#takeresponsibility

[worlds-least-responsible]

I sure am glad there's only one of me.

[tulparsresponsiblenurse]

"Immature fucking co-pilot."

"I leave medical once in my fucking life, and now I can't even open the damn door, great! This really isn't the time to be doing this!" He turned to Daisuke, who looked stupidly nervous for some reason. What was he even worried about? He wasn't involved in this. ...Then again, Jimmy had everyone believing it was their faults for this. He could use this. "She's in there with a very clearly injured person I now have to consider a patient. This could be a very, very bad situation. You have to understand this. You're the damn mechanic's intern, right? Do you know any other way in?" He tapped his foot impatiently against the floor, pacing behind the door. It didn't feel jammed, it felt locked. This wasn't how things were supposed to go. It was meant to be her fault. Either her, or the oh so defenseless person stuck in there with her. "We don't have all fucking day here! Spit it out, you know how unstable she is! She's the reason we're in this mess, you really want to trust her around all the supplies? You listen to me now, alright?" He'd get his way, he always managed to. Daisuke spoke, or so it seemed. His mouth was moving, but Jimmy couldn't hear him. He couldn't seem to find his voice anymore either. Before he knew it, he was back in medical. He stood up, very uncoordinated, and immediately approached the door. He watched it slide open. It wasn't locked anymore. He balled his hands up, staring at the door for a moment before going back to make sure everything was organized. ...Fucking nightmares. Always made sure to pin him in a bad light. Always made sure he didn't know who was on the other side of that door. He had a guess, and he didn't like it.

[the-most-humble-blog]

✅ Checklist for Women Who Don’t Want to Falsely Accuse a Hookup of SA

A Guide for Women with Good Hearts, Good Intentions, and a Sense of Responsibility

Being responsible with consent goes both ways. If you don’t want to falsely accuse a man—whether out of regret, social pressure, or unclear communication—here’s how to ensure you’re staying accountable and acting with integrity.

🔍 BEFORE THE HOOKUP: Set Clear Boundaries

✔️ Know What You Want – If you’re unsure about whether you actually want to hook up, don’t do it. Hesitation is a sign to wait. ✔️ Speak Up If You’re Uncomfortable – If you’re already second-guessing before anything happens, that’s your answer. Say no. Leave. ✔️ Choose Environments Where You Feel Safe – If you’re feeling pressured or unsafe from the start, that’s a red flag to walk away. ✔️ Don’t Ignore Your Instincts – If something feels off, trust that feeling before engaging, not after. ✔️ Be Aware of Alcohol & Substances – If you can’t make a clear decision, it’s best to wait until you can.

🔥 DURING THE HOOKUP: Communicate & Take Ownership

✔️ Use Your Words, Not Just ‘Vibes’ – Men cannot read minds. If you don’t want something, say it directly. ✔️ Stop the Encounter If You’re Uncomfortable – If you change your mind mid-way, say no and remove yourself. It’s okay to stop. ✔️ Don’t Assume He Knows What You’re Thinking – If you’re feeling uneasy but not saying anything, that’s on you. ✔️ Actively Participate or Clearly Withdraw – If you’re engaging, you’re consenting. If you’re not, make it obvious. ✔️ If You Want to Leave, Leave – No one is forcing you to stay. If you feel uncomfortable, don’t wait—remove yourself.

🚨 AFTER THE HOOKUP: Be Honest With Yourself & Others

✔️ Separate ‘Bad Sex’ From Assault – If you had a meh experience, that’s not a crime. Disappointment ≠ Assault. ✔️ Take Responsibility for Your Choices – If you consented at the time, don’t rewrite history the next day. ✔️ Be Aware of Social Pressures – If your friends judge you for the hookup, don’t falsely claim you were coerced to save face. ✔️ Reflect on Your Feelings Honestly – If you willingly engaged, but later wish you hadn’t, that’s regret—not assault. ✔️ If He Didn’t Violate Consent, Don’t Ruin His Life – False accusations destroy lives. Be truthful, not emotional.

