#parasocial behavior

[hungryy-heart]

Do i bring an 'awfully parasocial' vibe to the table?

[thetruthfiles-backup]

Dm just posted something similar and its so ironic thats feed with some naratives she loves to spread around //

Literally this! It’s just so funny that she would post this and is laughing in the comments as if she didn’t help push this narrative across several fandoms. Because it’s real suspicious the way once a person seemingly puts DM on their payroll, the “it’s PR” narrative suddenly disappears and the puff pieces begin to surface. Like girly pop - you’re complicit! You had a hand in this! Don’t try to act above it now. This is quite literally how you got your claim to fame.

I think everyone here knows my stance on DeuxMoi.

I can’t stand them.

They’re the worst of the worst when it comes to feeding delusions and parasocial bullshit across fandoms, and then pretending they’re not part of the problem.

They are the problem.

And I have absolutely no respect for it.

[arkaeicksworld]

July 17, 2026

"Take all the time you need, but also don't. I'm feeling parasocial and nosy today."

[thetruthfiles-backup]

Wow, she brought him luck? 😂😂😂😂

What's the deal here? Because what I do know is that the man has worked very hard to achieve what has happened to him; the nominations are his own doing, the exclusive events, The sponsorships are thanks to the stylists, but she doesn't bring him luck; she's just another accessory in his life. And he treats her as such, and she doesn't care because she has what she craves...attention.

And that was reflected in Cannes with TA; she was glued to him, kissing him, very expressive, and constantly seeking him out at the award ceremonies, holding his hand. And what did we see in Cannes this year? A woman who already has what she wants, she's tied to his name for life, and she didn't need him anymore. Now she has something else to cling to, and that's that baby.

The fact that people who claim they’re Sebastian Stan fans, through and through, that they love him unconditionally, and love his girlfriend, their “mom and dad,” have no issue tying her to everything he’s accomplished over the last four to four and a half years is wild to me.

Every accomplishment he has, he earned himself. Strip away all the PR nonsense, and that man still earned every award and every accolade on his own.

She had nothing to do with it.

Those are not fans. JFC.

[thetruthfiles-backup]

in fact its like annabelle brings him lucky🤷🏼‍♀️ but you all will never understand or see this /

No, it's not her who brings luck to him, my love. It's his own drive to be recognized and win several awards. And in case you haven't noticed, actresses and actors dream of winning awards and becoming more famous. He would have achieved this with or without her because, unlike her, he has the will and talent to have gotten where he is. All these achievements you pointed out were his and his alone, not because SHE is in his life. Don't come attributing his achievements to her name, grow up. She wasn't there when he started his career. She wasn't there when he began gaining recognition. It wasn't her who brought him fame. If she had all that luck, she would have given it to herself.

You remind me of someone from Sebtwt who said it was with her help that he got his Oscar nomination, that she had a hand in it. Just like that idiot on Insta who said he only met Wagner Moura (the guy who was being nominated during awards season) because Annabelle had a hand in it lmao. You guys are treating Sebastian like he’s the unrecognized one and she’s the big famous star. She’s the one who’s part of the Academy, huh? That’s why she’s the one who made him meet him, not him at all. Lmao.

I must’ve missed the part where she was the one auditioning, filming, and carrying his career this whole time.

[thetruthfiles-backup]

Same account posted all of this… and we’re still doing the whole “antis are the problem” routine?//

This is my first time encountering this.

I don't normally seek them out and if i come across them I just move on.

Why are they so angry and potentially violent?

They know that neither Annabelle or Sebastian know they exist right? Also they'd probably not care if they did know them?

They seem more upset about it than Annabelle or Sebastian are?

Why cant they just live in a world where everyone had different opinions without being enraged?

They seem to need a hug and some cake.

This is your first time encountering it?

Welcome. Grab a seat.

Because this is exactly what people have been talking about this entire time.

I don’t seek them out either. They get sent to me, which honestly saves me time. I spend enough of my day posting here, I’m not about to go digging for this nonsense.

Why are they so angry and potentially violent?

Because they’re not treating this like real life. They’re treating it like a storyline they’re emotionally invested in, and when reality doesn’t match the narrative they’ve built in their heads, they spiral. That’s where the aggression comes from.

And then they project.

They make up that “antis” are the ones wishing harm on people, causing problems, doing all of this unhinged shit. They’re not. That behavior is coming from the shipper side. There’s a pattern here. Create the problem, blame it on the other side of the fandom, and then turn around and play victim.

“Oh my god, I can’t believe they act like this.”

No.

The call is coming from inside the fucking house.

Not saying there isn’t a bad apple somewhere, because of course there is. But the majority of what gets pinned on “antis”? That narrative is being built and pushed by the same people causing the chaos. They don’t like being called out, so they project. And when they keep getting called out, it escalates.

And yes, you’re absolutely right… neither Annabelle nor Sebastian knows they exist. And even if they did, this kind of behavior wouldn’t exactly earn them a gold star.

That’s the irony.

They’re more upset, more reactive, and more invested than the actual people involved. They get your like, your view, your comment… and then they move on with their lives.

That’s it.

And the whole “people can’t have different opinions without being enraged” thing?

That only works when people are actually having opinions. Not when they’re making bingo cards about babies and telling people they should be wiped off the face of the earth.

At that point, it’s not an opinion. It’s just unhinged behavior.

But yeah… a hug and some cake might be a good starting point… and, uh, some intensive therapy to go along with that.

[thetruthfiles-backup]

Same account posted all of this… and we’re still doing the whole “antis are the problem” routine?

Right. Of course.

Because nothing screams “stable, rational fandom behavior” like making a conspiracy bingo card about a baby, calling people dumb, suggesting entire groups should be wiped off the earth, and casually throwing in violence for flavor.

But yeah… it’s the antis.

Totally.

I must’ve missed the part where antis logged into your account and made you post all of that.

That’s on me. My bad. 🙄

The lack of self awareness here is actually impressive. Like Olympic level mental gymnastics to post this kind of content and still somehow position yourself as the reasonable side.

At this point, y’all aren’t even reacting to drama.

You’re writing it, producing it, starring in it, and then handing out awards for it.

But sure.

“We’re the problem.”

[thetruthfiles-backup]

I find it hilarious that the shipper side of this fandom is constantly screaming, “the antis are doing this,” “the antis are doing that,” “the antis are the problem.”

Meanwhile, you are over there inventing scenarios, building narratives out of thin air, and then blaming “antis” for things that never even happened.

You’re not reacting to anything.

You’re creating it.

And then you have the audacity to turn around and act like you’re the sane side of the fandom?

No. You’re not.

You’re literally manufacturing the drama, feeding it, and then pointing fingers like you didn’t just start the fire yourself.

So don’t sit there and pretend you’re the victims in a mess you created.

You are the problem.

*Thank you to the Truthie who sent this in.