#grooming vent

[buck-forever]

[webwand3rer]

she tryna ignore the fact that people only liked her when they could see or touch her body 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[l0stvamp1re]

You called me your f*cking angel

[draculaurafrankenstein]

As vezes lembro de um dos velhos com quem eu costumava conversar quando eu tinha uns 14/15 anos.

Era mt bizarro como eu me sentia desconfortavel mas continuava pq era a unica fonte de "carinho" que eu conseguiria no momento.

E ele era carinhoso.

Mas ele tinha uns papos tão tortos.

"Minha filha é só um pouco mais velha que você"

"Um dia vou te trazer p morar comigo. Minha filha vai te amar, vocês tem quase a mesma idade"

Tipo??? O cara achava que a filha dele ia aceitar ter uma "madrasta" mais nova que ela? Uma madrasta de 14 anos???

Enfim, ele sumiu do nada dps.

Deve ter achado uma menina mais jovem.

[sweetdhao]

YEIIIIP 🍥🍨

[angelwings17]

[albertshawsbelt]

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A grown man in a discord server I'm in got upset at the fact that I said that my grvvmers girlfriend looks like someone who would date a grvvmer, proceeded to say I was 400 pounds and other insults I blocked out of my head and then got my post taken down because I was a "fatty" , a "noob" and "ugly" ok guys I guess ;; here's the photos + vid I posted .

My grvvmers gf ;;

Kind of made me anxious a bit upset as well, I don't know I am a sensitive boy lol, and he called me a fat lady lol I'm a boy .

[unspeakableasks]

Idk if this is a safe place for this but to anyone else who was groomed online— can you look back at it and find it silly in retrospect? Like when I look back in my experience, we meant through a YouTuber roleplay on instagram 😭 she was 21 I was 12. This was 2018. She was SUCH a fucking loser now that I think back. Like this 21 year old loser spent her days talking to a bunch of 11-14 year olds (I wasn’t her only victim) and she was soo fucking insecure. Like this bitch could have 500 roleplay partners she roleplays sex with but if I had ONE other rp relationship she lost her shit. That’s what started most of our fights together (jokes on her I just made other accounts and roleplayed with other people anyways LOL.) she couldn’t handle being called “babygirl” despite that being her username and her going on about how hot it was to be called “baby girl” (I made the mistake of calling her that once “too fast” and she then accused my character of raping hers 🫩) but she would happily misgender her on and off again boyfriend.

She was also so fucking emotionally abusive and manipulative, she would post your private messages on her story (with the names attached because she wanted to send her minions of other minors she groomed to harass other people she disagreed with.) and then proceed to cry because one random person told she was fat and needed to get a job. She could tell people they deserved to die but someone told her she was fat all hell broke loose. She would retort “I do!! I’m a photographer!!” And her shit was hot garbage. It was taking a picture of a fucking puddle and calling it “photography.” She didn’t even put any effort into editing the pictures like photographers do. And her ass wasn’t actually employed by anyone and she was living at home. Like I can’t believe I let this bitch make me feel bad about myself. 😭😭 I’m a little embarrassed by it now but also, that’s the only way a loser like her had power. She had to manipulate fucking 11 years old and other little kids/teenagers to feel better about herself and that’s just funny to me retrospect. She’s such a pathetic individual.

It helped me heal a little realizing how genuinely fucking pathetic my groomer was. I hope her life is just as shit as it was (probably is because she sits on her ass all day and had no ambitions of working. I remember her mom yelling at her to get off her ass for once and clean her nasty room on a call. Hahaha) and I hope her bum ass got kicked out of her mom’s house lol.

Based and insightful

I think that's a very common sort of description for these types of groomers / predators. Cuz you're just not going to behave like that if you're an adult who's well-adjusted and likeable, if that makes sense. It feels like, by definition, they almost have to be pathetic losers with shitty lives (largely due to their own shortcomings).