attention to the ghosts of the past, you will never tend to the seedling for the new. The things of the past are gone for a reason, and there is no bringing them back to life.
Hope this made sense for you, I wish you luck in your emotional healing! When in doubt, ask the angels to help you release toxic emotions, and bring in positive cleansing energy. Ask the romance angels to help you process all of your difficult romantic feelings.
These are interesting cards to have together. Perhaps youâve tried to talk with someone again, or give something another shot. Another idea is that maybe you have resurging feelings for someone that you thought you got over. Yet another, is that it is simultaneously happening. You might have a new crush or person youâre seeing, and at the same time an old interest is popping up.
âA new person has stirred your romantic feelingsâ
âSomeone from your past is returning to your life.â
It looks like youâre getting a good amount of interest, you probably donât feel undesirable, but of course, there must be an issue of getting something to stick, or feeling like it can become more serious.
Another thought I'm getting is that someone here is concerned about a stalker, possibly?
âThis card signals the introduction of someone new in your life. Perhaps youâve recently met this person and your interest was piqued. This card validates your connection was mutual and real. It is safe for you to explore it, and the romance angels will guide your actions accordingly. Of course, if youâre already in a committed relationship, while running into the arms of a suitor may sound passionate, the reality of guilt over the affair will soon weigh heavily upon you.Â
âThis card signifies that an ex lover may be re-entering your life. The first person you think of is who it is likely to be. The purpose of this reconciliation is to achieve healing and closure with respect to the past. You will understand more about yourself and see your patterns clearly. Youâll also take responsibility for the role you played in your relationships drama, which will free you. This could also mean making peace with a family member or friend.Â
So together it is showing that youâve possibly been experiencing things that are leading you to accept your old behaviour, look at the past, and be able to step forward in a positive, new direction.Â
Whatâs your biggest road block?
I feel like this is really obvious. The card popped right out.
Separation
âTime apart from your partner is on the horizon.â
âThis card may indicate a temporary period of loneliness, such as while -â
âŠOkkkkkkk. Ok. Sorry to cut that, but if someone is here that is in a long distance relationship, or is on a break, or still connected to someone, you need to settle this. Donât go looking for new love. There is one (1) person here that I just feel like I might need to call out.
Ok. Back to the guidebook for everyone else.
â-your partner is traveling for business, or a time in your life when youâre single and preparing for your next relationship. It can also mean a marital separation or divorce.â
Ok, so thereâs a few things. You could still be dealing with the aftermath of a break-up. You might as a result, need time to yourself and enjoy your alone time, engaging in hobbies and reminding yourself that you are just as important and interesting when you are single, too.
One idea is that someone here could be hyper independent.
Iâm also getting the idea that you need to be more hopeful and have faith. Itâs like there's pessimism.Â
For others it could be that the long distance thing doesnât help you. Maybe you tend to look online for love, or you feel safer at a distance. I feel like youâve been lied to. Itâs really easy to pretend when the person doesnât see you physically, or is away a lot. Something really strikes me as off here. If someone HAS returned to you, donât take them for their word, examine what they tell you carefully.
Extra cards to clarify:
Void of course moon - nothing will come of this situation
Balsamic moon - a time for healing
Yep, so for a good few of you, it looks like now is a time to allow yourself to be alone, not lonely. To come back to yourself, to heal.
With void of course this could be that you hang on to things that donât give back, or hold on to hope that it will work out with someone.
What the romance angels want to say:
Pay attention to the red flags
âThe signs are cautioning you.â
âIf you are swept up in a new romance, this card serves as a cautionary warning. Pay attention to your feelings or impressions of your new suitor. Donât allow emotion to blind you to characteristics or habits that wonât work for your relationship. A red flag is a sign that something is off. It can include an indication of dishonesty, disrespect, flirtatiousness with others, substance abuse, or lack of integrity. While your new love interest might treat you wonderfully in the beginning of a relationship, itâs vital you watch how he or she treats others.Â
I just recalled that someone here might have a suspicion that there is a stalker, this is extra advice to be cautious if that is the case, and you have some kind of evidence/logic (as opposed to paranoia). If this is the case for someone here, thereâs something the angels are saying about light? Or looking for something with a torch.Â
The angels seem to be mentioning the idea of give and take in relationships. You must look at yourself in terms of reliability and honesty, but also assess how reliable a love interest is. Factually and logically. Watch them, be curious about how they treat other people, and what their priorities are. Do they value family? Do they turn up at their parents often? Or do they avoid doing things for loved ones. Do they say please and thank you to the serving staff? Or do they ask for what they want without even a greeting?
