22 things I Value going into 2020!! A Full Moon in Gemini conjunct Venus in Capricorn Exercise.
Tonight is the Full Moon in Gemini. But this post is not about that. I’ve already done my Full moon release rituals. This post is about the moon’s conjunction with Venus. Earlier today I was reading an article emailed to me by Astrograph and they talked a lot about evaluating how our values have changed. Lindsay Mack (tarot for the wild soul) mentioned it in her newsletter as well. How have my values changed? I have some at all that don’t revolve around men, sex, and metal music. So I figured to honor my evolution over the last decade, I’ll just list my values because now I have some worth honoring.
What do I value (Venus in Capricorn)? (in no particular order)
1. I value unconditional love. I value giving it to me (the self); giving it to my family and friends; loved ones; ancestors; and other other-dimensional beings.
2. I value quality time. Spending it with those I love and care about. Spending it with myself.
3. I value integrity. People who are the same no matter the day, time, or situation. There may be slight variations of the self, but this is neither malicious nor untrustworthy; it might be a defense mechanism related to wounds they are working on, but in general, overall, they are the same no matter what.
4. I value Authenticity. Be who you are! Be your genuine self. There is nothing more disappointing than a person who doesn't allow their glow to shine.
5. I value trustworthiness. Can I trust you? Yes? We good!
6. I value honesty. Being honest with others and with myself.
7. I value humor. Being able to laugh at one’s self is a virtue.
8. I value being thoughtful of others, their time, and their needs. Showing consideration for others and their faculties (traumas, wounds, self-care needs, and opinions) is right there next to cleanliness and therefore godliness. You are no better than anyone else. Show everyone respect. Aka I value boundaries.
9. I value raw emotions. They are medicine, unlike anything I’ve ever experienced or witnessed. They can heal lifetimes of trauma and wounds.
10. I value the human will and the capacity to use it. Willingness to improve upon oneself and help others. A willingness to try.
11. I value gratitude. The ability to accept a compliment and just say “thank you” is magic that I’ve only recently discovered and began to work with. Witnessing gratitude and expressing gratitude for the most mundane things is a beautiful sight to see and I adore it.
12. I value modesty. I feel this value goes hand in hand with gratitude. For gratitude is a form of modesty.
13. I value raw wildness. Unabashed and unrestricted existence. This can come in the form of sexuality (which is my favorite), sensuality (which I am still learning), emotions (in either direction), and most important of all, creativity. Wild creativity is a fire unlike any other and it is gorgeous on a person.
14. I value sincerity. Honesty and trustworthiness’ little sister. Insincerity smells like rot and it can be obvious.
16. I value curiosity. Not to be confused with nosiness. Curiosity perpetuates soul evolution. Nosiness perpetuates distrust and gossip.
17. I value struggle and the human condition. These things are unavoidable and some struggle more than others to the point of suffering. This becomes part of them. In order to value a person, you have to value all of them. Even their struggle.
18. I value the Ego...because for many people, Ego is the only boundaries they have; the only defense they know against pain and suffering.
19. I value the Soul...you can’t value the Ego without the soul. They are intertwined, yet separate. They are the essence of human beings. To value humanity is to value the Soul.
20. I value community. Supportive community tethered together by unconditional love and likemindedness.
21. I value free thought and the freedom to express it. You can’t have one without the other, in my opinion.
22. I value Mystery and all her glorious and chaotic wonder.