#empathproblems

[dahliahsp]

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[megpie]

Once upon a time, a few years ago, this wild child of mine dropped an observation on me. Changed my life. They said - that I only ever get sad//not mad. That in situations where it's reasonable and normal to get angry, I instead feel sadness. Why? Because I suppress my anger. Trying to be "good," to avoid conflict and confrontation, forever the peacemaker since I was a little girl attempting to manage my dad's irrational outbursts. That I've developed a tendency to turn the blame inward. Say - someone steals $20 from me. Instead of aiming the feelings outward, being upset at them, confronting them, telling them to give it back.... I aim it inwards, I feel sad that something is wrong with the other person that they felt the need to steal, that I should've kept my money more secure, that maybe I should've checked on them because maybe they're having hard times, etc. I never realized how much I live my whole.damn.life. this way. Suppressing my words, silencing my feelings, swallowing up my anger. Until I've become too timid to demand fair treatment, to have healthy boundaries, to limit people's access, to speak up when I'm upset. I'm silent, (well, you know me, I chatter constantly like an anxious magpie, but it's different with hard issues) until I explode. And maybe trying so hard to never rock the boat, be good so people will like me, never upset anyone... maybe it's taken too much from me, those suppressed words coming at the expense of my own mental health. This poem is insanely perfect for me, is what I'm saying. Please, tell me someone else relates here too? 🖤 #peoplepleaser #anxiousattachment #anxietyanddepression #anxiousmind #conflictavoidance #cryingquotes #sadquotes #strongwomenquotes #anxietybelike #overthinker #empathsbelike #empathproblems #feelingsquotes #allthefeels https://www.instagram.com/p/CnsFAbSvqZh/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[mxdmagic]

We've all had those moments where we rushed out forgetting oils, waters, or crystals. In those moments - remember that your personal energy is POWERFUL. 👊 Block energetic vampires, and the pull of others intentions by visualizing a shell (just like an egg) encapsulating your own aura. Take it a step further by picturing any unwanted energy bouncing off of the surface. This can also be used in instances where you want to move through rooms without drawing a lot of attention. Remember to take a spiritual bath and recharge after these instances. #energyvampires #energeticprotection #energywork #auraprotection #spiritualalchemy #mxdmagic #mxdmagick #aura #energyflow #charlottenc #matthewsnc #minthill #psychicattack #empathproblems (at mxdmagic) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClEO7r8uxCI/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rfarrokh]

Also can be viewed as enabling versus supporting ❤️ thoughts ? 😘💝🥰💞❤️ #codependency #enabling #enabler #enablers #support #supportive #codependentnomore #codependent #codependencyrecovery #selfhelp #selfhealing #healthyboundaries #boundaries #boundariesarebeautiful #boundariesarehealthy #empaths #empath #supportivefriends #empathproblems https://www.instagram.com/p/COhUgkpntSL/?igshid=362086ygnku

[paraphraze615]

I hate this shit. #BigHearts #PeopleWithBigHearts #BigHeartProblems #TakenForGranted #INeedThatSameEnergy #INeedHelp #SomebodyHelpMe #CanSomebodyHelpMe #EmpathProblems #EmpathLife #RNS #RealNiggaShit #RealShit #RealTalk #LifeShit #RealLifeShit https://www.instagram.com/p/CM2JTU0APgf/?igshid=ss1y99fud6hb

[ramyeonupdates]

{ #loveyourself } || source: novas_narcissistabuse_recovery

[steadyinthelight]

Im telling you... Adopt this attitude even though it might be scary. Its the only way to break free... Many people in the world live in fear. Fear that they will be rejected or discarded.

But if you want to break free and experience something new, you need to actively walk away from the experiences that make you feel bad or devalued, not wait for it to get better, because that sends the message to the universe that you passed the test. No matter how much healing you do, you still need to do this part. Even though in many cases it might be terrifying because people sometimes feel they have to stayed trapped in order to be secure.

I would love to see more people free, empowered, knowing their own value and demanding that from the world - then the world would be a better place as we created a culture of caring and intolerance for uncaring and selfish behaviour.

[ancestralvoices]

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