Not only that, look to see any discrepancies. Are they a taker? What do they offer you? And so on. And if someone is trying to return, ask yourself: âwhat is it that they want from me? And what are they offering (if anything)â
Ask the romance angels to guide you and protect you from unhealthy people and connections. Ask them to help you clearly see the workings of your relationships. Ask for the bravery to see things for what they are.
âGreat love is worth taking the steps youâre guided to take.â
Lately the angels have been guiding you to take certain actions that will benefit you in your growth, and attitude to help you find the love that you deserve.
Iâm getting the feeling that a few here have given up, or are tired of making moves lately. I also feel that in the past you might have felt that you never got all of a person, or their attention. It was like something was missing.
This card also turns up when a person has been trying to do the inner work, but also has had a tendency to over extend themselves in the name of appealing to prospective lovers. There is usually something that has convinced them that they must work harder to earn the love or staying power of another.
Whatâs your biggest road block?
Let your friends help youÂ
âAsk for and accept support from othersâ
As a block, this might be a couple of things.
Firstly, you may listen to what others think far too much, or you could have a social group situation that actually gets in the way of you finding the healthy and happy love you deserve. Not only that, Iâm getting the feeling that a friend might be placating you too much, or giving you advice that isnât suited for you specifically. It might have worked for them, but it isnât for you.
If this is a friend group situation again, it could be that you try to see who they recommend to you, but their recommendations donât suit you. The person who is right for you, isnât someone who would connect with them. It feels like a personality thing. Anyone who is directly connected to this group, I feel strongly, will not serve you. It could be that you are just a bit different from the people that are around you, however well meaning they might be.
Next is the idea that you are relying too much on group settings. New moon in leo suggests that you should have the confidence to go out in search yourself, more independently. You might also be trying to please others around you right now, and that is affecting your luck in love.
With full moon in libra the way you look is seemingly important, and perhaps you choose people you see based on what is socially more impressive, or makes you look good.
Overall your social interactions, expectations and outer ideals and recommendations seem to affect you too much when it comes to finding the right love for you.Â
What the romance angels want to say:
Heart to heart conversations
This is suggesting to me that you donât have crucial conversations with suitors. For example, asking if they are interested in playing the field or becoming exclusive. Combined with the libra card, and the friend card, it really makes me think that you need to speak more for yourself, advocate for yourself, and reach a clear understanding. Instead of trying to tow the line and stay, even if itâs precarious and uncertain, you should honestly discuss your real feelings.
And that goes romantically as well as platonically. I wonder if there is growth that you can experience when it comes to your relationships with the people around you in general.
This is a card that recommends being honest and upfront, regardless of how the other person interacts. Itâs as if you donât say what you think because you fear their lack of care in response. Itâs like asking what a person wants with you, working hard to keep anything going, and fearing they wonât care, even after all this effort.
But itâs what must be done.
At this point, you need to be sure of what you can expect, honestly. And itâs not a scary thing when you recognise it gives you a lot of power to decide your next step. The right one for you will only make themselves known when you give them a chance. Maybe thatâs why you felt like something was missing with other interests. Perhaps itâs because you need to give them the option.
With this card as well, be honest if your friends/family are recommending people that youâre not interested in. Be honest if you donât like them after a few dates.Â
Basically, the more assertive and honest you are in your connections, the closer you will be to finding healthy, happy, long lasting love.
Ask the romance angels to help train you in becoming more honest and open. Ask for the courage to be emotionally forthright, and to seek understanding/answers rather than a placating response.
Will it be a job opportunity? Will you find love? Will you finally, FINALLY - Find the shoes that complement your shape?Â
Itâs a tough world out there, but you can take it a day at a time, with the help of crumpets and t-wait. That might just be me.
Whatever gets you through the day (Iâm not judging. Hereâs definitely not looking at you), you can know that there will be something good waiting to surprise you this solar cycle.
So choose a number, ya noob!
Pick between 1, 2 or 3
There will be some news. This may literally be about a birth.Â
The Gabriel card is connected to mercury, and has connection to expression, and words. With Books, this may be an opportunity to write a book or article. Either that, or a powerful piece of writing may create new inspiration for you.
The guidebook mentions activities such as mediumship, writing, teaching, publishing, counselling, marketing, television. It mentions now is the time for any of these endeavours. It asks to call on archangel Gabriel to inspire you, and to remember the power of words.
Really powerful speaking/literature hints in these cards.
I feel the need to cover the other cards with the first, so perhaps there is an opportunity to speak about what you have kept to yourself. Maybe you can finally bring something out into the open.
With wisdom I see the opportunity to actually kick something to the curb and replace it swiftly. With the communication cards, this could be the opportunity to be blunt about something. The strength card supports that idea.Â
There is also the idea of being hot and cold about something - there will be a middle ground that is healthy.
You may have an opportunity spiritually speaking to work with ascended masters. If you have a creative outlet or project, you could seek out the advice of these ascended masters. There may be a long passed master who you could seek inspiration from.
