#mendingabrokenheart

[amour-propre-belle]

I miss you so profoundly that the pain is turning into anger. I will stop missing you soon as I dance under the moonlight tonight.💔

[negavox]

Hmmmmmm…. New hobby? Well, not really, just catching back up with some old friends using a modern turntable system… so, lets test out this Audio Technica record player with Bluetooth/wireless capability. I have always hated wires and this is another example of my ocd taking over lol @audiotechnicausa #audiotechnica #audiotechnicalp60 #audiotechnicalpgo-bt #mendingabrokenheart #myrecordscantplaythemselves (yes, I bought an entirely new home audio system to play this song they way i want to hear it) (at Kirby, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp2o_uwuYlh/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[theseasheistome]

Hand sawn Cicada wings @ shell. By T.Sparke.2022

[lisabmagdalena]

YOU ARE BEING TRAINED! THE TRICK USED TO KEEP YOU A SLAVEGIRL.

Psychology labs throughout the world agree that the best way to train an animal is “intermittent rewarding”. This powerful strategy produces dependency in ways that other people look on and cannot understand. It keeps the animal insecure, constantly craving reward and desperate to please. It encourages loyalty even to its abuser. It is known to work exactly the same with humans.

Here’s how it works : “Sit!” (Gives Treat) Praises: “Good dogl!” Sit! (No Treat) . Praises: Good dog! “Sit!” (No Treat) Silence. Repeat. Mix up intermittently.

It’s designed to send the animal into confusion and a mental frenzy of what did I do wrong? How can I get the treat and the praise again?

See how it works. Now, look at your situation.

In toxic relationships, the Narcissist metes out the rules, rewards or boundaries inconsistently. This is on purpose. You’d think this would make you run but it actually does the opposite. It will fuel your desperation to get the reward once again, keeping you hopelessly locked into the relationship.

The Toxic knows what I’m talking about. They will deliver a ping of validation when they sense you’re about to pull away, just to keep you tied to the relationship usually at your expense. But the good will be fleeting. That’s intermittent rewarding.

In the beginning, you were love bombed and told you were beautiful, witty, enchanting, the “one”. Then, without warning, you can’t do anything right. You think, what happened? What did I do? Why am I not good enough?

No. It’s not you. You’re just caught in the toxic cycle of love bomb, devalue and discard.

To keep you from exiting, the Narcissist will then love bomb you again. You exhale with relief. It won’t last. Doesn’t matter though. After the investment you’ve made in the toxic relationship, you are already trained to ignore the bad stuff. You are programmed, hooked and brainwashed into believing this is love.

The only way to get free, is to adopt a strict no contact policy. The sooner the Narcissist becomes a memory, the better off you’ll be. Get yourself educated on what got you to this point. Self-reflect and become self-aware. Your key to survival is freeing yourself from old Slavegirl patterns and learning to become Queen of you.

COMMENT “QUEEN” below and I’ll send you a personal message to help you do that !!

And today you can get my FREE ‘Wake Up, Queen! Meditation to feel empowered and ready to rule your world.  

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[twin-soul-flame-lovers-blog]

People equate giving up as a weakness, when in actuality it’s a strength. Sometimes we have to let people go to be healthy.

[yobabyitsme]

Day. 1 March 14,2017 Tuesday. counting the days on how much it hurts to lose someone, to end up things, that's not supposed to end but I was so mad. So mad that I exploded. Said the words that shouldn't be said. Put him down, Degraded him and called him names. He did the same. He did the unthinkable, the sharp words that cut through my heart. Put me down, degraded me, called me names. I was dead. Dead to him. It happened to fast. blocked. Erased. Gone.

@yobabyitsme

[shrbt]

---> Allow your disappointment to become appointment with GOD. He wants to meet you in that place and heal your broken heart. 💔 #mendingabrokenheart 🌸#findabeautifulplaceandgetlost 🌴 #niles 🌷 (at Niles, Illinois)

[letsgetgloomy]

You have nothing to fear, if you havr nothing to hide.

Harry Potter and the Deadthly hallows Part 1, still the best movie.