#lgbtq textposts

[dreaming-moondragon]

I've never seen a post about this so I'm making one myself.

It is perfectly fine and normal if you are in your 20s, 30s or 40s and never had sex. There is nothing wrong with you! Society puts way too much value on it. You are not gaining or losing something if you sleep with someone. As long as it is consensual it is a completely neutral activity. You don't have to be religious, or be asexual, mentally ill or traumatized. You don't have to justify it in front of others, you can simply decide that there was not the right person or moment for you yet.

It is also perfectly fine if you decide you never want to sleep with anyone ever. I genuinely don't understand why that is such a big topic for some people, especially in the medical field. There are far more important things out there.

So many people get traumatized because they get pressured into sexual situations way too early, before they are ready. It is far better to wait until you feel 100% ready. And if that takes up into your 40s or 50s or even never happens at all that is fine. You are okay! There is nothing wrong with you.

[um-lavenders-ig]

There is something strangely elven and nonbinary about tying your short hair in a messy ponytail with several strands falling which I'm sorry I yet can’t seem to explain why

[flextapeofficial]

Diversity win! That eldritch being hiding in your closet right now is Gay!

[supergraphicultramoderngirl]

rating the reactions i’ve gotten to me coming out, because i said so

when i told my parents for the first time in middle school and then my mom burst into tears, yelled at me for 5+ hours, made me break up with my gf of one day, and made us end our family trip early— 2/10; it’s like, homophobic, but looking back on it it’s like a fun amount. adds a little spice to my mental health

when my mom went through my phone and saw my panicked texts to my friends about the pr*defall situation that happened a while ago— 5/10; we literally never spoke abt it again and i’m pretty sure she forgot abt it after confronting me lmao she Still thinks i’m straight to this day

every “hey, me too!” i’ve gotten— 9/10. i love every single one of them so much and i’m so proud of them and happy that they were trying to make me more comfortable. sometimes i just want the attention tho

the time i told my friend my crush was a girl and she was like stunned (in a good way) for a solid 10 minutes and wouldn’t stop awwwing at me— 7/10; i appreciate your support but you’re making me feel a liiiittle gbf-ey. also i hope your gay awakening comes sooner than later bc there’s no way you’re full het

the time i found out i was outed by someone (still to this day don’t know who) to a few ex friends of mine, and when i confronted one of my ex friends about it, she said “i thought you’ve already been out for the past couple of years?????”— 11/10; caused me SO much stress for absolutely no reason but i do appreciate the reassurance that i am very obviously bisexual. y’all better not spread anymore shit abt me tho

[dreaming-moondragon]

Just a gentle reminder that mascs/butches and masculine presenting people don't have to be physically strong. There is this stereotype that masculinity is tied to physical strength. But it is really not. You can be strong in other ways. It doesn't make you less masculine in any way. Also it's important to remember that no one can be strong all the time. So when there are times when you can't be strong, that is fine. It doesn't take your masculinity away.

[dreaming-moondragon]

🏳️‍🌈 Little LGBTQ - ask game 🏳️‍🌈

🌈: Your favourite colour from the rainbow?

🏳️‍🌈: What is your sexuality?

🫂: Do you have queer friends?

🎧: Do you have a favourite song with LGBTQ topics?

💘: Are you in love with someone right now?/Do you have a crush on someone?

🌱: What's your gender?

💫: Is there another term you identify with? (Femme, butch, etc.)

💞: How do you like to express your love? Both platonic and romantic.

🎨: What are character traits you like in others? (Both platonic and romantic)

❤️‍🔥: What do you find attractive in another person?

🩷: something you find cute in other people?

[dreaming-moondragon]

I hope people won't be upset with me for saying this. It's so hard to explain that I loved girlhood. But I hate womanhood.

I loved girlhood because I love pink and unicorns and horses and the fashion for girls in the late 90s/ early 2000s. I loved Barbies and dolls and colorful jewelry. And I know, I would have experienced none of that if I would have been born a boy.

But at the same time I hate womanhood. I hate how my body has changed after puberty. I hate having breasts more than anything, I hate having wide hips and a bigger butt, I hate everything that is going on down there, I hate periods, I hate that I'm not as tall as men, I hate how as a woman no one believes you and you are constantly in danger, I hate how no matter how much effort I put in, my body can't build muscles like a man can, I hate the effects of estrogen.

And at the same time, being a lesbian, I love womanhood on other women. And I love that they enjoy living in their body. But I can't help but wonder how they do it, when I've been feeling bad in my body ever since puberty set in.

[dreaming-moondragon]

Having a girlfriend and being loved unconditionally would fix me.