Will, wisdom and mind suggests in the guidebook that you could find yourself with some kind of authority, and manifestation powers. Your year looks to be quite active, and you are asked to take advantage of time to meditate to balance this out. This can also mean you get a position with authority or a job promotion!
Birth, if not literal, can mean a fresh start is available to you. With will, wisdom and mind, you have a lot of power and lee way into what you create this year. Your opportunity is control!
The guidebook says this is associated with fertility, and motherhood, as well as romance. It says you could be giving birth to a creative project too, so celebrate. I would second the creative project idea, with the other cards. If one is hoping to create a family, this may be a god year for that.
Those looking for love will have opportunities for dating, it looks good on that front too.
This year you also have the opportunity to see just how strong you can be - just how powerful you actually are. Take it with both hands.
Books talks about any kind of literature, working for a magazine, bookstore, in the media, or publishing house. It confirms a desire to write your very own book, which the angels will help you with. The guidebook says youâre being led to your purpose, one page at a time. So let it unfold.Â
Hope this year is a great one with minimal difficulties.
The 3âs and the practice card bring to mind creativity and social aspects. The bird's nest makes me think of sharing. This year, you will have the opportunity to be loving, and share yourself personally and with the gifts that you have.
The guidebook mentions:
Itâs a time to focus on new things and expanding - perhaps your business, network of friends, or even family.
Children may be forthcoming, there may be renovations to your home, or perhaps hiring employees.
Whatever this is for you, it will take a lot of effort, but it will be worth it.
Akashic force: Close your eyes and see yourself feathering your nest. What sort of things need to be put in place in order to support the expansion that lies before you?
Extra: Iâm seeing the opportunity to travel here, with a group or with family. Thereâs also going to be a change in social dynamics, Iâm seeing a shift into being the one who takes more of the lead, or helps others more.
So we have 2 hints of children, again. I wonder if people have chosen group 1 here as well. You may have the opportunity to babysit, spend time with children, spend more time with them as a parent.
3 of roses talks about letting yourself have fun and be playful. You will have the opportunity to enjoy things in life this year, to feel like a kid again.
With both cards so far it actually looks like a higher perspective will be available for you. The foggy waters clear in the sunshine when you assess and take action in your life.
With practice, it says polish your skills by practicing regularly. The lady is playing an instrument. Some here will have the opportunity to play music, or practice their creative hobby more this time around. There is a lot of creative expression in the cards. If you sit down and focus on the more âboringâ practice, there is an opportunity to become a lot more skilled at this hobby.
You have the opportunity for freedom. This year, you can go whichever way you want, but to make the most of this, it looks important to sit down and dedicate yourself to the things that you enjoy or care about. Make the most of this time by truly doing what you want to do.
While you might have some obligations, it looks like a bright year for you, filled with lots of opportunity for fun, socialising, and concentrating on hobbies.
This turned out to be a long one, so get ready, group 3.
Caught in the ruins - 5 of keys
Artist - let go
Even in difficult times that may arise (as they will for all for certain periods) you will have the opportunity of support in the form of at least one person.
Intuitively, Iâm getting a lot, so Iâll talk about that first.
The combination suggests that you will achieve a new creative perspective of your life, and your situation, that helps you to see beyond it. You will also have the opportunity to take time to yourself and really think deeply with no interruption. An opportunity might come to you that appears negative, but is actually for the best. Iâm really seeing the aspect of 2, and another person. The window in 5 of keys has been left open as if itâs an escape left for you by the other. Itâs as if you needed something someone else had, whether itâs intellect, a skill, information.Â
You will be looked after in some way this year. Someone has your back.
Even if you think your situation is awful, or something crops up that is difficult, you need to remember you have what you need with you. Everything else is just extra.Â
There will be an opportunity for grace. November seems like an important time for you. There is an opportunity for surrender, and to accept help. It really looks like someone will be there for you through thick and thin. If thatâs true for you right now, I hope you realise how special that is.
I see the wine rack, and alcohol bottles, so if youâre of age, you might actually have an opportunity to enjoy drinking with friends, or enjoying some of the nicer things in life. Iâm seeing a far better monetary situation, whether youâve done this or someone is helping you.
You have the opportunity to think about what you put into your body. And for some reason Iâm seeing a cat. Maybe youâve been wanting to get a pet and itâs been a matter of finances. This is a sign you will be able to this year. With let go, maybe youâve lost a pet and you really get to grieve for them, and appreciate that perhaps they were the one that went through thick and thin with you, not a person.
This was quite a lot. Now to look at the guidebook.
So, from the guidebook âcaught in ruinsâ can mean addictions, bad habits or situations. This will mean in this context that you have the opportunity to engage in healthier things, and to let go of these harmful situations. I did notice the alcohol in 5 of keys.