🔚 FINAL VERDICT: Protect Your Integrity & Others’ Reputations

Consent isn’t a game of charades. Use your words.

If you say yes, own it. If you say no, enforce it.

If he did nothing wrong, don’t let emotions, regret, or peer pressure twist the truth.

Truth matters. Real victims deserve to be heard—false accusations only make it harder for them.

🔥 REBLOG if you believe honesty in consent protects everyone. 🔄 💬 COMMENT if you think personal responsibility is the missing piece in modern dating. 🚩🚩🚩 🚀 FOLLOW for more no-bullsh*t discussions on consent, responsibility, and fairness. 🕵️‍♂️💣

[drmarr]

If you are in a SITUATIONSHIP, or struggling to get over or let go of someone, here is a game changer: It’s not how you feel about them that matters right now… it’s how they are making YOU feel about you. If someone makes you feel unappreciated. Not good enough. Not worthy. Rejected. Disrespected. Any feeling whatsoever that makes you feel anything less than amazing… remember THIS. That’s what matters. And that’s what’s going to help you get out of this. Make a “bottom line” statement, and hold on to it. When your brain goes into overthinking mode, say STOP. And repeat your bottom line statement. Own it. And above all, TRUST IT. “At the end of the day, they leave me guessing…” (and I deserve ______) “At the end of the day, they make me feel like shit…” (and that is enough to make everything else irrelevant)… If you are stuck in a situation-ship that’s no longer fun for you, or find yourself going back and forth to an ex that you KNOW isn’t for your greater good, remember this: How you feel about someone is not as important as how they make you feel about you. Because you know what you deserve. And it’s on you to protect that. And the second you do, that’s where the magic starts to happen. #boundaries #takeresponsibility #breakuprecovery #breakup #situationship #situationships #youdeservebetter #ideservebetter #clarity #gamechanger #breakup101 #toxicrelationships #relationshipgoals #roadtolove #findyourlove #findingyoursoulmate #findyoursoulmate #soulmate #loveyourlove #youdeservelove #breakuptips #breakupbandaid #healing101 #egoboost #confidence #selfconfidence #selfrespect #respectyourself #respectyourselffirst #relationshipcoach (at Canada) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ8AmcXPEcj/?utm_medium=tumblr

[crazyweirdduh]

Chill with the beef and get some chicken instead. 💰💰

[walkinginsolitude]

If some crazy right wingers went to a BLM protest and started shooting into the crowd, its likely that those same protesters who were screaming "Fuck the police!" and spitting at cops would run towards those same cops for protection. And those same cops who were just getting spit on and cursed at would run towards the shooters and put their lives on the line to save the lives of those protesters. That is as good a space as any to recognize that police can serve an important purpose that when done correctly and justly is necessary, courageous and deserving of respect.

HOWEVER

If you are working that job for the right reasons THEN in the same way that when a teacher molests a student other teachers don't stand up and say "We stand with Steve." But instead say "Fuck Steve. He took advantage of his power and did something disgusting, he doesn't represent us and we want him held accountable." A respectable police force would do the same. So until the police acknowledge the issue take accountability and make the changes, they will continue to be an organization that as a whole proactively represents and perpetuates abuse of power, racism and brutality. 

I want to respect the police. Give me a fucking reason.

[differentshadesofamber]

New month, new habits 😊 #Repost @yoga4usofficial • • • • • Anyone else #triggered af? No, just me? Hmmph! 😤 Insert Janet Jackson gif, because it's true tho!🤷🏿‍♀️ . Your mindset drives your words, your words drive your actions, your actions shape your life. Your habits reflect your true mindset, bro. . Yeah...its you. It's been you all along. #deepsigh . . . #takeresponsibility #thisisyoga #yogaoffthemat #realtalk #sayless #Yoga4Us #raleighyoga #blackyogateacher #blackgirlyoga #sistersofyoga #yogaeveryday #slap https://www.instagram.com/p/B4UqJfnjs50/?igshid=1kg744r3lp8c

[worlds-least-responsible]

I'm an artist.