Why r people asking about rpf?? R people being weird? I just found out that people genuinely ship ackles and Collins which in itself is weird. R people actively going out and doing more than that????
oh, anon. you sweet summer child.
to answer all of your questions: yes.
the whole cockles (collins/ackles) thing is something i really just don’t want to touch on this blog (there are plenty of places to find out about it if you look). jensen and misha have both acknowledged and played into it (again incredibly easy to find), so the lines can get a bit blurred for some fans. this leads to rude or just awkward interactions between fans and actors that otherwise could be easily avoidable.
to people who are new to this kind of fandom and haven’t gotten the talk yet:
Do Not Engage Actors In Real Person Fiction/Real Person Shipping
there are no exceptions. i know you think it’s funny or harmless, but these are human beings with their own lives. how would you feel if a stranger came up to you and started making jokes about how you and one of your friends were definitely sleeping together? it sucks. or worse, if a stranger came up to you and started making jokes about how you and your significant other act in private? it’s uncomfortable and unnecessary.
i don’t really care if you think rpf in itself is okay or not. you as a person should be able to summon the empathy needed to recognize that celebrities are human beings, and what you say to them has an impact. that’s it.
i know the majority of rps understand this and are very respectful and self policing, and i am proud of them. this is not about you, have a lovely day.