âEven if these limiting actions and situations are strong, they are self imposed. The courage and strength required to change lie within you. You must change each faulty belief and every sabotaging choice as they happen. If you do nothing, youâll perpetuate your attachment to this dark situation. Like the crumbling castle, negative choices could stand for a long time to come. Donât let the ruins of your past ruin your future. You have the power to climb out now.â
Akashic force: think of the one thing in life that holds you back and sabotages your success and joy. It may feel like a dark prison, but you already have the key. Fill yourself up with love and self honouring, and see yourself taking your next step to freedomâ
So many connections to the other cards. First, the keys that are held in âwishes fulfilledâ.Â
Second, the freedom of âlet goâ.
You can get out of the trap that ensnares you, this is confirmation.
5 of keys says:
âThis card has come for your wishes to be filled and your dreams to be realized. Difficulties may have challenged you for a time, but even in these, victory is assured. There is an abundance ofd sweet nourishments and acquired lands coming. The keys to the castle are yours, celebrate!â
The keys were super noticeable before, too. If youâre looking to buy or rent, this could be the year for you!
Artist of course could connect to what your dream is. Maybe you have a dream of being recognised for your creative work. Artist at the very least suggests that you will get to be creative this year, whether personally or professionally. It wonât all be dull for you if you work.
Let go suggests having had a difficult time deciding what to do with yourself, so if youâve been experiencing that, iâll leave the guidebookâs suggestion:
Ask the angels for help by saying
âguardian angels and archangels, thank you for helping me enjoy a tranquil mind and body. I now choose to let go, and detach from the situation. I know that godâs infinite wisdom is completely in charge of it and everyone involved. I trust that everything is being worked out for my highest and best good. And so it is.â
Even if you have had a challenging time, this year looks great to help you out of it and to experience a better quality of life. Accept the help you are offered! Allow it because you deserve it, there is so much out there for you. I see real enjoyment on the cards that is possible.
Hi all, belated happy new year. Hope you had a nice new year's eve celabration.
So I've been wanting to do something new year themed, but there's a lot out there already in terms of looking back, and making goals, or seeing the theme etc. So I thought, well, some people like to clear their doorways, or clean their houses symbolically right?
So how about we clear out too?
Today we will explore what needs to be cleared out, how to do it, and attitude adjustments to make!
That you have to do it all on your own. Because you chose the anchor, it really gives the image of a person who is the dependable, reliable one, even in difficult situations.Â
While others cry and hold each other, you might have found yourself standing alone, trying to think of solutions and be realistic. You might have found yourself being the shoulder to cry on, but always having to stay upright yourself. Never falter. Thereâs a reference from princess and the pauper (lol, yes, the barbie version) where the song speaks about always standing straight and you canât make a mistake - NOT a direct quote haha. This might be an attitude that has been instilled in you for a long time, but you might have become too strict on yourself.
Weâve got 5 of pentacles as a supporting card to that, and on this card, the woman has dropped and smashed a plate, shocked and upset by it. She covers her eyes, like someone would in a horror movie, trying to peek out. Maybe there are some fears you have, that you try to avoid. This could be fear of failure, of falling apart, of appearing vulnerable. 5 of pentacles is often a card of needing to seek out help, being in a vulnerable position like in the classic images (people in snow outside of a church).
Perhaps financially you are having issues, and you must let go of shouldering this burden on your own.Â
For someone here, I see the option of needing to change job or studies, but you donât know if you can do it. Things might have been a little comfortable for you, but youâll never know if you donât try. Success and failure make their marks equally in our lives and we have to accept that we canât control everything. We can allow ourselves to be steadfast, and accept help, though.
How can you clear this out?
The star (reversed)
The theme of failure shows up again here, or hopelessness. The woman on this card upside down gives the idea of crying, her once upturned lips open in a sob. Let yourself cry it out, let yourself be upset if things havenât worked out. Everyone feels like a âloserâ at some point. We canât win everything, when itâs a competition.Â
But this doesnât mean to stop dreaming, or stop wanting. It just means to be a little more realistic.
Acknowledge that you will never be perfect, no one can be. I really get this perfectionistic attitude about yourself. Let yourself be imperfect.
From The Hermit
To King of swords (reversed) + nine of wands reversed.
You may isolate yourself, hide away, or need to think things through deeply before taking action. The adjustment that is being suggested is to not think too hard on some things. And I get the sense that itâs rude or cruel people with their own issues that might have made you get this attitude of needing to be strong on your own.
