#mendax-fabula

[strawberrycheesecakehare]

So you want to help Eden but also you can’t be fucked to talk to them by their terms?

Cool, you had your chance, you blew it. Now stop talking like you care about Eden.

You’re being creepy, really fucking creepy. Piss off

[how-do-these-people-exist]

@mendax-fabula You cannot fucking claim you want what's best for Eden if you're not taking the one fucking branch ANY of us are willing to reach out to you. You wanna complain about trying to reach out and being denied? Don't pull shit like this saying you "won't talk to me unless I apologize." You've got some fuckin' audacity to demand I apologize given fucking everything you've put Eden through and all the stress you've caused it by trying to speak for it when you directly ignore posts made by Eden's friends where Eden itself said you're wrong. You do not know better than the fucking victim here. Eden has only one fucking thing to say to you that they asked me to relay, and it's this:

[strawberrycheesecakehare]

My crash out was from months ago, I called myself the r slur, I was having a breakdown, and I deleted it because after I calmed down I went ‘shit that’s messed up even if I’m calling myself that.’ Try again dumbass

Also this post goes on about how if they aren’t allowed to talk about Eden, we shouldn’t either. Which ignores that Eden is OKAY with us, it’s FRIENDS, talking about it, but not you assholes. You are not Eden’s friend, it does not want YOU to speak for it

It’s literally the pinned post of their blog

[how-do-these-people-exist]

Boo-fucking-hoo I compared you to Ben Shapiro because you bragged about how you "always win debates/arguments." How about YOU fucking apologize for.. Oh, hm, you've done a LOT OF SHIT: - insisting Eden should have nobody speaking up to defend it - Insisting Eden's friends "don't know how to handle this" and "must lack experience" despite the fact that you don't know our fucking lives and how we're handling shit behind the scenes. - Continuing to reblog from and side with people who have hurt Eden. - Ignoring the multiple posts we've made telling you that you have actively stressed Eden out by insisting you "just care and want what's best for it" after Eden made it incredibly fucking clear they despise the shit you think we should be doing. - You barely even know Eden, by your own admission, why do you think you have any fucking right to demand to talk to Eden directly after they've endured doxxing, harassment, and a suicide attempt? And probably more I'm forgetting because this is all off the top of my fucking head, mendax-fucking-fabula.. We gave you one chance. One fucking chance to talk to someone who was willing to relay your messages to Eden. And you denied it because I made one petty insult that hurt your feelings. Boo-hoo. After all the shit you did to Eden, all the ways you've insulted and lied about me. That's fucking hypocritical. I am still willing. This is your last chance. I've made it clear. You talk to me, or you talk to none of us and we go back to having you blocked and you lose the one fucking branch we're willing to offer you that'd be even remotely close to getting to talk to Eden. I will relay your messages to it. But they have made it very fucking clear he is uncomfortable speaking to you after what you've done. What's more important to you? Whining about being compared to ben shapiro for saying ben-shapiro-type-shit? Or getting your point across by talking to people ACTUALLY INVOLVED IN EDEN'S LIFE directly. Because you're certainly not getting anywhere while you keep posting shit from Eden's harassers and doxxer, that's for sure.

[how-do-these-people-exist]

As expected, mendax-fabula was a lying, two-faced asshole.

It's just so ironic they reblogged a post that explains my exact problems with them. Like, you claim you "want to help" and "just want what's best for Eden" but when we give you a fucking chance to you say "no, apologize for being mean to me!" Like. Buddy, what the fuck? We gave you a chance to help and you're whining and being petty about it after you've been making posts, answering anons, and reblogging from EDEN'S FUCKING DOXXER AND HARASSERS.. We're the ones who deserve an apology, jackass. You don't get to complain about your feelings or mental health being hurt when this had NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. By your own admission you spoke to Eden ONCE, you are not a mental health professional, you have no fucking right to police the way Eden chooses to let its friends defend it. (And ourselves, since we're also being harassed by this smear campaign.) Like. Their last posts are just really fucking revealing of their intentions. You don't get to claim you're "just a nice neutral observer who wants the best for these people :(" and then say NO when we say we're willing to talk to you. That directly contradicts the intentions you claim to have. Honestly I'm just fucking disgusted they were acting that petty when we were willing to give them any fucking chance to begin with after they sided with the people who have been emotionally abusing, harassing, doxxing, and slandering Eden to the point of a suicide attempt. Like, it had to be on your fucking terms? You don't get to demand someone you BARELY KNOW talks to you when they didn't even remember who you were! That's part of why we were even willing to talk to you, to answer that damn question. They just got really fucking creepy and parasocial about "knowing what's best for Eden" when they knew Eden so little that, again, Eden doesn't even remember who this person was. I mean, god. Imagine how this looks from our point of view here. You have someone you've been friends with for a while be emotionally abused, slandered, harassed, doxxed, and then suddenly someone they don't even know come out of nowhere to insist that we're "bad at helping" and that they "could do better" all while siding with the people who HURT Eden. It's so fucking ridiculous I'm just shocked by how little self-awareness and reflection this person is capable of.

[how-do-these-people-exist]

Password protecting a sideblog automatically switches your profile photo to the default

Interesting. Still, regardless of the circumstances of their privating/deleting/deactivating the blog, it's nice to see them gone considering the shit they were spreading on there.

[how-do-these-people-exist]

Mendax-fabula only privated, you can still block manually and you can't do that on a deleted blog

Seriously? Then why tf would they make their pfp a default one. Are they trying to fake their deactivation for pity points or something??? Like, I believe you, I'm just shocked and confused honestly.

[strawberrycheesecakehare]

I suggest you look up Floraverse (specifically Floraverseisacult) and look up Sparklecare Hospital.

Both are cases where victims making documents (or in Floraverse’s instance a whole website) to present info on an individual DID help. Yes Floraverse is still going but a lot more people know of its abuse and Sparklecare has been discontinued completely with the creator running from their original handle and now going under a new one with a new nowhere near as successful project. In both cases victims were able to speak out against abuse, find community with each other, and spread awareness of a dangerous group of individual.

Yes sometimes docs are malicious and do harm, but that doesn’t mean they’re useless and to claim as such ignores the good they HAVE done in spreading awareness to others.

(Also, sidenote;

So it turns out I mistook Fabula for the numbers dude. However I DO remember seeing their blog and being able to access it at first, so they didn’t have me blocked immediately. I do apologize for the mix up as that is on me.)