narc abuse is real and every narcissist does it lmao, its the defining symptom of the illness im sorry if the fact upsets you :(
You literally cannot make such a big generalization of a disorder.
Look, I'm sorry if someone with a big ego abused you but that does not give you the right to demonize an entire trauma disorder
Just like ptsd abuse doesn't exist, narc abuse doesn't exist.
I used to be like you, I thought my mom was a narcissist and I was experiencing narc abuse. Then I sort of realized that all the signs of "narc abuse" was just emotional, specifically psychological abuse.
Demonizing and stigmatizing other trauma and abuse survivors harms all trauma/abuse survivors