Iâm seeing the need to make yourself squeaky clean, perfect, behind the scenes. Thereâs something here that canât stand being seen as bad or wrong. Social media is a thing thatâs distracting you right now, too. Perhaps thatâs been influencing your self image. For example, this lady may be taking a bath and doing âself careâ but she appears to be on the phone. That is not being present and participating in self care.Â
9 of wands reversed with the king talks about taking the defense walls down, not needing to be as smart and strategic as you think. The king might not think heâs as smart as he wants to be, but heâs at peace with that. He looks fine with where he is, and he doesnât think he needs to stack so many things in preparation anymore.Â
With these cards in combination, it hints that you might have closed yourself off, in the name of self care possibly, but in reality - it is a defense mechanism.
You are stronger together, with good people who you vet responsibly. (as in, people you check out to see if you can trust first).
I acknowledge you have likely been treated badly, possibly by males or a father figure. But itâs time to let this shield down now. The new year and new you counts on it, so that you can be more bold and go for your dreams in the future!
Hope this resonated, drop a like and comment. Big Love! lol. Mwah.
Oh, Iâm so sorry. Iâm really sorry if youâve lost someone. They could have passed away, or it could just be that theyâve moved a great distance, and that feels like a loss too.
This could be grief held on for years, sometimes itâs too painful to pay attention to and we have obligations. Now it is finally time to work with this emotion, and transform it.
Whatever this loss is from. Whether they have passed, whether this is a massive break up, whether a relative has moved across the world. It is important that you truly grieve.
7 of swords reversed suggests that perhaps for someone here a truth was revealed and that resulted in deep sadness. It feels so unexpected, as if someone sliced down your heart.
7 of swords reversed can also give the idea that you are now called to be more honest about how you feel. Open the can.
I feel some rage, some anger, some betrayal. Even if it was a peaceful passing away situation, there feels like thereâs some kind of rude talk behind the back, some people with other opinions or disrespectful behaviours. Something feels unfair in all this. I also get âwhy you?â.
Some things are going to come up for you, and spirit is urging you to be open and process it.Â
Clearing out the grief doesnât mean to ignore it. It means to air it out and accept it. Whatever happened that scarred your heart,let it build more of the beautiful person that you are. If itâs a break up for example, let this help you work out your inner patterns, and realize how you would never ever treat someone else. If this is a passing away, let this remind you of the gratitude, and perhaps the idea that you will make the most of the time you have with others now.
How you can do thisÂ
The fool (reversed)
Donât distract yourself. Beauty items and cash flies out of this womanâs purse, and it can suggest material items or addictions (such as shopping addiction) that help numb a pain, or make you feel happy for but a moment. This card can also mean to stop going for new shiny things all the time.
Itâs also showing me that even if you hold this grief in, it tends to leak out. Itâs harmful for you, and itâs harmful for your endeavours. Someone's loved one in spirit is specifically pointing at that as well. They want you to do well, and be fortunate in what you go for. But this is holding you back.
The fool is to not start something new, not to try and replace what you might have lost. You need to revisit the past a little. Stop trying to escape these feelings.
Change your attitude fromâŠ
Wheel of fortune reversed
Okkkk, someone here might be struggling with addiction for sure. The cards are hinting this is directly related to grief in your life, whether it was a month ago or 10 years ago. Revisit your past, with the help of a professional if there were difficult situations.
This card can also talk about feeling unlucky, or that nothing turns out in your favor. We need to move away from that way of thinking about ourselves here, or that kind of talk.
ToâŠ
The magician + ten of cups + four of cups
Saying no to things that only make you happy in the moment. Donât accept the invitations, and donât let people smooth talk you. It seems like you might be in a negative cycle, and itâs suggested that you have a little more discernment.Â
An attitude adjustment that would really benefit you would be that if you can dream it, you can do it. The magician is someone who is confident they can make something with the resources that they have. This is more of a self reliant and confident card, as opposed to feeling unlucky and at the mercy of fate with the wheel of fortune reversed. The magician is confident, secure, inventive, curious and in this case - excited. If you have been really down, with a low mood, these cards suggest your sense of happiness or contentment lies with feeling as if you have created something, or accomplished something. If you donât get that, then you would be chasing small wins that might hurt you in the long run. (eg. the shopping hurting your budget, smoking hurting your health)
Your sense of happiness relies on your ability to be discerning, say no, and have faith that you can make things happen in your life. You have more power than you think! Donât let anyone make you feel like you arenât in the driving seat of your life.
So here it overall looks like if you acknowledge your deeper emotions (especially anger) it will benefit you in the long run and increase your general happiness. Running away or holding them in is only harming you, and leaving you open to manipulation. I also feel that a loved one in spirit is bringing this forward because theyâve been seeing this happen for a while, and want to help you.
There were a few scenarios so I hope this made sense and it wasnât all over the place, if youâre comfortable, do leave a comment and let me know how it fit with your situation. Hope this helped!
