The Fluffy Alphabet was originally posted by @swimmingstudentchaos891 for Pippa Cox x Reader. She deserves all the credit for the questions used for each letter - and she posted her own version for Cabenson, which I didn't realize until I had already put all this together, so make sure you go read hers as well! All I did was alter the answers to my own for Rolivia and Cabenson.
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Fluffy Alphabet
A - Adorable: What do they find especially endearing?
Cabenson • Alex finds it adorable that Olivia tosses and turns all across the bed at night like a toddler, and that Liv is Foodie at heart but doesn't notice it at all. Liv finds it adorable that Alex won't leave the house in the morning unless her panties match her outfit, and that Alex can't dance to save her life.
Rolivia • Olivia secretly thinks it's endearing that Amanda still pops her bubblegum like a teen, even though Liv tells the squad she finds it annoying. Amanda thinks it's endearing that Olivia loves to let Billie and Jessie sit in the Captain's chair behind the desk at the office, and even got them little souvenir badges to wear when they come visit.
B - Bargain: How do they get their way?
Cabenson • Alex promises to come home early from the office for X number of days when she is trying to bargain. Olivia will email recipes to Alex that she knows Alex wants them to cook together.
Rolivia • Olivia will offer to do bathtime with the girls by herself to let Amanda nap after dinner. Amanda makes this face:
C - Communicate: What is their love language?
Cabenson • Olivia's love language is quality time, so the more time she spends with Alex, or days that she leaves work early, the more Alex knows Liv cares about their intimacy. Alexandra's language is words of affirmation; she makes the time so send Liv surprise notes and cards to remind her that she thinks of her even when things are chaotic.
Rolivia • Amanda's love language is physical touch - she takes every opportunity she can to hold Liv's hand, cuddle her, sneak kisses, and make love ravenously. Liv returns with acts of service, by taking on more with the kids, and making sure Amanda has enough alone time to decompress.
D - Devoted: How do they show they're serious?
Cabenson • First when they started dating, Alexandra knew that Liv was serious when she noticed her tuning out work when they were together, or rearranging things in her schedule. Work is the same as breathing for Liv, so when her priorities shift to include you, you know you're doing something right. Olivia knew that Alex wasn't going anywhere when she started letting other people know that they were a couple. Alex is very private and doesn't discuss her personal life within work unless it's serious.
Rolivia • Amanda knew she was doing something right when Liv began trusting her to be alone with Noah more often. She hasn't always been the easiest to trust, so it means everything to Rollins when Olivia approves of her as a parent. When Amanda stopped telling Liv that she was "fine" whenever she wasn't, Liv knew they were in it for the long haul. Amanda has never trusted anyone with her feelings the way she trusts Olivia.
E - Enchanted: What first caught their eye?
Cabenson • It was Olivia's swagger that first caught Alex's attention. She has a soft spot for Butches, and Liv had all of that going on when they first met. Liv was captivated by Alex's intelligence and smooth talking approach to law and interpersonal communication.
Rolivia • Obviously, Amanda's crush started before she left Georgia, with her adoration of Liv's success and compassion for victims/the unit. Liv was eventually snagged by Rollins' tenacity and refusal to be herded to the back of the class when it came to showing off her positive abilities.
F - Flirty: How do they flirt?
Cabenson • Alexandra is very traditional in her flirting. She uses subtle clues bc she doesn't like to be overt about her attraction to women. Long, smoldering looks, or bumping her body into Liv "accidentally," followed by formal dates with flowers. She likes to wine and dine to wow. Liv is a little less naturally skilled at flirting, and sometimes her approaches are more awkward. She will make corny jokes about Alex "throwing the book" at her, always wanting to make Alex laugh, which she considers the biggest reward.
Rolivia • With Amanda, Liv flirts by inviting her to talk about things from the South that she misses or loved growing up. It gets Amanda animated, her eyes bright, and Olivia enjoys her excitement. Amanda is the more traditional one, who tends to flirt by complimenting Liv's hair, outfit or makeup, and by reminding her that she is the strongest woman she has ever met.
G - Gentle: How do they provide comfort?
Cabenson • Olivia make sure that Alex gets enough to sleep and eat, because otherwise the blonde is prone to burnout. Alexandra sneaks Liv's favorite candy and chocolate into every nook and cranny she can find so that there is always something when Liv starts to stress or crash.
Rolivia • Amanda remembers the little things when Olivia is too exhausted, like watering the plants in her office so they don't die, and remembering to celebrate Noah for passing a test. Liv likes to give Amanda foot massages on movie nights while they laugh out stress and snack on chocolate.
H - Hot: What is their favorite look on their partner?
Cabenson • Alexandra has four words: The Butcher, the Better. Leather jacket, short hair, white T-shirt, with a wallet crammed in the back pocket of her jeans. Olivia once suggested they rent a motorcycle for a weekend date and Alex about came in her panties. Liv loves to see Alex being domestic. In the kitchen with an apron on, her hands full of flour and her hair pulled back in a messy ponytail while she peers at a cookbook.
