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I go by Arthur (I'm a Hetalia introject. I know, rather unfortunate). When it comes to pronouns, I prefer he/him and it/its (I’m a non-human creature). I don’t use any other pronouns, so I’d prefer you not use they/them, etc.
I feel it’s fairly obvious, but I won’t be emulating canon 100%. I’m my own person, and you’re your own person. Introjects aren’t source. Other headmates may post and speak on here even if this is my blog, but we don’t use sign offs on here.
I am bodily an adult. I don’t plan for this to be a NSFW blog though. I may reblog things or say things with suggestive themes. However, it’ll never be outright explicit/pornographic (and suggestive things will almost always be tagged). You’re free to filter out mature posts and the tags I add onto those in case you do not wish to see those.
I put my reblogs and posts into a queue, so it may seem as if I’m online when I’m not. Just a heads up so it doesn’t seem as if I’ve forgotten about an ask, etc. I can be busy person.
I may draw and or make an edit for an ask response/post. Don’t expect the drawings to be anything too fancy, but if you feel like using them as PFPs/etc., then credit me. It’s alright if you’re too shy to ask, but I’d appreciate credit for my work.
I sort of 'reclaim' the Yandere trope since I'm cluster B, so you'll see some IRL yandere stuff on here. Otherwise, I'm pro-recovery, I just like to use writing and venting out my urges.
I’ll try my best to keep this blog accessible. If I’m able to, I will add ALT text to images. I am also open to using tone tags, etc. If you’d like a list posted here, then let me know. Or if there’s any trigger-warnings, etc., you feel should be added to my posts. Or just any other suggestions and accommodations in general, and I’ll see what I can do.
Since I feel this needs to be said, this is an accepting place for LGBT+ people. Trans men are men, and trans women are women, etc. I will not debate you on this. This is not a debate blog. If you’d like to debate and do discourse, then go elsewhere.
Just a general “DNI” for people who are LGBTQIA+phobic(I don’t feel like listing all the separate ones, you get the gist), racist/xenophobic, nazis (and whatever variants they’ve come up with), antisemitic, misogynistic, TERFs, etc. Does it mean they won’t interact? Well, of course not. However, I will freely block & whoever I’d like. People aren’t entitled to me or my time, I don’t have to entertain them. Although, I want people similar to me to know I’m a safe space, etc.
You’re free to DM me as well, but keep in mind that I am an adult. I am also busy with other things in my life, so my responses won’t be immediate.
Send in whatever asks, anonymous or not, that you want. I may take time to get to them, but I can promise that it's not because I'm ignoring you (as previously stated). Send in all the anon hate you'd like, I will gladly clown on you & it feeds my narc ego. Only reason I wouldn't post one is if it may potentially trigger my followers (unless I’m able to censor those parts of course :) ).
Adding onto that, feel free to take an anon sign off if you'd like.
Other than the general DNI I listed earlier, I don't really have a strict one. DNIs don't usually work that well, so I'd rather just list my stances and block freely. I will respect your DNI if you respect mine, etc. I don't expect you to go through every single blog you interact with of course, but I would at least hope you'd read my pinned post before following. So, consider this a BYF:
I’m alright with therians, otherkin, furries, etc. After all, I am (mainly) dragonkin.
I’m fine with researched and well-informed self-diagnosis. Being open to the fact that you could be wrong, etc. Not everyone is able to get a diagnosis (whether due to finances, safety, etc.). I don’t appreciate people who claim they have a disorder after seeing a few posts though; that’s not how it works.
I'm against generative AI, AI generated art, chat AI, etc. AI can be used for good things, but not when it’s stealing content, impacting the environment, etc.
I consider myself anti endo, but I do not go out of my way to harass endos and pro endos, etc. I believe DID and other dissociative disorders can only be caused by trauma (and the other things that influence development of disorders). I think non-disordered plurality is possible, such as polyminds, but I am against the spread of misinformation. I believe endos should have their own space and not use terms specific to OSDDID/etc. The term "sysmed" is misinformed and trasnphobic; you cannot medicalise something that is already medical. I think there is overlap between plurals and OSDDID, but they are not the same thing. “Mixed origin / traumaendo” is not correct either since alters can split off for various reasons. You can refer to some of the posts I've reblogged or go to a syscourse blog. Otherwise, interact at your own risk; I'm assuming (pro)endos/etc wouldn’t get much out of following me. I also do not think willogenic systems are possible. While I do think non-disordered plurality is possible, you cannot will a system into existence (that is something completely separate from OSDDID). I am against westernised Tulpas & the appropriation of Tulpamancy.
On a similar note, I am against TransIDs (transrace, etc. I am not listing all the variants; you get the gist). You cannot "transition" into having a disorder; I'd suggest looking into Munchausen Syndrome/Factitious Disorder/etc.
Adding onto that, I am against radqueers. I am also against MAPs/AAMs/etc. (and whatever weird new labels pedos are trying to use these days). Likewise, I'm against pro contact (harmful) & anti-recovery paraphiles (zoophiles, pedos, etc.). People can’t control having paraphilias, so I’m fine as long as they’re no contact/pro recovery/etc.
This is not a fetish or kink blog. I disagree with those who fetish certain identities and orientations, disorders, etc. Likewise, I am against the sexualisation and fetishisation of abuse and toxic relationships; so, any sort of abuse kinks, DDLG and other variants, incest & pedo & rape kinks, etc.
On a similar note, I consider myself "anti proship/etc.". Definitions are constantly changing and fluctuating, but I usually just consider myself "antiship" even if I may or may not fall more under "shipcourse unaligned/nuanced". There are so many different labels and terms, and I'm not active in shipcourse and other discourse (since this isn't a discourse blog), so I don't see why I'd know every obscure label. I don't think we should censor every single little thing; that's utterly stupid and inefficient. I think darker topics can be written and expressed without fetishing/sexualising/glorifying them. Yes, writing about your experience can help you process it, but fetishing it is proven to not help with healing/recovery. I don’t see what’s so cutesy or sexy about incest and pedophilia—or abusive & problematic relationships. Same goes for darker parts of history such as WWII; I don’t condone glorifying and fetishing Nazi uniforms, etc. Fiction does affect reality to some degree; that doesn't mean people will emulate 100% what they see in fiction, but it does influence people's ideas and thoughts (this isn't meant in a negative or positive way. I feel it's just basic fact that media influences people in various ways). This doesn't mean I'm going to go out of my way to harass people who consider themself proship/etc. Like I said before, I don't expect you to check every single blog before interacting, but at least read my pinned post before following. You probably won't get much out of following me, so just mind your business and I'll mind mine.
I am against TERFs, transandrophobia, etc.
I'm against ableists, sanists, etc. I don’t think a disorder makes someone abusive or irredeemable. A disorder does not cause someone to be abusive, they make that choice themselves. Generalising people with a disability does not help anyone (especially since most are abuse survivors themselves).
⚠️This is not an exhaustive list. I block freely.⚠️