Stop trying to figure everything out, youâre just confusing yourself. You need to clear your head! Old information isnât useful anymore - the way you used to work through things arenât applicable anymore. Itâs what I tend to say at times: itâs like trying to think your way out of a paper bag.
This is a lot of thinking energy, deliberation, needing to understand everything, but I feel that this is a framework that doesnât help you anymore.
How to clear it:
2 of cups + the lovers + queen of pentacles
Teamwork makes the dreamwork. Instead of ruminating like you do, bring it outside of yourself and verbalize your problems with someone you trust. There is someone that can help you make practical and rational sense of your situation right now. What you need is practical action, not to understand something more deeply. This is akin to someone trying to do shadow work, when theyâve done it for years. It might've been very successful, but thatâs not what they need, now. What the person would need next is to make plans.
Take physical inventory and stock of what is happening right here, at this moment. Instead of imagining the possibilities, see what is objectively feasible from where you stand.Â
It looks like you need help to make decisions - not to tell you what to do, but to bring you to ground zero and be real about options.Â
There is someone who can really, really help you work through this step by step. If itâs not a loved one, this may be a parental but professional figure. Think career guidance. Think financial advisor.Â
Move away fromâŠ
King of wands reversed + 9 of cups reversed
Thinking only certain people get what they want. Over doing things and over working to get something that you think you want. You might want to realign with what you actually desire, versus what the âentrepeneursâ or bros online say you should want. King of wands reversed burns himself out, he is a very hard worker but can have control issues. I see someone here who thinks too much about the inner working of things before they do something. 9 of cups is receiving something lovely without feeling like you had to work hard to get it, reversed, we have someone who no matter how hard they feel they try, doesnât seem to receive it.
ToâŠ
The magician + the empress + the tower
Take each miss or failing in a positive goal as a sign to keep trying. Laugh because you have something else up your sleeve. You seem to have a lot of ideas, so donât be too sad if something doesnât seem to materialize.Â
Overview:
It was all over the place, and itâs probably a bit chaotic in your head too, lately. This isnât to be rude, but just to acknowledge that you might be trying too hard, and youâve been getting overwhelmed. You might be having difficulty filtering and getting organized in your head. Thatâs why it looks like a good idea to get your thoughts out and work with someone who is grounded and a very realistic person. You seem to have issues when it comes to materializing your ideas and struggle to even get up and try, because when you have, it seems like it is all for nothing. The advice is to keep trying with your goals and project ideas, even if you feel like you have egg on your face. Life is a matter of trial and error, and itâs not because you arenât one of the special or motivated people out there, itâs just a fact that sometimes things fail.Â
But whatever youâve been wanting to do, whether itâs go to school, get a promotion or start your own project, remember that youâre delightful and youâve got what it takes. Donât take it as a complete knock if it doesnât work out - take it as an invitation to go to the foundation again and build something else up. Or build yourself or skills up.
Ultimately what has been bothering you canât be fixed alone, inside your own head. Group 3 needs to get out of this habit, for a wonderful 2026.
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You live your life so innocently, all you want is to live it how you desire!⊠Whatâs so wrong with that?
And on top of that⊠Oh my!Â
Not only do you spend your days simply, with honest intentions, but you are oh so kind to everyone around you.Â
A ball of light! A joy! Pure, shiny, happy.Â
Or perhaps misunderstood, sad, victimised.Â
Just like a certain person we know of! - Mutual friends, you know.
HowâŠsweet. You poor. Little. Darling. Thing.
But wait, whatâs that laughter booming forth, as if out of thin air?
A sound that springs to mind a vision of lips curling up in amusement, like a snake, and eyes shining with mirth.
A villain has come to visit! Just for you? ⊠You truly are incredible.
Come, come! Surely you must banish them.Â
After all⊠they only know evil.
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Disclaimer: if struggling with mental health, I do not recommend you take part in this PAC. If you are in a bad place, do not read this. The following may seem harsh to some people. None of this is advice, and if you are worried about something absolutely seek expert help in your life.
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GROUP 1
Out stepsâŠ
Captain hooks very own right hand man? Mr. Smee!
He looks so friendly, even a little nervous. Are we sure this is the right person?
Fiddling with his hat, he's here, hoping to remind you that you mustn't enable, just to receive the love or attention that you want.Â
Who have you been enabling, or aiding in your past that hasnât meant well, out of this âundying loyaltyâ of yours.
Oh, you sweet child.Â
So âblindâ to the truth.
You see the best in people, yes?
And never the bad, no?
The benefit of the doubt, so abundant it seems. To the point of certainty.
How can anyone be cruel, when youâre so kind to them?Â
Surely, if you show them undying loyalty, regardless of the outcome, at least you will be safe. At least you wonât have to let go. At least⊠Surely, you can work it out.
