No one is pathetic because they are hurting. People have killed themselves because they feel like they’ve lost the only thing keeping them alive, people like you need to keep your mouth fucking shut.
I wrote out four paragraphs for you– but i’m not gonna do all that and give you the short version sweaty.
no one is pathetic for hurting, they’re pathetic for treating someone whom they clam to be fans of as nothing but sex icons or something to please you when you’re upset. They are people with feelings and emotions and they deserve the right to happiness just like your bitch ass does, i guess. It’s abusive when it gets to the point that you are denying them children, or the right to fall in love, basic human needs that we all strive for. Or shoving things on them that you don’t know are true and saying that they are. Especially if they’ve clearly said that they aren’t. ( i.e Yoongi is straight, even though he’s said gender doesn’t matter to him in both interviews and in the lyrics to cypher part 3.) Or expecting them to operate under your terms or terms that satisfy you. i.e people complaining about a comeback 6 months after wings came out or seeing nothing wrong with constantly working with nothing to eat just bc you get to see them out of it. And it’s wrong because you should have more value and self worth to put all of your time, energy and love into someone you don’t know. (it doesn’t matter how many interviews you watch, you’ll never know what Luhan is like behind closed doors.) Put all of that time into growing a succulent garden, or buy and ESA (emotional support animal) and give him/her all your love? Put your time into a hobby you forgot. Deciding to hurt your body because someone you claim to be a fan of is in a happy, loving relationship that you don’t even know will last is sad; it’s not worth it and again circles around to being abusive…. It’s the whole “if I can’t have him, no one can.” mentality. And imagine how that would make your precious Lu ge feel?
So no anon, it’s people like you who need to keep their fucking mouths shut.
