#mrriage

[aroaceconfessions]

i'm a greyro ace. now i'm wondering if someday i get married, i'm afraid because what if i only love my partner platonically while they love me romantically. this just makes me wondering if i can get married or not

[chynatic]

You Can't Save People, You Can Only Love Them

“Bertahanlah ketika kamu mengenal seseorang yang dengannya kamu merasa menjadi lebih baik, lebih sabar, lebih menghargai hidup, lebih berpikir positif padahal dia tidak pernah mengatur-mengatur atau menyuruhmu untuk berubah.” — (andinavika) Dear readers, kapan terakhir kali kelen pergi ke bioskop untuk nonton film? Continue reading You Can’t Save People, You Can Only Love Them

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“Writing a poem is like having an affair; a short story is a romance; a novel is a marriage.”

 —Amos Oz

[zaynzwag]

You're getting married but he's in love with you. 

You're getting married but he's in love with you.  Harry:  "Can you make it a tad tighter?" You asked Harry sucking in your stomach as tight as you could. "Yeah. Sure." He said retying the corset of your dress. He looked over your shoulder at you in the mirror. "What is it?" You asked frantically. "Does it look bad?!" You cried. "Noo!" He laughed. "Then what..." "You just look, erm, really beautiful." He breathed. "Aww Haz! Stop it!" You said blushing while throwing your arms around his neck. "I just hope he likes it." You said softly. "He will." Harry reassured you. "Y/N, it's time to go." Your mom called from the hallway. "So this is it? The last moment of our friendship?" Harry said staring at the floor. "Harry! What do you mean? We'll be best friends always! Me getting married won't change that." You reassured him. "Right." He replied. You gave him a soft kiss on the cheek, and he just gave you that usual cheeky half smile. I'm just so blessed to have you in my life." You smiled. "I don't know where I'd be without you!" "Y/N. The church is ready for you." Your mom called again. You squeezed his hand in excitement then glanced at yourself in the mirror one last time before walking down the steps. Harry's stomach flip flopped while watching you walk out the door. "Are you really going to let the love of your life walk down that aisle and get married to another man?" he thought to himself. "Y/N WAIT!" He yelled running down the stairs. He caught you just before the doors were going to be opened. "Harry, what is it?" you asked. "I can't let you do this." he breathed. "I erm. I love you." Before you could even respond he pulled you into a kiss. You couldn't help yourself, you had to kiss back. It was just too perfect. You regretted it imeadietly when you saw your soon to be mother in law watching. "You slut." She spat. "I love you too. I always have." you said with tears running down your face. And with that, you ram out of the church to your car. You just needed your space.  Zayn: You skipped happily up to Zayn's door and let yourself in without knocking. "Zayniiieeeeee!" you called. You looked around and saw him asleep on the couch. "Wake up sleepy!" You said jumping on him. "Woah!" He jumped. "How'd you get in here?" He said with a sleepy tone. "I've got a key silly." You say making a point to dangle it in front of his face in your left hand. "Oh gotcha." he said. "You seem extra happy today." He says with a chuckle. "What's the occasion darling?" He adds while tucking a piece of your hair behind your ear. "Oh... Nothing really." You say nonchalantly. "Okay then.  He replies. "I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE! LOOK!" You squealed shoving your left hand in his face. "A ring?" He said disappointed. "What? You don't like it?" You asked alarmed. "Um no. It's nice." He said avoiding eye contact. "Then what is it?" You ask confused. "It's just that I- I just really- Um. Are you really sure you guys are ready?" He finally says. "Well yeah! I mean i think so!" You say annoyed. "Well you shouldn't just think, you should know, 100%" He said hotly. "Well last time I checked it was my decision, not yours!" You fire back getting up to leave. Before you could he grabbed your arm and pulled you into a passionate kiss. "ZAYN! WHAT THE HELL! IM ENGAGED!" You say pushing him away and storming off. "IF YOU REALLY LOVED HIM YOU WOULDN'T OF KISSED BACK!" He yelled behind you. You just ignored him and continued to leave.  Liam: "I need to talk to you." Liam said pulling you outside away from all your friends and family at the dinner table. "What is it?" You ask concerned. "It's just... I've felt this way for a while now. And i know nows not the best time but-" He babbled. "LIAM! Just say it" You laughed. "I think I'm in love with you." He said softly searching your eyes for a reply. "I-I." You stammered. "Hey Y/N! It's time to eat!" Your boyfriend called you. "Can we talk about this later? Now's just not a good time." You said stepping back inside. Your boyfriend wrapped his arm around your waist protectively the raised in glass in the air. "Now everyone. Before we eat, Me and Y/N have a special announcement!" He gushed. "Y/N... Why don't you do the honors." He smiled. You hesitated then plastered on a smile, "We're engaged!" you said with gritted teeth. The room erupted with applause and congratulations. You scanned the room for Liam but all you could see was the back of his head as he walked out the door. Niall: "Keep walking! Were almost there!" You laughed dragging Niall behind you. "Where are we?" He whined. "Okay Okay! Take off the blindfold!" You laughed. He took it off, revealing a park. You and Niall had this tradition that whenever one of you had big news, you'd come there together to share it. "Oh no... We've got news!" He said with a chuckle. You just blushed a little and fiddled with you left hand. "Well actually, there's something I've been meaning to tell you." He said suddenly, growing tense. "So tell me!" You laugh. "Well actually, it'll just be easier to show you." He blushed. "Okay! So show me!" You smiled. His blue eyes stared into yours then before you knew it his lips crashed into yours. "Niall!" You gasped. "I'm sorry! It's just! I've felt like this for a while but i just didn't know if you-" "Stop." You cut him off. " Please stop. I need to show you something too" You say holding out your left hand in front of him revealing a diamond band on your ring finger. "Oh." He says sheepishly. "Yeah, I'm, um sorry." You say softly. "I should go." He says turning around. "Niall wait!" You call after him.  Louis: "Listen y/n. There's something i need to tell you." Louis says nervously. "I know were just friends and all and you have a boyfriend but, I just can't hide these feelings anymore." He says. "Soo... What are you trying to say?" You ask. "I'm trying to say that, I'm in love with you." Your stomach flip flopped. "And I've been in love with you since the first day I met you. I was just too stupid to show it." He sighed. "Louis--" You tried but he just interrupted you. "But i get it if you don't feel the same way. I know you've got him to consider too." He went on. " LOUIS! Just shut up and kiss me!' You giggle. His eyes lit up and he picked you up as you wrapped your legs around his waist. "I've always loved you!" You said before kissing him. "But what about your boyfriend." He asked. "It isn't right to do this behind his back. "So I'll break it off at dinner tonight." You reassured him. **Later that night** You stared across the table at your soon to be ex boyfriend. He was acting really strange. "Listen... We need to talk." You say softly. "Well can this wait? We've got more important things to do." He said annoyed. "Um okay then. Like what?" You say trying your best not to give him attitude. "This." he says standing up in front of you before getting down on one knee. Your heart stopped. "Oh shit..." You thought. "Y/N, Will you marry me?" He said with his signature puppy dog smile. "Um... I-I" You stuttered. 

[mathersrodney]

This week we have a great discussion on marriage after incarceration with Rev, Dr. Daniel Loosenort and his wife Penny. Spousal roles, finances, and conflict resolution are all discussed.

[theemistressofspices]

surprise surprise...another marriage proposal :P