hiii ! just curious, being a fan of languages aren't there times where you don't have the motivation to study or anything? idk do you have like, tips or something to help ? ive been trying to learn some languages on the side for some time now and ive been stuck there for awhile (ack srry if this is off topic)
First of all, so sorry for the late reply! And thank you for the ask! <3
Disclaimer here, I've only ever studied one language and that was full-time for school. I'm by no means an expert on this, but I'll try my best to help you out!
I think it's important to create a routine and/or to make learning fun.
An example for this would be, let's say, if you have a language buddy that you are doing a language exchange with, you each pick three words to learn that day and at any random time they can ask you what one of these words means (how to say it in your target language or what the target language word means), and the next day you pick three new words. It's a fun and engaging way to try and learn vocabulary, and doesn't feel like an insurmountable hurdle to overcome.
For routine making, there's quite a few videos out there on youtube, but I think you should keep in mind how you learn best and at what point things start to get overwhelming for you and make it hard to start. Since my routine was all-day based, I can't completely say what the best way to make a routine for on-the-side based language learning is. I would say pick something small and do it daily at a certain time and make it a habit.
Decide on your resources and stick to them. Instead of trying to go all over the place trying to find the best ways to study and distracting yourself, make a list of resources you think are best for you and use them. If something really isn't working out, you can discard it, but something I wasted a lot of time on and that drained my motivation was that I just kept trying to look for the best way to study and what thousands of different resources were good to use. I'd also recommend paper-based resources, or resources that aren't online at least, since computers and the internet give you the opportunity for distraction and makes the attention wane.
Set a goal and try to meet it. It doesn't have to be anything big like "I want to have a fluent conversation with a native speaker", though you can do that if you want to, in long-term goals, but I think short-term goals are also very important for motivation. Something like, being able to read a fairy tale, or knowing all the names of household appliances by a certain date. It can be anything at all, as long as it doesn't feel overwhelming and gets you motivated. It can range from daily, to weekly, to monthly, to bimonthly, whatever works for you. It also helps to remember why you're learning the language and holding onto that.
All in all, I think language learning can definitely get boring sometimes, especially when you're starting out, because you're laying down the groundwork, there isn't really anything in there for you to have fun with or learn through something that specifically interests you. But that doesn't mean the method can't be fun or engaging!
I learned my French by first of learning a ton of basic words. Because, however boring learning words is, it's the one thing you need to start out, because otherwise you won't understand what your grammar lessons mean and you'll feel all the more stuck if you try to move forward. (My brother learned by using a site where you had to fill in the words and it gave you a score on how well you knew everything, making it a bit competitive and like a game, which worked well for him!) I also learned basic conjugations together with my vocabulary (because verbs are words, too! You just need to know how to twist them into certain Times) until I knew all ones in all the times I needed for my exam. First started with knowing how to conjugate all those verbs in the Simple Present, then Simple Past, etc.
Once you know the basics, you can move on to things that may be more complicated but are more fun! I learned a lot from translating from English to French. It helped me get natural sentence structure down, and I had a lot of fun with it! I also like to read, so that's something I did as well (Don't try to start out too complicated, and don't bother trying to write down every word you don't understand! That's a definite motivation drainer. Try to learn through context and if you really can't figure it out, you can look it up. Try to do it in bite-sized pieces, too, like a page per day or something). However, if you like watching movies more, you could do that! I heard Netflix, if you have that, has an extension specifically for language learners, which could help you learn naturally while doing something you enjoy (I think this is especially useful to do if you feel the learning is becoming tedious). I personally watched a cartoon I really liked and knew well, dubbed in French. It's useful if you have subtitles, too, but the thing I liked about cartoons was that the language was simpler, because it was more aimed at kids. Don't be afraid to pause and rewind! And you don't have to watch things in one sitting, either, if it's too much. Just do ten minutes or something and watch another ten the next day.
I think that's about it for the tips I have. I hope this helps! If you want me to clarify something or give more examples, please don't be afraid to ask!