what do you think about the fact River takes Estrogen still on the excuse ‘it’s less toxic than T’ and ‘it’s easier to get’. the fact he has coworkers who think he is a woman because his detransition does nothing other than just saying he is detransitioning online. inrl he is larping as a woman. It makes me so angry, he doesn’t understand that ‘GNC male’ doesn’t mean you should endorse taking cross sex hormones, grow boobs, have your dick cut off. He use to glorify the fact he has boobs, use to talk about his curves. He has no right giving advice to dysphoric males, when he hasn’t got over his. He still takes feminizing hormones!!!! How the fuck does he expect not to come across as a hypocrite.
@river-grunfeld is an autogynophile
He's hardly a detransitioner, he's a 'femboy' living out his fetishes. Calling it gnc is insulting considering he only acts like how he perceives a caricature of a women. He says "i realized i could be a man who is motherly and caring" as if this warrants dressing like a drag queen. He formed his image on sexist stereotypes. He is an autogynophile.
I mean "raise your hand if you don't have a bra on"
"I have dark effeminate curves"
"I have sex like a lesbian"
And don't forget "I take estrogen for nice curves"
Dude wears makeup and gets away with it bc "omg gender non conforming" thats not what that means. He's still perpetuating gender roles by noting how "effeminate" he is for a male. Saying you're a "femboy" is still perpetuating a gender binary based on stereotypes.
I am fully convinced that he is only here using #radblr tags and getting angry when someone portrays him as masculine because acceptance from other women in a closed terf space is the final step to his transition. If he's here to "talk to men about male socilization" then why is he in radfem tags engaging with radfems only?
He gets offended when someone draws him as masculine, he gets even angrier and denounces feminism all together when radfems don't celebrate him or accept him. He uses DARVO to turn it back on them "what you don't accept abusers? You're a bad feminist"
You cannot tell me that after more than a decade of abusing his wife he stopped as soon as he realized he was a man. No. I call bullshit. He cut off his freaking penis
You don’t do that unless you're a fetishist
She literally said she accepted him and changed her TRA ideology because he stopped beating her. But the proof is overwhelming that he is still incredibly abusive (she has no support system, no friends, no job she rushes to defend him, she changes her year long narrative of his abuse to take the blame for it and he silently reposts it)
Even so, she has enabled each and everyone of his behaviors.
You cannot say to me that a 30 year old man in a choker dressed like a middle school girl does not have autogynophilia
His fetlsh extends to being accepted by women here. Unfortunately some are dumb enough to accept it, probably because he's a lot older than them and he can use his wife as a shield ("I brought him here" she says, as if she wouldn't do anything to accommodate his fantasy)
