🍩🍕 VASHLEY?! 🌈🍖

🌱 ashley vashley 🌱 goodfaith proship discourse 🌱 🏳️‍⚧️bian inclus 🌱

[joycomplexx]

Welcome to my account! I'm Ashley: she/him transfem lesbian of color, wanted tiktok outlaw, and good faith proshipper.

♡. I do not support real life child molestation/abuse/beastiality/rape/or harm done to civilians. I also do not support or endorse the glorification of these things.

♡. Proshipping is an anti harm, anti harassment, anti censorship stance. It is a pro queer, pro kink, pro survivor, and pro fiction ideology. "Proshippers" who are bigoted toward or harass antis are not welcome.

♡. Radfems are also not welcome

♡. Queer inclusion includes lesboys/mspec lesbians/xenogenders and any other non harmful identity.

BANNED ON TWITTER sigh

MOD OF: @this-is-antikink

[natalieironside]

There's always a moment of intense cultural whiplash whenever I realize I'm talking to someone who thinks "legal" and "illegal" are meaningful categories and ascribes innate goodness to following the law. It's like meeting a space alien.

[joycomplexx]

I am supporting this fundraiser, it is important now more than ever to stand up for our trans brothers in need.

Donate to Support a Trans Man's Escape Through Education, organized by Ashley Savaran

I am a disabled trans man living in a dangerous area in the rural US Sou… Ashley Savaran needs your support for Support a Trans Man's Escape

[cock-holliday]

reinstalled shinigami eyes to take a look at the damage and it's so much worse than a year or so ago when i deleted it. virtually every intersex blog i know of regardless of how they feel about tme/tma is marked red unless they are especially vocal about liking it, countless trans men are marked red regardless of whether they are vocally inclusive, most who are marked green are either famous guys or are (somewhat) infamous for their transphobia and exorsexism if not also racism.

Plenty of transphobic cis folks are green. Virtually every trans-positivity account is red except for the ones who are unapologetically transphobic to at least part of the community. Countless trans women who vocally uses the term transandrophobia are marked red. Several trans women who dont even use the term but have at least on one occasion defended or sympathized with trans men are red. Several trans women who are bigender/NB/Etc with inclusion of any "male" or masc terms are red regardless of whether they seem to have anything to say about trans men.

It is BLEAK. I've been trying to remove reds and greens as I assess, but it is really really gross that it was a pretty well-known soft rule a decade plus ago that you didn't mark trans people red at all even if they were shitheads, unless they were actual proud terfs, because the flagging was guaranteed to isolate them from community.

Inability to assess risk and a total aversion to narratives that contradict what you assume to be the case for others is getting people into a lot of trouble.

Shinigami eyes is completely dead and less than useless, but since so many people still seem to trust it, I do not want people to keep getting flagged as violent evil transphobes cause they started identifying as genderqueer.

[isuggestrespecttranspeople]

Shinigami eyes is terrible and useless. Please stop using it you respect trans people.

[rosieandthemoon]

ruins of St Andrews Cathedral in Fife, Scotland

[rosieandthemoon]

ruins of St Andrews Cathedral in Fife, Scotland

[joycomplexx]

"the current state of the sex work industry is exploitative and should be reformed or dismantled" and "porn and erotica as a neutral concept deserve the right to exist without justification" are two beliefs that do not contradict, and in fact it is essential to hold both.

[idiosyncraticrednebula]

Saying "Black people inherently act this way" or "White people inherently act this way" keeps racism alive and well. People are individuals with their own thoughts, feelings and opinions, not monoliths.

[joycomplexx]

if you reblog my post agreeing with me and you're using slurs in my tags, you do NOT agree with me, and I don't want you. get out.

[frailwonderland]

I'm sorry to do this, but please donate to me, I desperately need it.

https://gofund.me/9e0697d75

[joycomplexx]

I am supporting this fundraiser, it is important now more than ever to stand up for our trans brothers in need.

Donate to Support a Trans Man's Escape Through Education, organized by Ashley Savaran

I am a disabled trans man living in a dangerous area in the rural US Sou… Ashley Savaran needs your support for Support a Trans Man's Escape

[joycomplexx]

Please donate!!!

[joycomplexx]

by the way it's fine to like sexual content just for the sake of it. "we can't ban porn because other stuff will get banned" "sometimes nude art has value" "the government will classify queer people as sexual" this is all true but it's okay to just like porn. its okay to not want porn to be banned because you like it.

[astra-the-dragon]

there are A LOT of things we consume that have deeply problematic sourcing issues and risk/degrees of association with human rights violations. you cannot have a goddamn bottle of water or a coffee or a tuna sandwich without becoming entangled in ethical quicksand.

sex work is not unique in this. stop acting like it is. if you are seriously concerned about the source of your porn, here's a tip: go indie (or animated or written) so you can know with certainty that all parties are treated ethically. I get basically all of my porn from independent artists (granted I'm a furry).

most human trafficking in is manual laborers. most child assault is done by the child's family, pastor, teacher or other closeby person.

porn is a neutral product, whose main issues are caused by capitalism and misogyny. its existence as sexual erotic art/play is neutral. you can enjoy it!

[joycomplexx]

I make a post defending the right of porn to exist and get so many comments going "but the industry is exploitative". It is essential that you learn to decouple the idea of porn as a concept from the industry. You need to.

[joycomplexx]

its always sex work that gets this scrutiny too. No other industry is talked about like this. Imagine saying "I like coffee" and everyone went "but starbucks is really bad to their workers!"

[joycomplexx]

I make a post defending the right of porn to exist and get so many comments going "but the industry is exploitative". It is essential that you learn to decouple the idea of porn as a concept from the industry. You need to.

[joycomplexx]

I think what people don't understand is you can analyze and engage with something critically, and also have it be your fetish. they're not mutually exclusive

[foone]

Important rules for the "age verification" era of the internet that we're living in:

1. Do not do age verification.

2. If you have to do age verification, cheat. Do not under any circumstances give them your real ID.

[very-gay-alkyrion]

Free Tool Says it Can Bypass Discord's Age Verification Check With a 3D Model

The tool presents users with a 3D model they can then manipulate to, the creator says, bypass Discord's age verification system.

Oh no I dropped my link, what a horrible thing! Sure hope this doesn't get reblogged until it reaches users from the UK and Brazil!

And remember to not make a second account just to test out what works best when verifying your identity

[asksanguinius40k]

A reminder that we still dont support Age Verification bullshit.

[flower-crowns-and-combat-boots]

Paywall removed here

[solrin]

We tried to warn you about the "adult content" bans. Now Kickstarter is starting that shit

[mentallyfunny]

I have 2 sides

One I laughed at puritans for getting their shit banned

Second is I realized us dark fiction freaks are affected too

If none of the bs like doxx verifications and censorship ever getting better, at this point these fuckheads made social media unusable

Like literally theyre making it unusable and Id 100% quit it and leaving the rest of the ppl who stays there because they like getting doxxed and having googoo gaga content to watch 24 hours a day

Somebody please invent time travel I fucking BEG

We need the 2010 internet