i love ur mtls sm 🤝🤝 esp since u include explanations on why an idol’s been put towards ‘most’/‘least’. i’d like to request monsta x and wonho mtl of who would most likely be jealous when their partner’s attention is on someone else.
immediately i thought wonho but now I think shownu. the type to be jealous but won’t say ANYTHING, he’ll never voice it unless u probably bring it up 🙄. like it’ll be a fleeting thought and then he’ll be over it but i can see it happening a lot but changkyun 💀 i feel like this man’ll give you all kinds of silent treatment. curious to see what you think
thank you anonie ♡
Monsta X Mtl get jealous when your attention is on someone else
most
Wonho
Minhyuk
Kihyun
Changkyun
Hyungwon
Shownu
least
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Wonho - gets jealous very easily over little things. he has lots of insecurities inside his head and they start spinning as soon as you talk to someone else. he kind of hates that side of himself because he wants to trust you, but he is so so scared of losing you that he can't. reassure this baby a lot and make sure to spend at least twice as much time with him as with other people!
Minhyuk - our puppy also needs a lot of attention and if you don't give it to him he'll just take it. like if you were talking to your friend for over 30 minutes he'd just cling onto your arm and swing it back and forth like an impatient kid waiting to go home. when you ask him what is wrong he just gets teary eyed and asks you if you still love him. can't communicate these jealous thoughts very well, but i think over time (the longer you are together) he'll grow more trusting and less jealous
Kihyun - the sassy, bratty jealous type. you had been playing video games with your friend every day for the past weeks, only spending time with kihyun when you were eating or sleeping and he quietly got more and more annoyed. starts to moan very loudly in the background when you play with your friend again, just to embarrass you, and it works. the following night is a very long one that shows kihyun you have all but forgotten about him and how to put him in his place, and you make sure to spend more time with him throughout the day after that
Changkyun - I see him as a total overthinker, so as soon as you spend a little more time with that one friend, his mind starts making up all kinds of scenarios and ideas that depict you cheating on him. he knows that most of these thoughts have no actual basis, so he bottles up his ill-feelings and doesn't talk to you about them. which in turn makes him more distant towards you. you'll need to notice sth is wrong with him and have a long and reassuring talk, coming up with solutions to make him feel more secure
Hyungwon - another one to get very passive aggressive, "If you like your friend that much why don't you date them instead of me?!". especially hates it when someone steals your attention while you are out with him and will immediately stop holding your hand to let you know of his distaste of the situation. this could turn into a bigger problem in your relationship if he doesn't learn to communicate better with you, instead of just getting angry or distant ("do whatever, you don't care anyway")
Shownu - I really tried, but I just can't see him as the jealous type. he'd be super chill with you having many friends and hanging out with them. if he ever had feelings of doubt or felt lonely because you didn't hang out with him as much anymore he would simply ask to join you and your friends in what you were doing. if you, however, refuse this request he would suddenly feel much more distant to you and start to question your feelings for him and how serious your relationship really was. would get slightly annoyed if you were happier with other people than with him, but mainly cause it just makes him think "what's the point of us then"
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this got a little sad 🥺 but feel free to tell me your opinion
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