I really really like it when Whumpee's friends know about their trauma and just subtly try to make them more comfortable without even saying anything.
Making sure Whumpee gets a seat from which they can see the exit doors.
Coming up with an excuse to go elsewhere if Whumpee looks uncomfortable in a crowd.
Always having their hands visible if they're gonna try to touch Whumpee (and going slowly so that they can prepare/react).
Avoiding all touch in general if they notice Whumpee tensing up/flinching
Directing conversations from topics that can trigger Whumpee.
Stealing the first bite of Whumpee's food and playing it off as being greedy (it's to show Whumpee that it isn't poisoned).
Making plans or randomly showing up at Whumpee's home on anniversaries that are bound to be rough for them. (!!!!!!!)
Not bringing unnecessary attention to Whumpee flinching or their hands trembling.
Noticing that Whumpee is in a worse mood but also knowing very well that trying to bring it up will only make them shut off more. So they just stay close as much as they can, to show that they're always here for them once they're ready to talk.