Rolivia • Amanda lives to see Formal Benson. Any excuse to get Olivia dressed up in a dress or gown, with full makeup and jewelry, and Amanda is a happy woman. For Liv's part, she prefers Amanda's classic Georgia Peach look, jeans and checkered button-down shirts with natural, messy blonde hair and even a bandana at her throat.
I - Intimate: What kind of dates do they like?
Cabenson • Alexandra is all fancy restaurants, wine tastings, museums and exhibits. She likes high-minded dates, and beautiful aesthetics. Olivia likes to play to Alex's Butch/Femme soft spot and plans picnics, surprise roadtrips, and bed and breakfast getaways.
Rolivia • Liv indulges Amanda's Southern side here, too, with horseback riding, and Southern cooking classes, mixed with dates that can include the kids: carnivals, water parks, etc. Amanda treats Olivia to homey dates that have a family feel that she knows Liv craves, like homemade dinners in, movie nights on the couch, or making art/crafts with the kids.
J - Jealous: How jealous are they? How do they show it?
Cabenson • Men flirting with Olivia doesn't really bother Alexandra, because she knows they have nothing to offer. Women, on the other hand, make her blood boil by flirting with her girlfriend. She shows it by using her height and her clipped courtroom tone to bleed any flirting out of the situation. Liv isn't nearly as jealous, of either men or women flirting with Alex, as she is secretly impressed by anyone who has the balls to flirt with the polished ADA. When she is tired or impatient, she will shut down any flirting by making an overt comment to indicate Alex is hers.
Rolivia • When it comes to jealousy, Amanda is like a possessive chihuahua with Liv. She will be snarky and short with anyone she thinks is crossing the line. She knows Olivia can hold her own, but she can't always catch her jealousy reflex before it goes off. Olivia is secretly self-conscious of their age difference, so she gets jealous every once in a while, but it comes out as self-depricating comments/sarcasm. Rollins lets these moments slide and handles Liv with tender reassurance.
K - Karma: How do they apologize?
Cabenson • It takes Alexandra longer to get around to apologizing. Partly due to lawyer brain - she has a focus on winning. She gets around to it, though, and apologizes softly, quickly, efficiently. Olivia is used to having to apologize in her work position, so she gets there faster, but if she really fucks up, she likes to include a surprise with her apology, like flowers, a coffee, or meeting Alex for an unexpected shared lunch.
Rolivia • Because of all of Rollins' past trauma, Liv apologizes nearly immediately when they have a blowout, wanting Amanda to know that she is more self-aware than her one-night stands or her toxic family. Hell nearly freezes over while Amanda gets around to apologizing, and when she does, it is usually whispered into the dark when they lay down at night to go to sleep. Olivia just squeezes her hand and kisses the back of her neck.
L - Lust: Favorite thing about their partner?
Cabenson • Alex loves that she feels like she and Liv are equals in their relationship. Equal in intelligence, their passion for their careers, in sexual prowess, and in relationship expectations. Things are very balanced. Olivia's favorite thing is the casual, nerdy side of Alexandra that almost nobody else gets to see. Just lazing around the apartment on a rainy Saturday with coffee, and her hair messy while she reads her favorite book for the 25th time.
Rolivia • Olivia loves that Amanda never tires of learning. Not just job things, but relationship things. Their age difference gives Liv the opportunity to watch second-hand the type of growth she went through at the same age. Amanda loves Liv's bottomless well of compassion for broken souls, even when it drives Liv to the brink of disaster (like with Brian).
M - Memory: What is their favorite memory together?
Cabenson • Liv's favorite memory is the first time Alexandra introduced her to someone else as her girlfriend. Alex's is the first time Olivia trusted her enough to sleep over at her apartment, falling asleep in her arms.
Rolivia • As cliché as it is, Amanda's favorite memory is their first kiss. She waited for it so long, she thought it was never coming, and had dreamed of it a million different ways. Liv's favorite memory is the first time Amanda let her feed Jessie a bottle after she was born. She could never forget the look in Amanda's eyes.
N - Normal: What does a normal day look like for them?
Cabenson • Neither of their careers allows for much normalcy from weekday to weekday, but it generally begins with a light breakfast, lots of coffee, then days spent at their separate offices until a little past closing time. At home, their weekday evenings involve plenty of relaxing - hot tea, candles, books, bubble baths, and wine. Weekends they make up for their weekday grind by always planning adventurous or romantic dates.
Rolivia • Three kids + two Career Moms = chaos. Weekday mornings are a flurry of cereal, mismatched socks and espresso while they get the kids taken care of in time to get out the door. Long days at the office are filled with communicating with the Nanny, then evenings are all dinner, homework, baths, stories and getting them to sleep to do it all over again. Saturdays are usually the day they let the kids pick what they want to do, while Sundays are a bit more sedate, getting the kids to play inside and chill so the moms can breathe.
O - Obvious: How do they show they're together?
Cabenson • Alex tells her receptionist to never turn away one of Liv's calls or visits to the office. Alexandra doesn't shout it from the rooftops, but once she feels secure, the most important people in her life always know. Olivia subtly changes her union paperwork for SVU to indicate Alex as her partner/beneficiary/next-of-kin.
