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it's literally all about having a primary public gender and a secondary personal gender
So uh im a black trans lesbian and ive been trying to get a new job since the last one I had let me go for bullshit reasons, I was in a car crash in the work truck and wasnt the one driving but the guy who was didnt get canned, and I still havent found a new one yet and I need help paying rent since unemployment hasnt come in yet I need 1100$ by the 30th
0/1100
ca/vn: Smokeyquartz
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kofi
75/1100
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good news yall! i have job lined up but it wont start til mid august please keep sharing and donating i REALLY dont wanna get me and my disabled gf evicted
175/1100!
theres over 1500 notes on this post and im not even a third of the way there im gunna become homeless 🥲
225/1100
I love when I check my bank account and it just deadnames me and calls me broke
Anyway hello [tumblr] I legiterally have 62 dollars right now if anyone would like to help an unemployed disabled transgender ndn bitch out lmao?
$TLirs or vnmo tlirsgender or check out my itch.io
Hi thank you tumblr I have more than 62 dollars now 💃 really appreciate it I'm just still circulating this post due to the (gestures broadly) unemployed disabled transgender ndn situation lol
help my beloved mutual if you can ✨
you have to be nicer to nonbinary transfems and that's literally the bare minimum
YES EXACTLY
Got some friends tryna leave this stinky ass red state. If you can toss them a few bucks that would be much appreciated. If nothing else at least share please
emergency!! me, my boyfriend, and our cat need help moving o… Jonas Wobeser needs your support for support a queer couple’s move from kans
by the way. it never is too late to decide you want to be happy. the woman who helped me get hormones didnt start hers until she was 70, and i met her at 73, beautiful and smiling - and told me that the last three years of her life had been her favorite. your favorites might be ahead of you too. why not hang around and find out?
the three most common "help, I'm trying to do/just did my injection and [nothing]" messages I get are, in order
a little leaked out
there's a bubble
blood!!! there's not normally blood! why blood!
leaky girl
first off relax, it's not a huge deal, it looks like more liquid than it is. next time you do your injection, let a single drop fall from the needle onto your skin and compare it to the amount of liquid that leaked out. it'll barely move the plunger, looks like basically the same dose. I've only ever had one girl go "no it was way more" and she's weird for other reasons.
typically this is caused by moving too fast. after you finish pushing the dose, let the needle rest in place for a few seconds. when you pull it out, put your fingertip on the injection site to hold your skin in place.
when you pull the needle out, friction pulls the surrounding tissue along the path of travel and you end up with a lil path to the outside like >>>>>----. if you hold it in place, things bunch up a lil and helps seal the path like xxxxx----
the TV lied bubbles are safe
if you are in a hospital and having air injected to your veins, do not worry. you are not being murdered, they are doing a bubble study. the tiny bubble left in your syringe will at most cause discomfort. it's entirely unnecessary for our medication (unless you are a very leaky girl!), but when done intentionally this is called the "airlock" technique
when you draw up your dose, pull in a little bit of air and (while holding it with capped needle pointed up) flick the syringe until you have one big bubble at the top to push out. when you inevitably end up with a small one stuck to the side, flick it to unstick it so you can float it to the top. the only reason I do this every time is because I think it's fun.
well yeah blood happens
since subq needles are so small (mine are 29 gauge and .5"/13mm long) it's really hard to hurt yourself too badly. outside of some basic sanity checks like making sure you're injecting into the right place and that you have enough subcutaneous tissue there to comfortably accommodate the medication, there's nothing to really worry about. you nicked a blood vessel.
were your hands shaking at the time? the tip of the needle is a cutting edge on the sides as well as the point, lateral motion with a blade that's inside of tissue tends to cause bleeding. even if it's real small.
one girl told me that blood literally squirted out of the injection site, that one I don't blame her for worrying about. we never figured out why, nothing bad ever happened and it never happened again.
bonus: why the fuck did that one hurt so bad???
this one isn't nearly as common, but I've gotten it a lot. I have never once been able to come up with a good explanation, that seems to just happen.
this is all in the context of subcutaneous injections because, barring specific complications, that's the best ROA. if you do IM just because that's what your doctor told you, please reconsider
I'm talking to girls here because girls talk to me, but I don't think any of this would be different for those of you with a blue-flavored gender accident.
It sucks there seems to be a concerted effort to distance the transfem and transmasc communities from each other. If it weren’t for trans women, I probably wouldn’t have realized I was trans until much later in life.
The cis women in my life were so miserable in their womanhood, I thought that misery was normal. Seeing trans women actually love and fight to be seen as women made me question my own misery
hey since my Kofi is back up, I need some help since I paid some pretty big bills and groceries, I need to save up to help support me and my sisters while also getting small stuff for myself (which is done after bills are paid)
thank you, sorry I ask so much 😭😭😭 living is so hard these days
if you like my art here's my link to support me! meow ^_^
Look at the cute mice and help me and them out
Whoagh look at those beans!
These beans were abandoned by their mother, who is also tragically refusing to pay me child support (/j).
More seriously however: I need help.
These guys are still young enough that I need to feed them every 2 hours, which means I am barely sleeping, I am taking a ~2 hour nap at a time and less than that if I also take care of myself.
Being awake like this and caring for these guys is frankly, exhausting.
I am already disabled and terminally ill, I have CFS, these things come together to mean that while I am taking care of them, I'm not taking care of me very well.
Something that would really really help me would be if I could get food for my house that is easier to cook. And maybe even meds for my migraine disorder because not sleeping is setting it off badly.
Right now, having to take time to make food that takes a long time to cook cuts into the time and energy I need for these guys.
