#existencialvoidofexistence

[aro-culture-is]

Aro culture is not understanding how people get jealous when their crushes date someone else or their partners flirt with people?

[lilolilyr]

Tagged by @existentialvoidofexistence thxxxx

Favourite comfort food: chocolate, ice cream, spaghetti

Favourite alcohol (or hot drink): Vodka Lemon or Desperados or hot chocolate with whipped cream & marshmallows!

Favourite relaxing activity: reading :)

Favourite calming scent: forest after rain ~

Favourite relaxing/uplifting song: i literally cannot think of one rn??

Favourite white noise: sleep music, in particular this video on youtube

Favourite book to get lost in: Sara, die kleine Prinzessin

Favourite chill-out tv show: H20- Just Add Water

Best advice Ive ever heard: basically this Do Good Recklessly thread

As I already said on my last post, I have a shitton of tagging memes to catch up on and have therefore decided to only tag five people on each of them so as not to spam anyone (& not having to take so long for each post myself), but if you do want to do several of them, you're all welcome to check out & do the others as well, just click the tag 'tagged' under this post on my blog to find them :) @banashee @helianthus-hufflepuff @aeternumregina @aegir-emblem @midniaght

[astralaspecs]

Was there an actual explanation ever as to why exclus think aphobia=mysogeny? There doesn’t seem to be much overlap so like did they just pick randomly or?

Because they assume ace (by extension, aro) people are all white (cis) women looking to be oppressed. They think being harassed/assaulted by someone because you aren’t attracted to them is just misogyny when it comes to ace/aro women.

[the-quiver-of-aros]

I just forgot your url and had to spend like 10 minutes trying to find ur blog anyway i saw some aphobic stuff can i get a hug pls 💚

@existencialvoidofexistence ! It’s okay it take me forever to be able to spell your url correctly! I’m really sorry you saw aphobic stuff, of course you can get a hug! 💚🦈

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[grumpytrans]

I love ur green hair it looks super good on you also give the kitty kisses from me please

thank you so much, i actually love how it looks too!! ok i gave her three kisses from you and she mrped and shook her head. that means thank you in Remi. take care friend ❤️💕

[daily-hidgens]

Charlotte, Bill, Ted or Paul? Who's your favourite?

"the kids? well, they're not my kind of people."

[lilolilyr]

Quarantine tag

Rules: the last photo of a celebrity that you saved to your phone is your current quarantine buddy and then tag ten people 

Tagged by @existencialvoidofexistence thx!! Sorry it took me ages, I'm gonna do the other ones soon, don't stop tagging me plz, I love tagging memes I just always need a week or so ...

Does a cosplayer with idk 10k i think followers count as a celebrity? If yes @alittleandroid on instagram:

Other than that:

♡♡♡

Tagging: @banashee @clarissaseton @schokosweety @katate-cupcake @selfiealien @pythonessess

[aro-culture-is]

12, 17

(x) Aro asks!

12) What would your ideal offline aromantic community space look like?

Honestly? I’m a very simple person with simple needs. Aromantic people who regularly meet and talk about shit and do activism - maybe talking about the privileges associated with marriage and how that hurts people who don’t want to or can’t get married. (include disabled people in that conversation too!)

17) Do you believe in magic/the supernatural?

Nope! I think it’s a cool thing to entertain but I’m not really into that kind of stuff. Fun to look at, though I try to be careful about the numerous numerous stereotypes and biases that various magic/supernatural things can originate around. Also I tend to avoid it on tumblr due to the sketchy amounts of terfs I encounter when I look at those types of posts.