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Hi! I'm struggling to get over a guy I've had a crush on for the past three years. I want to move on, but I think I’m hesitant because I feel comfortable with him. I’ve liked him ever since I found out he liked me, but I’ve also heard that he has done some terrible things in the past. I’m hoping he has changed, but either way, I just need advice on how to move on.

Ahh hii doll!!! I totally get how you’re feeling because I was actually in a very veryyy similar situation a few years ago. Thankfully I remember a few things that helped me get over him. So, you’ve asked the right person 💗

My Honest Advice On Moving On

Now before, I start I want to give a little reminder that everyone’s way of moving on is different. These are just a few small things that helped me.

1. Journal Your Thoughts/Feelings!! I know journaling might not sound ideal to everyone. But it really helps. In the start of your journey, you may be grieving. So, journal and let out as much as you can. Whether you’re feeling confused, frustrated, upset, angry, in denial, etc. Let it out.

2. Understand It Takes Time!! You can’t force yourself to move on only in a few months. Moving on takes time. I kinda wish someone had told me that when I was first trying to move on. It probably wouldn’t have left me so mad at myself for not being able to move on fast enough. So take your time to process everything. And understand that you can’t force/rush moving on. It takes time.

3. Distance!! If you really want to move on you’re gonna have to distance yourself from him. “Out of sight, out of mind.” And if you’re like how I use to be, please don’t stalk his socials. It’s best to cut off any contact you have with him. That way you’ll be able to get over him much easier.

4. Self Care!! Of course I had to include self care to the list. For me, I genuinely started my self care/love journey when I was trying to move on. And I don’t regret it one bit. Whenever I would be overthinking about the, I was able to do self care to ease my mind. Watching my comfort movie(s) while putting on a face mask was so helpful when it came to moving on. So overall, during this time definitely prioritize yourself as much as possible. And know that your feelings as valid.

5. Prioritize Yourself!! I did just mention this, but I wanna add on to the topic. By listing some things to help you focus on yourself. Like focusing on your hobbies, make new hobbies, invest in things that help you in the future, make goals, work towards your dreams, exercise, and more. There’s so many ways to prioritize yourself. Just start taking action!!

I really hope this helped and to everyone trying to move on, you can do this!!

“I have a career, I worked so hard for it.” - Mischa Barton

Remember your feelings are valid and to stay pretty!! 💗

Xoxo, Arielleslipgloss 💋🎀

me when I realize my crush might actually be ugly

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getting over you is my biggest hurdle.

i function on ‘out of sight, out of mind’. i hadn’t seen you in a while & it was all good. it just seems that the distance i’ve made in moving on crumbles the moment i lay my eyes on you.

and so i start over again.