I would really really love to just be able to get some easier to cook food, and other supplies if needed (these babies may need things like pedialyte etc). Unfortunately, my bank account is empty, and that isn't even getting into this month's bills.
If anyone wants to help me and these babies, you can send funds to:
Paypal: [email protected] Cashapp: $ScareCrowned Venmo: Ask, it only works with a QR code fsr, so I can send it.
Sharing a fundraiser for a friend of a (dear) friend, it's pets require emergency surgery and any little bit helps!
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Please help if you can! 💖
People outside the gender binary are valid 💜🫂
Please Help us Survive the Summer
Hi there again. I'm Casi. I'm a disabled Enby who is the only caregiver for my elderly disabled mother, and we're Homeless.
Mom is 70yrs old and has chronic bronchitis and arthritis and Mobility issues, and I'm chronically ill and multiply disabled myself. Where we live has already had multiple days of 105°F (40°C) temperatures throughout the Spring, its gonna be a hot summer. We cannot be on the Streets.
I have us in a Hotel because its the safest option for us. We have no family that can put us up for even a night and while I'm always on the lookout for outreach groups and programs we might qualify for, at this point we're on our own.[ and incredibly grateful for all the kind and generous support to help us through]
But the rates have gone up to Summer Prices which will make things a little more difficult than they already are. The Current rate is $98.30 a day / $688.03 a Week.
Moms Social Security is our only stable income apart from donations and my Redbubble and Ko-Fi shops where I sell my art. I've been looking for stable work but its always been a joke that there "more people than jobs" in this town and that's even truer now than ever, and without any transportation I can't even do Odd Jobs or Gigwork.[cant doordash on foot, can't to yardwork on the other side of town if I cant get myself there and back safely etc...]
Moms income will only cover 12 days of the month, and that's without putting any of that towards Meds or Groceries. We do get $290 SNAP/Food Stamps, on the 9th, but with the prices of everything between absofuckinglutly ridiculous, that too, only goes so far.
Literally Any Amount of Help would be incredibly appreciated. Really and Truly.
PayPal // Ko-Fi / Redbubble
JULY
Covid Tests Negative.
Got both Moms checks without Financially abusive sister taking any, got food and meds + additional medications for whatever this bug we've got is.
Extended our current reservation until the 13th
As usual, any help is so incredibly appreciated. It really really is.
One week until we have to pay for the room.
Can anyone please help me eat today? 0/25
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Need help eating today, and rents coming up. Idek how much I need for rent, I can’t see my paystubs until I get my check now. 0/20 food
0/400 for rent
Can modify my goal for rent, I’m only short $250! Any help with this would be greatly appreciated, it’s due no later than the 5th!!!
0/250
I shared 25 for food. If 15 people did their best to match me, my friend could pay rent no problem.
every time a trans man who does not want to be called a twink gets called a twink I will personally go out into the world and rend 1 parked car to shreds with my teeth. cut it out
walk with me for a moment. let's think for a sec. I'm not upset but I do want people to understand. do you think assigning a label associated with feminine features, hairlessness, skinniness/lack of muscle tone, and high pitched voices is something that most trans men would feel comfortable being associated with? why or why not?
of COURSE there are trans men who don't mind it, or trans men who actively enjoy being called a twink. but I am not hairless by choice. I WANT fat and muscles and body hair and a deep voice. and a lot of trans men that get called twinks DO HAVE THESE THINGS, yet they get called "twink" anyway. why do you think that might be?
it's okay if you've done this in the past. maybe just check in before you call your friend or acquaintance something with so many specific, potentially disheartening associations!
I wonder if the inverse occurs with trans women getting called "butch" too. because there are many wonderful butch trans women!!! but if you call trans women "butches" for traits like short hair or body hair despite otherwise feminine presentation, maybe think about why that is? is she really a butch? or is that just her body? just ask first!
nonbinary people too. are they really "masc presenting" or is that just their body? are they really "fem presenting" or is that just their body? let's all try to be a bit more cognisant of the language we use to describe the trans people in our lives, yeah? [: it's worth thinking about. don't worry yourself into a hole about it, of course! but it's something to check every now and then.
Happy disability pride month! Me and my wife are both trans disabled women and could use some help with disability aids, medicine and bills. Please help us if you can, if it helps you'd also be helping another disabled person by helping us with bills. Also we're the moms of @rickybabyboy
$329/$600 raised
Edit: I got bad news about my appointment for getting better/cheaper pain meds regarding the fees, it will be another $300, please help me if you can
Edit 2: I am quickly running out of narcolepsy meds
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I am giving this one more desperate try. I need help urgently, the more time that passes the more likely I'll have to buy more expensive pain meds and have to start fundraising all over. Please help a trans woman who has been harassed about needing help.
happy pride 🌈 im a Black nonbinary Haitian-Senegalese lesbian artist in recovery for some p severe trauma, goal is soup for meds, grateful for any help <3 c4$h4pp v3nm0 p4yp4l k0fi
goal is still soup for meds, just trying to survive to get the treatment i need <3
been sick literally all day, havent got to eat or take my meds yet, even $1 or a kind word will help <3
still sick,, grateful for any donations <3
been up and sick, in a lot of pain, goal is soup <3
see my dr this morning, grateful for any help <3
at my dr literally sick as a dog, idk wtf they can do for me but i have to go home soon bcs its getting worse grateful for any help getting home <3
my nightmare 😢 stool test and GI referral, grateful for any help with soup for meds while we figure it out <3
have to wait to hear back. even $1 or a kind word will help <3
i see another dr today, pls help if you can <3
goal is still soup for meds and clean laundry 😕 i dont even have clean socks, even $1 will help <3
Please dont forget about my friend.
Adding 10 to my 25, making it 35. Please do your best to match me.