#fb slur

[dykesbites]

actually quite tragic bc the first two lines are bangers. and then the next two are one million points of psychic damage. you cant be talking like that ftm baby...

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

i had an idea, something like bigender tomboy femboy, specifically feeling like a girl in a masculine way and like a boy in a feminine way at the same time. is there something like that?

Here you go! [link]

Just so you know, I did avoid using the Fem word you used in your request, as it is derogatory/a slur, and I wish to be respectful! Hopefully this is still what you are looking for!

(PS: rosboy is a great alternative!)

[bigswigrollers]

people making yandere shit out of kinito is vile not only because of the regular reasons (fetishizing mental illnesses and/or abuse) but because the creator specifically banned the word in his discord server

[nathanexplosionbignaturals]

Sorry I need to be a hater but it's literally insane to me how f1nn5ter can just drop the f*mb*y slur repeatedly on his twitter and no one fucking cares 😭 like it's genuinely so gross because I feel a lot of the content on there is also like I'm sooo manly (photo of him looking feminine) and it just feels like very very transmisogynistic in the way of oh GOTCHA straight men I'm a GUY.

yes that last part especially. his entire shtick is just playing into transmisogynistic right-wing fetish fantasies for cishet men. it's disgusting and he needs to be pelted with rocks

[mogai-headcanons]

Toshinori Yagi from My Hero Academia is a biromantic demisexual griefisic griefmelt withinyoumelt phanheartia umbrenic fleshliminix transmasculine genderqueer femboy!

He's married to Shota Aizawa, a biromantic asexual man!

They're best friends with Hizashi Yamada, a panromantic caedsexual erosmelt lovebite loveminrsic angelesque matifogender erosic trans man!

Hizashi is married to Oboro Shirakumo, a steamgender gendercloud altocumulusio nordlumokenic twilastrostelvioli rosblujayic songbirdia twilullaesic pasbowrosaesic loveybow aviamasc ghalfian goldsetia queer masc enby!

Toshinori has two sons, Deku and Katsuki!

Izuku Midoriya is a nonbinary queer person who goes by Deku!

Their older brother Katsuki Bakugo is an aromantic bisexual person who's questioning his gender!

dni link

[transmisogyny-explained]

I would really appreciate if TMEs didn’t scroll past this post.

Generally, people (who aren’t transmisogynists that speak over trans women and brush aside our issues) seem to understand at this point that “f*mboy” is a transmisogynistic slur and transmisogyny-exempt people shouldn’t reclaim it. But I think it’s important to have a discussion about how the meme itself also ties into transmisogynistic fetishism, so that’s what I’ll be attempting to explain today.

CW/TW: Transmisogyny; perisexism; misgendering; talk of porn, fetishism, and genitals; uncensored slurs; homomisia mention; minor p*dophilia mention

The origins of the current mainstream image/meme of the femboy can be traced back to the anime/manga trope of the futanari, which is the Japanese word for hermaphrodite. In anime/manga (particularly hentai), a futanari character is a woman (or feminine humanoid) who is often quite voluptuous/attractive and who possesses a penis (sometimes in addition to a vagina and sometimes without testicles). The perceived “discordance” between an attractive woman and her possession of a penis is what the people attracted to futanari (usually cishet men) find at once jarring and enticing. It’s the simultaneous perisexist and transmisogynistic fetishization of the idea of intersex people’s and trans women’s bodies and denial of the idea that our bodies could even exist outside of these fantasies, rendering them “safe for consumption.”

However, our bodies can, of course, exist outside of fiction and fantasy, which leads us to the discussion (which is deeply rooted in homomisic anxiety) of whether or not it’s “gay” for men to be attracted to “real life futanari” — Are you gay if the woman you find attractive turns out to have a penis? Enter the concept of “traps.” In anime, a trap is a boy who disguises himself as a girl, intentionally leads others to assume he’s a girl from his appearance, and often reveals himself to be (or is sometimes forcibly outed as) a boy only after other male characters (and, by proxy, the assumed straight male audience) have expressed interest in or attraction to him, shocking and embarrassing them. It is meant to be a source of comedy much of the time, but the narrative rarely questions the possibility that this character may identify as transfeminine and deserves to have their identity respected. They are always assumed to be cis boys who either simply enjoy looking like girls or have an ulterior motive for tricking people into thinking they are a girl.

When people started to realize that this was and is an extremely transmisogynistic trope (the idea that gay men will disguise themselves as women to “trick” straight men into sleeping with them is often applied to trans women and frequently seen as the only way a cis man could possibly be attracted to us), they decided to change the name of the game: Enter femboys. Femboys often look exactly like the standard trap — a very young, semi-androgynous, flat-chested, thin, white anime girl — though they’re frequently depicted even more salaciously because the artist has no reason to “conceal their masculine traits,” instead drawing attention to their genitals.

The default reasoning people use as to why this concept isn’t transmisogynistic is that femboys are gender-nonconforming boys who aren’t trying to trick anyone into believing that they’re girls. Unlike futanari, they aren’t meant to be women, and unlike traps, their appearances aren’t meant to be “deceptive.” However, this argument completely ignores that half of the issue with traps and futanari is that they are a fetish. In every instance, a great deal of emphasis is placed on the penis — it’s shocking and unexpected; it’s connotative of a cis boy in disguise; it’s accentuation goes hand-in-hand with male femininity, designating male femininity as inherently erotic. Trans women on this site have discussed this before, but the term “femboy” is literally used in porn to denote a fetish of transfeminine people. And it’s used right alongside other transmisogynistic slurs.

And these concepts — that trans women can be summed up as “women with penises,” that we’re an erotic curiosity to be simulated, that we’re inhuman, hermaphrodites, or “in-betweens,” that we’re men who want to trick other men into sleeping with us, etc. — are what get us reduced to our genitals, reduced to our assigned genders, dehumanized, and even killed. This is what you’re contributing to when you normalize the fetishization of “femboys,” the fetishization of the juxtaposition between a feminine presentation with a so-called “masculine” biology. If supporting trans women and fighting against transmisogyny matter more to you than just the appearance of being an ally, cut it out.

[Image ID: A banner of the pink trans woman flag with white text that reads, “I don’t want to see or be seen by transmisogynists” next to a green check mark /end ID]

[lubotomies]

Femboi tord :>

thats not happening

[skopostheorie]

WAIT forgot to say Good Mornign :)