#enby tips

[iaspis-hubae]

To my Trans peeps (+ others!!)

my YouTube findings (can apply to other gender identities!!!)

https://youtu.be/RCjBBEjHcks?si=h0_scVrFPYgr4WTP this was rly good and gives examples of how to explore your gender identity w/o going in full drive immediately (he talks abt a lot of helpful stuff and clears things up)

https://youtu.be/T4LHezmUYC4?si=y7VdlEgf2RCC02LQ Binding tips, shows how a shirt might sit on your body, and shows w a binder, sports bra, and bralette

https://youtu.be/qnwOm4RWhhQ?si=bVIyaWqeiyQtEZrA Gives some good advice on somethings that can help, but is also a little less accessable for some people, like for me I can't pluck my eyebrows or dye my peach fuzz, but its some solid advice

When I find more good videos I'll make more posts, gl!!

[passive-aggressive-ant]

Got some decent bra making advice from Amino and thought I'd share.

[rruralroy]

Hey so I'm trying to make my eyebrows grow a bit thicker and fuller so I've been using aloe lotion/gel stuff but is there any other methods I could try?

[unconventional-trans-tips]

use deodorant for the love of God. and a GOOD one, too. NO BODY SPRAY IS NOT DEODORANT PUT THE BOTTLE D O W N

[transnonbinarysupport]

Hey, so I’m a closeted enby. I have a relatively small chest, but my problem is that I look extremely feminine. I have large eyes, long, wavy hair I don’t wanna cut, thin brows, long nails, slim hips, etc. Binding does nothing to my pretty much nonexistent boobs. How can I feel and look more androgynous?

It’s always a hard situation when you’re closeted and don't know how to express yourself, I’m sorry you have to experience that. 

In regards to your appearance, you could do simple things like framing your face with your hair in a square shape rather than an oval. (Or you could just tie it back in a bun and call it good, that’s what I do)

like that, kinda^ 

additionally, for your nails and brows, filing your nails to a square shape, or even cutting them down can give the appearance of more androgynous nails. For brows, Maybelline has a new product that’s like a stain, and you put it on, and its supposed to stay on for 2-3 days. I haven't used it personally, but my sister uses it and her eyebrows are Solid™. 

As for slim hips, those are actually a fairly androgynous thing anyway! if you wear women’s pants, you may need a belt, but that’s the only difficulty I can foresee!

[unconventional-trans-tips]

tie dye your binders. cause pretty binders are expensive, but when binders look showy, they feel less like a dirty secret and you mind less when they peek out.

[unconventional-trans-tips]

i know this is a jokey blog but seriously don't bind with clasp binders. they're worse for your ribs than compression, they're bulkier, they don't have any stretch and most importantly they Don't Work.

I know price is appealing. On AliExpress binders are usually 5-19 dollars, but they'll be damaging and won't last.

BUT

Underworks has a well priced, decent binder for 17 USD, 16 with coupon code UNDER10. It's not too expensive and much safer to bind with. A binder is something worth investing a little more in.

Be safe. please.

[unconventional-trans-tips]

get top surgery and then wear the OPPAI shirt