Mr smee reminds you that sometimes itâs not about timing being bad, or you needing to try harder⊠Sometimes a person is just bad. Sometimes people just have ill intentions. Sometimes your friend or partner doesnât want to try. Sometimes someone doesnât deserve your loyalty.
Mr Smee was so supportive of Hook, despite the ill he was doing. Who are you enabling and supporting, that just simply wonât let up?
Mr smee jumped in front of a crocodile to help Hook, just as the strength card reminds us of. Why are you throwing yourself into danger for people who treat you so badly?
Do you truly desire to be a martyr? They arenât celebrated as you might think. They are just useful.
This Villain is your visitor because like them, you seem kind and gentle⊠and yet you harm yourself, and ultimately, others. Your âkindnessâ.... It is hurtful.
Your âloyaltyâ is unwarrantedâŠ
You put yourself through things, and for what? To gain favor? For acceptance? What about your own acceptance?
Sidenote: someone has definitely had a break up here. Got the lyrics âyouâre broken hearted, in the right wayâ. If this is you, this is encouragement to see this as an out. You might be absolutely shattered, but thereâs something liberating for you about this.
Yes, just keep waiting. For the person that may never come back, keep waiting for the acceptance of your relative. You can change everything, surely, by staying. Just stay positive, just stay loyal, justâŠstay.
Not.Â
Mr Smee's advice is to have the strength to take action, change your life, move on, not to depend on another person wanting or accepting you. You can move, all on your own. You are not a sidekick!
So stop being such a goody two shoes!
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GROUP 2
Loud clicks on the floor sound through, as if the person walking owns everything they are in the presence of. A signature perfume scent wafting through the air. It states simply: âqualityâ.
Miranda Priestly walks in, sunglasses atop her head and a flick of her fur scarf. I feel a bit sorry for you.
Oh my. You are so⊠anxious, arenât you? She tuts. Canât even find your words. Where is your confidence? Her eyes roam you, studying.Â
She is simple, and streamlined in what she thinks. She has only one point to make about your behaviour.Â
You think youâre so right.
You think the world works one way, and not the other. That integrity always looks the same.
Who do you think you are? - Donât you know you are in the presence of Miranda?
That sense of morality of yours, itâs so cute. Always trying to measure your input and others output. You alienate others, you know. With this âvirtueâ of yours.
Karma? What does that matter? The do-gooders donât automatically become rich and celebrated due to their good behaviour. She rolls her eyes.
When it comes to the nitty gritty, No one can do what she can.
And she reminds you too, no one can do what you do. Sometimes, things are simply down to your ability, and your sense of power.
Doing good, doing bad, sure, on a personal level. But when it comes to getting work done in the office? To securing clients? Karma who?
Sometimes people earn and acquire things simply because they worked to get it. Not because of this âvirtueâ of yours.
She is calling out your need to measure life in terms of âgoodnessâ or âbadnessâ - trying to have a rule in life. Her rule? Get the work done. Who on earth is keeping a tally, other than you? Can you really live like that?
Deep down, sheâs aware of your need to have some sense of control. Why waste it on themes like that, when you can get that control out in the real world?
Miranda tells you to stop being such a goody two shoes, and go get that bag. Go grab that power. Go and achieve.
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GROUP 3
A boisterous cackle and dramatic music plays, curtains falling, dancers⊠Well, dancing. You know the drill. This lady is a fireball, sheâs smart, gorgeous, funny (no..this isnât a script she gave meâŠnot at all)... where was I?
Oh yeah, sheâs hilarious, an amazing leader and is once again an elegant and youthful human!
Yzma saunters through, sways and poses, waiting for applause.
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*claps and hopes itâs enough*Â
I wonder, what could this definitely dazzling woman possibly call you out on?
She growls, remembering the absurdity at all the time she devoted herself to the emperor and the system. All the work! All her time! She gave everything! And just to be fired!?!? By thisâŠthis..CHILD?!
What are you persevering through, dedicating yourself to, way past itâs due date?
Yes, yes, youâre so strong, the tenacity, the persevering and stoic attitude through the hard times blah blah blahâŠ
Well thatâs enough! Yzma was there, did that, wore the ugly t-shirt despite her dazzling looks, and look at just how she was treated!
There was no real accolade, no real appreciation, she stuck it out, for what?!
There is no real point of struggle. Struggle is just struggle, and sometimes you will never get the outcome you imagine. Sometimes you struggle and then you go bye bye. (Yzma waves her hand nonchalantly)
And then what, people talk about how you had such a hard time, and what an amazing person you are, so strong - âI could never go through thatâ. AND WHAT? (Yzma slams her hands down on a table, circling around, ready to pounce).
AND WHERE IS YOUR REWARD?
