As we move through our journey, we are able if observed correctly to see our growth in the relationships we keep. And the relationships we keep are a reflection of our relationship with ourselves. I used to think that this was not the case as I observed people. I would encounter a person for a time whom to me lacked any means of goodness within them. Who it could be observed would abuse and use those around them through narcissistic tendencies or characteristics. This person on the surface of things would appear to have it all together, and in that seem to have all that I wished for and lacked. So how was it possible for someone of integrity to not also have these things?
The truth is, not all is as it appears on the surface. We see but a window into another’s life thinking we know, but we do not see the whole picture. You see in our self-reflective struggles we are much closer to breathing into our own lives the life we wish to have than the person who hides behind a vail of mirrored fabrications in order to keep people or things in their life. This is and will always be short lived. Even if to us in our pain it does not appear so. And this I have also witnessed in abundance as the tides have turned this year in a way that for me to witness has been unprecedented.
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The journey of the soul worker is never one that is easy and will always be met with the hill to climb. On this hill will be many obstacles. These obstacles are there because we asked for them. All of them from every which direction that they came from and from each person that they were delivered or presented. We agreed to help each other grow on our own level of growth weather we are self-reflectively and consciously aware of this – or not. Just because our oppressor or abuser is not aware of what they do, does not mean that they are not aware of what they do. You see it works both ways. The difference is our seed was planted a long time ago, so we see the lesson for what it is. We work through it and we trance-end the lesson. For the person who has chosen to still sleep, a seed is also planted for them to grow. When they are ready to grow their own garden of self-reflected awareness. Even if that garden will take them another 1 million years. The timing and their free will to chose is not up to us.
