#loveyourlove

[drmarr]

If you are in a SITUATIONSHIP, or struggling to get over or let go of someone, here is a game changer: It’s not how you feel about them that matters right now… it’s how they are making YOU feel about you. If someone makes you feel unappreciated. Not good enough. Not worthy. Rejected. Disrespected. Any feeling whatsoever that makes you feel anything less than amazing… remember THIS. That’s what matters. And that’s what’s going to help you get out of this. Make a “bottom line” statement, and hold on to it. When your brain goes into overthinking mode, say STOP. And repeat your bottom line statement. Own it. And above all, TRUST IT. “At the end of the day, they leave me guessing…” (and I deserve ______) “At the end of the day, they make me feel like shit…” (and that is enough to make everything else irrelevant)… If you are stuck in a situation-ship that’s no longer fun for you, or find yourself going back and forth to an ex that you KNOW isn’t for your greater good, remember this: How you feel about someone is not as important as how they make you feel about you. Because you know what you deserve. And it’s on you to protect that. And the second you do, that’s where the magic starts to happen. #boundaries #takeresponsibility #breakuprecovery #breakup #situationship #situationships #youdeservebetter #ideservebetter #clarity #gamechanger #breakup101 #toxicrelationships #relationshipgoals #roadtolove #findyourlove #findingyoursoulmate #findyoursoulmate #soulmate #loveyourlove #youdeservelove #breakuptips #breakupbandaid #healing101 #egoboost #confidence #selfconfidence #selfrespect #respectyourself #respectyourselffirst #relationshipcoach (at Canada) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ8AmcXPEcj/?utm_medium=tumblr

[gmcbaby]

indirect to direct

i miss being in love. just spending that time with a person. doing whatever. sharing things with them. just always having them in thought. someone that makes you wanna do better in life. makes you realize your faults and still shows you grace. slightly humbling, but not their fault. i needed that push! which makes me love them even more. i would hate to come off selfish but i need you. it only makes sense with you. everything else feels clouded. you said it yourself. no one knows me like you. you know exactly how to handle me. were made for each other. im always yours. you’re my cure when im sick. i’ve missed you so much. i can’t even express it. when im with you everything i wanna say disappears. im just silent. trying to process that im living in a fantasy brought to life. trying not to fumble anything. trying to impress you. i shouldn’t have to but i know you deserve the best. i do too but i want to be fair if im coming in your life. i want things to make sense and not be forced…

…i know im in love because im rambling

[drmarr]

Totally true…except for all the times it’s NOT 😆 In love, for example. The best love of my life (thank the lord) has been the easiest love of my life. If you are looking for love, swipe left. When dating: “If they like you, you will know (EASY). If they don’t, you will be confused (HARD, questioning yourself, questioning them, confusing, PAINFUL even…)” Spend less time thinking, and more time trusting in this. Easier said than done (initially), but what is meant to last, doesn’t require a tight grip. You won’t have to overthink it (coming from a recovering over thinker 😆) If you are looking for true love, and feel you’re trying too hard, just remember, the greatest loves can often be unexpected and easy. Trust in that. (“The journey” to finding “the great”, might be another story 😆 But that’s the beauty of the 6 week break up recovery program - it not only helps you heal from past hurt, but helps set you up to find exactly what you are looking for going forward, helping you to avoid repeating what you don’t want to experience again!) Yet another example of the paradox of life. “Nothing great comes easy” can be both 100% true and 100% false. #breakuprecovery #dating101 #findinglove #lovelove #loveyourlove #secretstodatingsuccess #datingsecrets #loveofyourlife #easylove #nothinggreatcomeseasy #confused #confusedinlove #breakupcoach #selfrespect #selflove #selfconfidence #trusttheuniverse #gutinstinct #beauthenticallyyou #youdeservelove #lovedontcomeeasy #truelove #findtruelove #findingtruelove #brokenheart #tightgrip #healingabrokenheart #brokenheartrecovery #thethingaboutlove #stoptryingsohard (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/CemqjALOboa/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[drmarr]

Feeling disconnected is an uncomfortable feeling when you are in love. Always good to make that time short lived! What things do YOU do with your partner to reconnect when you feel you need to? For me? Simply some alone time together 😂 As is probably the case for most parents? #amiright? 🙋🏼‍♀️ 🙋🏾‍♂️ It’s no surprise we like to travel. It’s incredible to share new experiences together, but you don’t necessarily have to go far. The new (insert different culture) restaurant down the street, for example. I read somewhere that getting caught up in the day to day, we get into autopilot mode. But seeing your significant in a new environment, with new people, a new experience, or a new restaurant, can bring out the excitement, that “best” version of themselves that you likely initially both fell in love with ❤️ That’s why they say you need to mix it up a bit! But in a world of go go go, “mixing it up” can also mean some extra cuddle time in bed, a glass of wine or cup of tea in front of the fire, or simply sharing your most significant parts of your day with each other. New meaning to “Go big (a fun night out) or “go home” (a quiet night in)” 😂 BOTH can be exactly what you need!! How do you reconnect? In what ways could you be intentional about this? #loveyourlove #beintentional (And let’s be real, if you are parents, you likely HAVE to be intentional about it…) (We, too, did the Enrich Assessment! A great way to ignite new conversation if you are stuck, but also a perfect way to go deeper into an already solid connection ❤️) #mixitup #couplesgoals #mactheelephant #zimbabwe #imirerhinoandwildlifeconservation #imire #africa #thisisafrica #reconnect #relationshipcoach #couplesgoals #relationshipgoals #significantother #relationshipadvice #relationship101 #reigniteyourlove #meaningfulrelationships #meaningfullife #meaningful #fulfilled #mindsetcoach #parenting #itsuptoyou #parentsinlove #relationships #travel #expatlife #travelinglifecoach (at Zimbabwe, Africa) https://www.instagram.com/p/CaBKtVWvrj-/?utm_medium=tumblr

[drmarr]

“If it’s not broken, don’t fix it…” EXCEPT… Why on earth would we wait for our relationship to break if we could have avoided it from breaking in the first place? In your past experience, how has that worked out? Waiting until your relationship is “broken” to finally invest in putting back the pieces and reestablishing a strong connection? Did you ever get that same connection back? Did your relationship ever fully recover? Maybe you did ❤️ but treat your relationship like your health - would you really rather get properly ill if you knew you could have done something to proactively take care of yourself? (To be fair, our health care system is designed around this paradigm 🙄) Proactive > Reactive “It’s good enough” is a coping mechanism. You shouldn’t be scared of the truth of your relationship. If there is a place you have to avoid going to in order to keep the peace, you are tiptoeing around and hiding a part of you THAT MATTERS. It’s much easier to avoid dropping a vase than it is to glue the pieces back together. #happyvalentinesday #selflove #loveyourlove #relationshipcoach #beproactive #proactivenotreactive #relationshipbuilder #relationshipgoals #investinyourlove #investinyourrelationship #loveyourmarriage #marriagesupport #prepareenrich #ifitsnotbrokendontfixit #ifitsnotbrokedontfixit #copingmechanism #stuck #feelingstuck #loveyourrelationship #coupleswhothrive #relationshipadvice #relationshipadvice101 #relationshipadviceforwomen #relationshipadviceformen #staytogether #togetherforever #howtostaytogether #growtogether #growtogetherstaytogether #loveadvice https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ-lryqMktz/?utm_medium=tumblr

[masao19]

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