The (basic) thoughts of INFJ
The needs and emotions of others are more important than my own.
I need to avoid conflict, even if I lose out. But when everyone else is happy, I am too.
I love the whole world and don't get that love back, that's why I'm bitter deep inside.
I realise and notice more things than others but can't put them into words
People say I'm an extrovert, but I'm just not shy, I still like being by myself more than being with people and will avoid people if possible.
I feel lonely but are afraid of deep emotional bonds, because emotional stress is heavy for me.
I can handle my life but would wish for someone to help and love me, but also kinda know no one will meet my standards or love me like I need it
I am smart but only because I recognise patterns fast and remember interesting things, I am not exactly an expert in anything
People say I am childish when I'm happy, dramatic when I'm sad or afraid and bitter when I'm angry. It's probably best to not show them too much
I trust only a few people so much I consider them my friends. I'm overly loyal and when a friend leaves, I often don't understand. People seem to often leave me despite me trying my best to do everything for them.
