#fearfulavoidant

[roquesox]

sometimes i get really jealous of toxic people.

imagine how easy life must be to move on from any situation and be totally guilt-free, even if you hurt someone so badly they can't ever recover?

probably way easier than me being gaslighted to the point where i now feel guilty about wanting to take care of myself instead of every other person in the world (who also has it so much worse than i do).

[wendycore]

[missamychan]

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