pwNPD: Favorite sources of non stigmatizing information on NPD? Especially from the perspective of pwNPD? I already appreciate Dr Ettonsohn's HealNPD on YouTube, I've read a few scientific articles that were helpful, but there is still just. so. much. stigmatized crap. Even Dr. Ettonsohn's book seems to be written for those around pwNPD, and I don't know if I want to spend my money on it. of course the reviews aren't helpful, just more stigma.
There's some super excellent accounts on here as well, but I just want more so I am prepared to combat stigma.
So much of the stigma is centered around abuse that I've been reading Lundy Bancroft's Why Does He Do That? Which is interesting, but I don't trust the author because he's very ableist towards pwNPD, among some other things about him that scream red flag. (regarding his ableism: he has stated that he believes pwNPD do not respond to treatment, can't get better, are functionally the same as abusers but just with a psychic injury, etc.)
Basically I just want more info. anything.