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Lmao must be nice to have friends like that. When I tell my friends they obviously don’t care I don’t get the same reassurance. I keep losing my friends. No one stays anymore. Must be easy to handle your BPD when your friends show up for you.

I actually didn’t build these friendships until my 30s, and my BPD still absolutely affects me.

But one thing I had to learn is that healthy relationships became more possible when I stopped treating relationships like constant tests to prove I’m loved.

I used to spiral, accuse people of not caring, hint instead of communicate, and expect reassurance in ways that overwhelmed people. Even people who genuinely loved me.

And honestly, I had to learn that people are usually more able to show up for me when I invite them in instead of pushing them into a defensive mode with accusations.

That means telling people what I’m struggling with directly. Letting people know what helps. Accepting support without turning it into a test of whether they care “enough.” Learning emotional regulation and accountability. Learning that reassurance doesn’t work if I immediately reject it.

There are absolutely bad friends and unsupportive people in the world. Some people genuinely do not have good support systems. I’m not denying that. But your ask reminds me of how I used to be. Telling someone they ‘obviously don’t care’ is hurtful and puts people on the defensive where they might not even see a point in trying when their efforts are constantly questioned.

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So will you ever not be a product of whatever people did to you? When I look at your posts, trauna recovery sound really bleak, like you don't seem to move on ever and it informs every single decision and opinion you form. It's like your abusers have made a permanent imprint on you, you may never create anythibg that doesn't connect to them in some way. If I'm like you why should I even live at this point?

My blog is one very small part of my life. Saying my trauma informs every decision I make is wrong, and honestly rude. You don't know a blogger just because you see their posts. There is a lot of stuff I don't share on here, and would never share on here. There's a lot of aspects about me and my life that aren't shared here.

I have healed. But I use my experience to try and help others.

I understand you are going through your own stuff and that you are likely looking for a comforting answer, but this ask is honestly rude. It's not up to you, or anyone else, to decide how my trauma affects me, my decisions and my opinions.

But to answer your last question... The way I see it is that trauma did permanently change my brain. But healing does too.

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You said you hate AI, right? Well, what do you think of the ai's that help legaly blind people by telling them the color of clothes or the time?

Do you hate those too?

Based on the fact that you're hiding behind anon and the way you worded this I can tell you just want to start a fight. Fine, I will endorse this for a moment. This is about GENERATIVE AI. Not whatever tf you're talking about.

The thing I hate is the mass theft, spying, child porn and deep fakes. (Oh how the billionaires and famous people LOVE their child porn). I also don't like how this tech is being forcibly shoved down my throat every time I turn around. If I wanted it on my fucking phone I would download it myself, I don't want this bloatware taking up space just to do something I can and would rather do myself. (And yes I'm fully aware tech already spies on us to some degree, but this is just excessive and I'm not into it).

Also little word of advice. Don't speak for disabled people. We can do that on our own just fine. Especially using us to start fights, not cool dude. Try this again and you will be ignored. If a blind person has beef with my stance, they can tell me that themself and I will be more open to having my mind changed.

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romano in my most honest opinion is the single most infuriatingly boring character there is and power to the people who has him as a fave

personally I will never understand him as a concept beyond the canon portrayal of his difficult personality and never have I come across any interpretation that does him justice be it in fanfiction or roleplay writing

in the latter, I've met so many muns that tend to over exaggerate a self-victimising aspect for him and making him cry woe is me every second, it's frustrating to write with when he throws a tantrum every ten seconds over the smallest things

even in the series both comic and anime that's all I've ever seen of him like is this fr y'all's man

~🗳

#hetalia world stars #hetalia confession #hws romano #negative ask

Your post misses one glaring issue; most of the anti Stolas/anti Stolitz blogs are ALSO Blitz critical. They acknowledge that Blitz shouldn't be forgiven for what he did to Verosika, they point out that he's being hypocritical with the Sinsmas episode. They don't coddle him at all. I don't know where you're getting that from. They just acknowledge that Stolas is abusive, WHICH HE IS. Season 1 has an entire montage of how Blitz feels chained to Stolas and their relationship, there have been multiple moments where Stolas abuses the power he has over Blitz sexually, and Stolas constantly sexually harasses him. None of them made that up. Blitz is the victim in his relationship with Stolas, acknowledging that doesn't mean they're coddling him.

I also don't know where your whole spiel about "purity culture" came from. If we're going to see characters like Stella and Valentino as abusers, why would we not hold Stolas to the same standard? The show calls them out, but not Stolas? Why are you mad that people call attention to that?

