Spell to help with a conflict
This is a spell to help easy a conflict between you and other person, to improve it if it’s not working due to a conflict or hurt feelings, it’s also to help the other person to forgive you.
💫 Crystals: Agate/Amethyst/Red Jasper/Onyx/Rose Quartz (you can choose one or + of these to work with)
💫 Picture of you both (no need to be together in the picture, all though it can help visualize your intents)
💫 Poppet to represent the other person
💫 Herbs: Agrimory/Basil/Cinnamon/Orange peels/Peppermint (the same as the crystals)
💫 Sigil for friendship or easy conflicts (I’ll put some here, but not mine)
💫 A letter to the person you hurt or want to improve the relationship with. You can apologize, write your intents with this spell, write as if you are talking to the person.
💫 2 Candles (Green/Orange/Blue/Gray/Silver; if you choose more than one color, it’s two of each)
💫 A small white string to tie the bag
🌼Optionally, you can begin by casting a circle, or inviting any deities you chose or usually work with that you feel may be helpful to this
🌼 If the picture you have has both of you on it, draw the sigil on it. If it’s 2 separate pictures, draw the sigil on each one.
🌼 Arrange the space with the bowl in the middle, around it put the chosen candles and the crystals.
🌼 Pick up your chosen herbs and put them inside the bowl with the pictures, and light the candles, let this aside without burning anything yet. (At least on my opinion, dry herbs are easier to burn than fresh ones).
🌼 Pick up the popper, the letter, and the taglock (if you are using one), put the taglock tied, sewed, inside or just close to the poppet (this is only if you have a taglock, if not skip this), remember to focus your energy on the intent and on the other person. Get the letter and read it (outloud or not) to your poppet, visualizing it as the person, focus your energy on the content of the letter and visualize the person hearing it and understanding it clearly, feeling all you put on the paper.
🌼 After reading the letter, put the popper next to the arrangement with the candles. Light the picture/s and the herbs on fire (please be careful not to burn yourself). If you want, you can read the letter again while it burns, or try to focus your energy on the emotional healing, the improvement of the relationship, the easy of the hurting the other feels, the forgiveness and other things you may consider important. If you want you can use the poppet to visualize the person receiving the good energy. (It’s optional, but you can burn the letter as well if you feel it will be helpful).
🌼 After it’s all burned to ashes, get the ashes and put inside the spell bag, sealing it with the white string to represent peace. If the bag is big enough, you can put the poppet inside the bag, if not, tie the bag to the poppet.
🌼 Light off the candles, thank any deity you invited to help you, close your circle if you casted one.
🌼 You can keep your poppet on a visible place, where you can send good healing energies every time you see it. Keep that until you get your results, and even after you can continue to send good energies to the person through the poppet, or just dispose of it as you wish. (Watch out for the environment, see if your poppet is nature friendly if you are going to bury it, we don’t want to damage the nature).
This is my first written spell, I came with it all by myself. If you want to suggest something that could be different, or that you consider wrong on this, let me know.