Rolivia • Amanda and Olivia list each other as emergency contacts and pickups for each other and their kids on all the paperwork for work and school.
P - Peace: How do they relax together?
Cabenson • They will read together, cook together, watch old movies, or take bubble baths together.
Rolivia • They eat popcorn and cookies and chocolate while watching sitcoms. Sometimes they will take naps, cuddled together on the couch.
Q - Quiet: What can they do together without talking?
Cabenson • Read, dance, make love, take walks in the park holding hands, paperwork they bring home.
Rolivia • Enjoy movies, communicate in interrogation, and agree on discipline for the kids. Other than that, they are very chatty together with everything else. Lol
R - Romantic: What kind of gifts do they give?
Cabenson • Alex likes to give Olivia things related to their apartment together, because she wants Liv to have a home she loves. She will sneak looks at her wishlists on different websites and look at her search histories to pick the thing Liv has been pining for. Olivia surprises Alex with lavish gifts because she knows the ADA likes to feel classy. Jewelry, wines, or trips that Alex dreams of but puts off.
Rolivia • Liv gives Amanda things that callback to her Tomboy days. She likes to surprise her with tickets to basketball or baseball games. Take her and the kids to events where there are bugs or snakes. Amanda gives Liv flowers, and buys her lingerie because she knows they are things she loves that she never allows herself to treat herself to.
S - Sleep: How do they sleep together?
Cabenson • Alex sleeps in the dead centre of the bed and makes Olivia work around that, on one side or the other. Liv is the one who tosses and turns, so she will change frequently during the night from laying on Alex's chest to spooning at her side.
Rolivia • Amanda is a light sleeper who wakes frequently from her dreams. They sleep close enough to reach each other, but curled into themselves because they each want some of their own space.
T - Thoughtful: What small things do they do for each other?
Cabenson • Olivia will sneak chocolate into Alexandra's briefcase on her court days because she knows the blonde needs a boost of endorphins. Alex stores away tidbits of info from Liv's high school and college stories, then surprises her with retro gifts. Old albums or t-shirts that make Liv smile and remember.
Rolivia • Liv sneaks all kinds of quick snack foods into Amanda's desk because she hates when she skips meals. That way she can always eat a granola bar or a yogurt when she starts to feel that gnawing. Amanda secretly replaces Olivia's office plants with new ones when things get away from them and the current ones die, so that Liv can continue to believe that she has a green thumb.
U - Unity: What would their wedding be like?
Cabenson • Small, intimate, elegant. Perhaps a destination wedding in Italy or France, just the two of them on a wild adventure. They do it for themselves, and no one else. Alex wears a sleek white mermaid gown; Liv wears a white dress shirt, buttoned casually, and black dress pants with heels. There are wildflowers as far as the eye can see.
Rolivia • Bigger, busier, with plenty of Southern traditions weaved into the affair. So much food they end up donating the leftovers to a food kitchen. Amanda wears a tailored pantsuit, and Liv wears her NYPD dress uniform. Lots of people from the 16 and Hogan Place attend, and they end up with their picture in the paper, which tickles Rollins and makes Liv blush.
V - Vibrant: What always makes them smile?
Cabenson • Catching Alex in her pyjamas with a book atop her chest after she falls asleep makes Liv smile every time. Alex likes it when she gets a look at Olivia from a distance, when Liv is unaware. It makes her smile to approach her, knowing Liv is hers as she admires her.
Rolivia • Watching each other with the kids, or the kids playing together does it for both of them. They worked hard to build a family that was the opposite of theirs growing up.
W - Whisper: What pet names and compliments do they use?
Cabenson • Alex likes to use Darling, Handsome, and Babe. Liv calls Alex her Blonde Bombshell, Princess, and Love.
Rolivia • Amanda calls Liv Baby, Boo, Beautiful. Olivia uses Peach, Dixie, Sweetie, and Grass Stains when she is teasing her about her runabout ways.
X - Xoxo: How do they kiss?
Cabenson • Laughingly, sweet and soft at first, in an enthralled, giggling way. They turn up the heat a little at a time, until their kisses grow longer and deeper.
Rolivia • Crashing, hungry, desperate. They cling to each other and kiss like they are starved for oxygen, until their lips are nipped and swollen. In fact, they rarely give morning or office goodbye kisses for fear they will turn obscene. Lol
Y - Yearn: What do they do when they're apart?
Cabenson • Alex will scribble thoughts on sticky notes and stick them all over so that when Liv comes home she can read them in all different places. Texting each other good morning and good night is a must. Liv will sometimes have flowers sent to Alex's hotel if she is out of the city.
Rolivia • Non-stop texting, to talk about what is going on with the kids, then a phone call or face time after they are asleep to catch up on the day.
Z - Zoom: What is their favorite picture together?
Cabenson • One from their wedding where the photographer caught them laughing at Alex nearly dropping her bouquet.
Rolivia • Liv has this one framed in her office. She loves Amanda's ability to bring out her silly side.
