I have to say being a mom isn't easy all the time. I love being a mom, but sometimes I wanna just scream. My youngest is getting bullied in the school he's in on and off since he's been in it. I have to say I am getting highly upset. I have called the school and talked to the principal in the past and talked to the assistant principal and told them what is going on. It isn't even kids in the same grade as him, their younger than him. I have told him to not do anything back but then nothing gets settled. I have always said fighting violence with violence doesn't work. But I have gone through proper channels with no solution to him not getting bullied, I'm not sure what's the punishment for these children cause of laws, but it seems like once they fix one incident another one happens. It isn't just one kid either, it has been a bit of kids from his bus. I'm getting beyond mad that my kid is being targeted and bullied for what, I have no clue. It doesn't matter at this point what matters is that he should feel safe in the school he is at. So I told him to fight back, I've always told my kids I don't beat them at home. I do not expect my kids to go to school and not feel safe and get hurt at school by other students. My child has been choked which good thing didn't cause bruising most likely cause it was a younger kid who did it. He has been punched, slapped, called nasty nasty names I would never call someone. They have made fun of his hair when it was longer, they make fun of his weight which come on, do better. They have made fun of his sexuality, calling him gay. Which I have told him what that is and he has expressed he isn't. Which even if he was I would totally support him. LOVE IS LOVE. I've always been a big supporter of LOVE IS LOVE and people should be able to love whoever they love. I have gay/lesbian/BI friends. I don't know how children can be so hateful. I have told my children never to put their hands on anyone unless someone hurts them first, Even then sometimes I'm not too sure. But it has happened numerous times and I finally told them do what they have to, cause if it isn't gonna stop why shouldn't they be able to defend themselves. Parents need to teach their children to be better. That regardless what they shouldn't hate/hurt other children. That their words and their fist hurt and they shouldn't do to others what they don't want happening to themselves. Hate is awful and we should all treat others the way we want to be treated. I have always expressed this to my children and I will always enforce it, it is so important to treat others with love, respect and just how you would want to be treated. We all must do better to help shape our children into people that would help the world be a better place. I love my children yes I ain't the perfect parent, but I always am there for my child when they are getting hurt and I refuse to see my children so sad. Lets end bullying! LETS do BETTER!
