Im actually in a big rush rn and should not be posting BUT i thought about this and my brain has this tendency to forget even the simplest thoughts so here
i SWEAR booktok is making girls feel like theyre unloveable because theyre “15-22 and dont have a romance like __” like… GUYS. We have our WHOLEEEE lives to find a man. And it sucks that its being pushed that having a boyfriend/“soulmate” at that age is the norm when, aside from casual dating, majority of people DONT find the love of their lives at such a young age. How many people do you know are high school sweethearts? Its uncommon for a reason
Every girl out there deserves a special love but its not always going to come at a young age and thats okay. But reading books where the norm is meeting the love of your life as a teenager has just started pushing this ideology that if a girl doesnt have a boyfriend at that age it must be something wrong with her and fuels insecurity that is already so prominent in those ages
Im not saying not to read booktok romances!! Lord knows i do. But just remember that, despite it being a trend in these books, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you if you dont get a love like annabeth and percy at the ripe age of 17. Just pursue what YOU want to do first, and love will come later 💞

















