Yes, I #MetHim , #Dated, #Engaged, and #Married him all in #LessThanAYear Some thought I was #crazy. I wasn’t. Some even compared in a subconscious way saying “They could never..” They are right, this kind of blessing isn’t for everyone. Some said that I was rushing, and this is all too quick and too soon. I say “I waited all my life for this very moment.” What some may never know it’s what I’ve #Endured as a #Single Alpha woman in #LosAngeles and then suddenly a #SingleMama and for years I’ve been trying to put back the pieces of all the confidence I’ve built only to be strip away of that title from one single human being who left me #PregnantAlone feeling ultimately #Rejected to experience a #Pregnancy I envision to be something totally different. I followed all the rules. I focused on myself! I had all my ducks lined up in a row. I went to school, I succeeded financially in life, I’ve gain financial freedom at the age of 21. I became the type of woman my parents raised me to be and that’s the kind of woman you #Marry The kind of woman every man dreams of. I’m naturally a dope ass woman, I’m book smart and street smart? Man it don’t get no better than this. So how the fuck did I end up being a single mom? How could I be so damn smart only to look and feel like a damn fool raising a child on my own. I would subconsciously beat myself up daily because my plan didn’t pan out. There’s a saying “Want to hear God laugh? Tell him your plans.” When you have been single for 10+ years and 6 of those years you were a single mom and someone comes into your life and actively and aggressively shows you actionable behaviors of why they want you in their life #NoGames and that love is also reciprocated. You will know. I dated myself, learn & Unlearned behaviors. I fell out of love and grew back in love with every new version of the woman I was becoming. When I finally surrender and accepted my calling. He came out of nowhere and I just knew he was the one. I am not crazy, & I definitely didn’t settle. I simply waited a decade for the #love that truly #deserves me. #MyHusband https://www.instagram.com/p/B8IzotEgzlV/?igshid=kfgkce8p102l
