Hi blonn!! I hope you are doing well. As someone who’s been in many fandoms, I see the patterns in this one like a broken record. But at the same time, what’s scary is the intensity. Just like the two of them came out of nowhere to become superstars in three months, this fandom also spiraled into a mass psychosis in the same amount of time. It’s like everything that usually takes years to happen in a fandom took only three months here.
So, if you’ll allow me to share, I would like to talk about a experience I had. I was here during the "tomdaya" era and I got stuck in a vicious cycle of tarot readings, edits, and fan theories and since I was very young, I didn't understand the nuances of tarot or that theories weren't necessarily facts, and I actually ended up getting sick (seriously). I would go to sleep and wake up thinking about it until I decided to call it quits. I ripped it off like a Band-Aid; I distanced myself from any news about the actors and the fandom, which was a mess.
I lived my life peacefully and barely even remembered them anymore until one random day in 2021, a friend texted me saying they had confirmed they were dating. It’s crazy because by then, I didn't even care about them anymore, but what everyone had been obsessing over happened without me having to spend years and years in a state of anxiety, questioning "if" and "when".
I’m not saying the same thing will happen with HC, but it's a real possibility and do you guys really want to spend 1, 2, 3 or more years obsessing over this, or would you rather live in peace, supporting two talented people without overthinking everything, and just letting yourself be surprised one day?? Do you get it? Because I’ll tell you one thing: Both Hudson and Connor are going to have other relationships before any of this works out, that’s just part of it. Like tomdaya was the same way and I suffered a lot lol, and it’s just not worth it.
Please, go live your own lives. Sorry for the rant Blonn, take care ❤️
Thank you for sharing💖
