OK I’m gonna come out and say this, he either wants someone that is completely independent (which is what he is always saying) or he wants a housewife. You can’t be a housewife and be independent because if you’re a housewife you completely depend on your partner. So he needs to clear that to himself. Cause if you’re a housewife you don’t have a job or a source of income so you depend on your partner.  he saying that he wants someone that is committed to a relationship but I don’t think he’s the type to commit at least by what I’ve read and I’ve seen of him and he says that the rest is flexible please any man will say that. that’s not true
this is why i don’t take what he says that seriously bc men seriously don’t know what they want
but also when he said he wants someone independent, I think he meant he wants her to have her own life and her own friends and not just piggyback onto his. which I get… it’s healthy for couples to like… do their own things and not have the same friendship group and do everything together 100% of the time and I think that’s what he meant by that
