I just wanna say that I do love Eric/Donna. But there is one instance where I’ve seen that practically every one believes Donna was right, and Eric was wrong to be upset. And thats when Donna left Eric waiting for her after the concert for hours. And didn’t even didn’t even feel bad about it, and even said that she shouldn’t have to be sorry. Now while I can agree she shouldn’t feel bad about doing the interview, I do think she should’ve felt bad about keeping him waiting and I think it’s very telling that she didn’t feel bad about that.
Anyways before this ask gets too long, what do you think? Was Eric wrong and Donna right, or was Donna wrong and Eric right?
This particular situation is a little nuanced imo.
Donna definitely wasn't wrong for going to meet Ted Nugent. It was a big opportunity and Eric would've definitely been happy for her.
However, what was wrong, was that Donna didn't let Eric know that she couldn't be there. If she had, I know for sure Eric would've understood, but she didn't say anything.
Not only that, but she legit admitted that she wasn't sorry for ditching him. Donna even goes as far to basically say that open communication only applied to people that are married.
Donna: I didn't ditch you! This was Ted Nugent, this was a huge opportunity for me! So come Monday I don't have to just talk about the farm report, I could talk about the interview. Like an interviewer. Eric: Well, you know what Donna? All I can say is that my Mom would never bail on my dad like that. Donna: Yeah, but their married. Eric: Okay, okay, let's just forget it. You're sorry, everything's fine. Donna: I never said I was sorry. Eric: But, you are right? Donna: I shouldn't have to be.
(Even looking at this makes me mad tbh. Shows Donna's view on relationships.)
Donna literally stands Eric up with no warning, makes excuses, and admits that she isn't sorry.
Basically, Donna was wrong for not telling Eric she couldn't make and for acting like she didn't do anything wrong for standing him up.