Yzma knows the reward isnât in waiting for the waves to stop crashing. Because when they did⊠SHE GOT FIRED, OK?Â
You know what, youâŠ.you!Â
Stop being such a goody two shoes!Â
Stop being so gracious and stop waiting for people to finally give you what you rightfully deserve!
Waiting for the dawn of the day, after the darkness, what if itâs not given? What if you take it?
Yzma got tired, and decided to reach out for what she felt she deserved. I mean, she did it in a crazy way, but she is reminding you sometimes you canât silently wait. You know your possibilities, so she says get bitter that youâve not been given the opportunities, and go out and make them yourself!
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GROUP 4
Ok everyone, letâs get ready for your OWLS
Now, we must of course do this by the book, in a secure, risk free way. If otherwise, you may be severely punished.
Get prepared, because this (likely to be) virgo, pink titan of a headmistress does not take any talking back! Hello Dolores Umbridge!
Ahhh, well, well, well.Â
Someone is so very humble, studious, and open minded arenât they.
So humble that they donât take full advantage of the opportunities in front of them. (Umbridge purses her lips, dead set eyes upon the reader).
Youâre so young, so much ahead of you, how can you possibly know what to do. So innocent, you know so little.(her brow quirks).
Someone knows how to play dumb.
SomeoneâŠIs afraid.
Remember how a severe punishment was mentioned? What is it that you fear, by reaching for the stars and doing something new?
Are you, perhaps, a commitment phobe?
Now, Dolores is⊠of course - Iâm sure you are aware of what she is.
But letâs not forget she has been a teacher.
And all teachers want the best outcomes.
She adamantly asks WHY on EARTH are you not taking full advantage of the opportunities out there? You act like you arenât - to probably seem unthreatening - but you are clearly very smart and curious. You appear to pretend to need guidance, almost as if to placate or inspire confidence in another. That is a fine manipulation technique, however, Umbridge is letting you know that it is just getting in your way, now.
You act like youâre confused - yet you know that you are curious about what is offered out there. Allow yourself to grow and become an expert, and get the respectâŠand the resources that you are clearly able to garner.
So stop being a goody two shoes and take all the opportunities and help you can.
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GROUP 5Â
Scar jumps in from above, powerful and gallant. How tiresome, having to put another fool back in their place. He swears this is the last time he will bother to do such a thing. But oh, the world clearly needs him and his intellect.
He will make this quick.
He eyes you, circling. A grimace of disgust, shaping his mouth downwards. Displeasure colours his gaze, and he can take no more.
âSoâŠEmotional.â An outward sigh.
Do you feelâŠfree?
You know, Scar only got so far because of his ability to think logically. You think he acquired any power due to his emotions and connections? He thinks NOT.
Cry it out, let it out, blah blah blahhhh. How bothersome. Many people âcry it outâ. And does that solve their problems?
You think your emotions are freeing, to be swept up by them - (scar arches his brow, mockingly) - they only trap you. How foolish. They sweep you up, move you internally, but your legs go nowhere else.
You wear your heart on your sleeve, donât you? Do you have any strategy?
If your emotions control you, others can. Do you think others are as emotionally open or vulnerable as you are? Do you thinkâŠthey are as sincere as you are?
Scar reminds you that the world is not all love and light, as you have seen with him.
You must protect your heart, being honest isnât always being open! Scar had his boundaries and you should too.
So stop being such a goody two shoes and build up some protection!
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GROUP 6
Well hello there.
We have our favourite emo, Kylo Ren!
Just like Kylo, there is a transition that must happen, and an inner fight between lightness and darkness. You may underneath it all, feel as if there is only darkness and uncertainty. You may be feeling anxious, and unready to let go of the past. You are being asked to become more in the moment, and welcome the new as it comes.
You have a history of giving yourself much to others, almost self sacrificial. Your thoughts might be changing, and you might be wondering why you seem so bitter all of a sudden, or you could be struggling with anger towards your family or guardians.
Kylo Ren knows all too well about the confusion, and deep inner emotions that boil to the surface.
What we perceive as âdarkâ or âlightâ in a situation like this isnât so much about should or shouldnât⊠Itâs about how much we canât take anymore.
How much are you willing to give to maintain harmony? Until your veins run dry? Until you lose all of your precious time? You are oh so empathetic, and giving, and compassionate, and a listener but ohâŠ
Stop being such a goody two shoes, and consider your own happiness for once.
Kylo Ren reminds you that there is only so much one can take emotionally until they are pushed to the edge. Your emotions will come out sooner or later - do you really want it to be in the explosive fashion that his did?Â
He also advises not to let your father figure press your mental/emotional buttons.
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So many angels! So wholesome, You sure told them, didnât you?!Â
You told them that they are so wrong! Everything was incorrect, and none of it is true⊠Right?