And if you don't like those tags, FILTER THEM. Don't bitch about people expressing dislike of the narrative's direction. Especially because your post had the media literacy of a cactus. Jfc, you come off as so pretentious while also sounding dumb somehow

hello angry anon, im a dumb cactus, go fuck yourself

youre also a dumb cactus, actually. i was talking about how absurd their hatred is. they yell how HB is the worst show ever having the worst abusers and rapists ever and try to "cancel" it with their "anti" bullshit. anti stolas anti stolitz etc. its not a critique or acknowledgement. its hatred and trying to sanitize media, while shaming those who like the otp/character. if they would just talk about poor writing or do character/otp analysis without EWWW STOLAS IS THE WORST I HOPE HE FUCKING DIES FUCKING RAPIST, i wouldn't care. but you're a dumb cactus, you won't understand. 🙋🏻

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I know you probably don't mean anything wrong by doing it but you shouldn't appropriate terms like alter and splitting if you're not the group effected. Again I'm sure you don't realize how it can be harmful. I like your art a lot but it's uncomfortable to see you use these themes for ~✦~aesthetics~✦~ instead of what they are intended for.

I shouldnt even b entertaining this ask cuz its bait-y and rude but you dont know jack shit about me and enforcing ppl to only be allowed to resonate or speak about their experiences in the "correct" way

pressures people to out their personal information

and curates a "doctor diagnoses only" environment which is

a whole rabbit hole of a conversation so

tldr

fuck off and mind your business

#smigglesask #negative ask

Blocking people just because they don’t agree with your Huntlow post is BULLSHIT!! I don’t care if you don’t like the ship but there are some points I don’t agree with and it should be discussed. For example you think Hunter is just with willow because he’s a broken victim. Darius, Luz and Gus: are we a joke to you? Hunter Literally found out about his trauma with Luz. As long as people aren’t rude about it you should at least be open to discussion. Just saying

Okay, first off this ask is literally so funny. I’ll address what you said, but I have to get this out of the way first because this is literally SENDING me. Imagine coming on someone’s own blog and saying “You can’t block me because I have opinions and you have to listen to me! I don’t care if it’s triggering or upsetting, I don’t agree with your post so you have to argue with me or else it’s unfair! You are OBLIGED to discuss my opinions with me! Me me me! >:(“ Like,, anon the block features exists for people to block out seeing or reading things that are upsetting or that they just don’t like. No one owes you jack shit and they certainly aren’t obligated to sit down and listen to your points if they don’t want to. In my pinned post I literally said I use the block button liberally- That’s what it’s for. I literally block people on sight for posting hunt/low because it’s triggering for me to see in ways that are personal and that I really don’t feel like sharing with some stranger on anonymous on the internet. It’s none of your business who I block.

Moving past that, my post in question has no “points”. It was in regards to part of the fandom feeling isolated and betrayed at hunt/low possibly becoming canon. Those are personal feelings and aren’t up for discussion. The only “points” to discuss are in my responses to other asks or comments on the post, which makes it pretty clear that you’re probably @/catmatpat or whatever that was arguing with me and I blocked because they were just getting cruel and rude. The way that everyone has in their response “I don’t ship it myself, but-“ is a dead giveaway that you do and you’re just saying that because you know if you say “as a hunt/low shipper” and follow it with something rude you won’t get taken seriously (which youre still not, but). I haven’t seen any anti hunt/low fans actually personally coming after shippers, only the shippers themselves coming after the ones that dislike their precious ship. I literally have mutuals that this has happened to. This is about as bad as the blacksun shippers and the tauradonna shippers in the rwby fandom. It’s not a good look.

Finally, you clearly have the reading comprehension of a second grader if you genuinely think I said Hunter only “likes” Willow because he’s an abuse victim. Also please kindly stop saying “is just with Willow” like it’s canon, because it’s not. You cant say things are canon just because you want them to be. Anyway, I think in a show with a rushed ending it’s in bad taste to put a character who is an abuse victim and suffers from very clear PTSD in a relationship to heal them. It perpetuates the stigma that a relationship will “heal” you and that other people are responsible for “fixing” you and that’s already shown way too much in media when it shouldn’t be. That’s not to say being in a relationship WON’T help you heal, but you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you’re just expecting it to fix you and your trauma which is what you’re wanting it to do for Hunter. I am a childhood abuse victim and I’ve been in a committed relationship for the last five years, so I think I have a small right to fucking say that and if you think otherwise you’re romanticizing PTSD and can get the fuck off my blog. And I’m not really sure why you’re bringing up Gus, Darius, and Luz. None of those are romantic relationships. Do you think I’m saying he shouldn’t have friends and loved ones to help him work through his trauma?? There are no strings attached there, no romantic relationship or expectations for those three helping him heal and if you add a romantic relationship with Willow, that would be what you were expecting of her.

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