#dontplayyourself

[blackcosplayersofficial]

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[marqweabyss]

She doesn't want you. You deserve better!

Fellas, if you’ve found yourself in a situation where you are dating a woman & you are unsure whether you are being strung along, manipulated, played liked a violin, however you’d like to describe this notion of being someone’s toy or doormat, 9 times out of 10, YOU ARE. 

Denial is not just a river in Egypt, it’s the veil preventing you from accepting the reality and conditions of the situation you’re allowing yourself to fall prey to. 

In the beginning stages of dating her, YOU failed to set boundaries, that would have set the tone for how she will address you. Sometimes kindness can be mistaken for weakness so you have to establish boundaries. Don’t be a “yes man”. Know when to voice your own opinions and don’t be afraid if your opinion goes against hers. She’ll live. Don’t be accessible to her all the time. This can come off as being desperate or you have no life OR your life revolves around her. 

Here’s the scoop :

Red flags

1. Whenever you two are having a conversation, is it one-sided? If the conversation only consists of discussing her problems and well-being, and she NEVER asks about how you are and how your day was? Chances are, she is one of them.

2. Whenever you want to call her, it’s never a good time to talk, however when she wants to speak to you, you’re supposed to drop everything you’re doing to answer her? YEAH!

3. Belittles you and talks down to you... Big YEAH!

4. If her inconsistency is consistent... you should know by now...

... issa dub. 

Overall, she’s exploiting the feelings you have for her, KNOWS that you will come when she calls you. She can disappear for a day, week, month, maybe even a year and out of nowhere hit your line when she feels like it, and guess what? She knows you will answer.

Face it, she does not like you, respect you, nor does she care about your feelings. So stop. Break away. You and her have no future and frankly you have some personal character adjustments to make.

1. Set boundaries. 

2. Know how and when to say no. Don’t be a yes man. If you want to say no, SAY NO. Remember, she’ll live.

3. Stop being so accessible! (Even if you are not busy.) Your time and space is valuable. If you can’t talk, or don’t want to, DO NOT take that phone call or don’t open that text. It’s ok to not want to speak to them. That doesn’t mean you like them any less, it’s called “ME TIME”.

Lastly, You deserve better! But you have to know you deserve better!

You want a woman who is actually interested. A woman who will respect, love and commit to you. You want a woman who’s intentions aren’t to see if she can turn you into a doormat. A woman that is genuinely interested won’t be in the business of “let me see what i can get away with.” That type of woman isn’t searching for a substantial relationship, she’s looking for someone who she can play games with when she’s bored and not occupied by someone else. A woman exuding this type of behavior, you cannot change. That is who she is. You want a woman who is going to be actively wanting to get to know you. Someone that will make just as much of an effort to show you she values her time and your time. 

[reallygifdead-blog]

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[miaxayla]

just found out my ex has a girlfriend. I wish I could say I'm happy for them but all I can really say is girl good luck.

[bittenappletv]

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[lanreobey]

A person who makes 20$/hr can easily live a better life than someone who makes double that if they overstand the tweet. . . . Making more money(fiat) seems to mean a “better” life....it’s a fools gold. Don’t fall for it. . . . Learn to do more with less and don’t just be a consumer but rather a connoisseur of assets not liabilities. . . . Earn more by spending less👁 . . . #financialliteracy #ratrace #keepingupwiththejoneses #dontplayyourself #27thletters #27thletterspodcast https://www.instagram.com/p/CnYGWuCMFSF/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[johnnythehobbyartist]

🗣💯🗣 Word of the Day 🗣💯🗣 One of the hardest lessons that I learned was when I realized that... "There are NO BENEFITS in doubt". See, the more you excuse and allow people to bullshit you, don't get mad and try and play the victim for you allowing their levels of disrespect towards you and then try and blame them, wth 🤔... Where they do that at? 🤣 Guess what? You trained them on how to treat you! So cut the bullshit, they didn't play you... As hard of a pill it is to swallow, you played yourself! Acknowledge and own that shit for what it is... Learn from it, grow as a result of it, and lastly, STOP giving people the "benefit of a doubt", that's how YOU PLAY YOURSELF. It's like this, everybody doesn't have YOUR BEST INTEREST at heart!! At all cost... "Gaurd your heart and PROTECT YOUR SPIRIT". Aye, keep pushing! Because this shit isn't made for the weak at heart! You got this though... Keep growing!!! 😉😎🔥🔥🔥💯 Anyway, what's good IG fam?!?! Happy Thursday!! And as I always say, "Don't forget to be DOPE in real life". 💪🏽🙏🏽👊🏽🍾🥂 . . . . . . . . . . . . Follow (🚨@thereal_rwp1🚨) . . . . . . #therealrwp1 #truestory #grownmanshit #realestshitever #dontplayyourself #itsthetruth #wheresthelie #pointblankperiod #thatpart #wisdomforlife #tellmeimlying #truewordsspoken #staysolid #foodforthought #truthbombs #imjustsaying #somethingtothinkabout #keepingit100 #truthbetold #letthatsinkin #peepgame #isaidwhatisaid #keepingitreal #icantmakethisshitup #icantmakethisup #iaintplayin #accurateaf #aintthatthetruth #imjustthemessenger #dontshootthemessenger https://www.instagram.com/p/CU2ZXMlgXgs/?utm_medium=tumblr

[ciarameghan]

#dontplayyourself #actions #speak #louder #fallinlovewithactions https://www.instagram.com/p/CN0bthcAna3/?igshid=ypm8vlrn3z1q