#separatism

[kittyit]

8/18/25

[lorynna]

girls, I'm going insane. a male "feminist" did a YouTube reaction on a woman that said she purposefully does not consume content made by men and I shit you not, he called her male centered for that.

because apparently choosing to primarily focus on female produced content and excluding men's "centers men". I hate male "feminists" so much. male feminists don't exist; only men that are appropriating women's movement & are ignorant enough to believe that their opinion in this matter holds more worth than any woman's.

if there was a male feminist he'd never claim the title; simultaneously he'd use his male privilege in our patriarchal society to direct attention and give space to the oppressed class that is women, instead of centering himself in a discussion he as the oppressor has no place in. he'd hand over the mic instead of pretending to be a valid spokesperson.

and no, choosing to deliberately not engage with men or men's content does not make you male centered. incredibly stupid take from an incredibly ignorant man.

edit: reblogs turned off because bots

[diana-lostandfound]

Younger 4B women: expect to be constantly told that you're "being too afraid to live life," or that you're "running away from love to avoid heartbreak" or whatever. This is the primary way you'll be psyopped back into domestic servitude. Expect it, anticipate it, or you might not be able to see through it.

You are going to constantly be told--both explicitly and implicitly through constant propaganda and social conditioning--that finding a male mate is natural, healthy, and the secret key to a rich and full life. You WILL be beaten over the head with the concept that as long as you stubbornly and childishly refuse men, your only choice is to live a sad, unfulfilling, half-life.

But think about it. Of course men are going to try their hardest to woo you back into servitude!! They were getting the best deal ever and you were getting totally scammed. Btw, he knows that he had the better end of the deal (even if he complains that women have it easier), so he looks down on you because he thinks you're stupid and naive for getting tricked by him. When your boyfriend acts distant and unloving it's because he is.

Remember: everything men say is projection, especially when it's about women. When a man (or a male-allied woman) tells you you'll be sad and alone if you don't want to get married, that's pure projection. HE would be unfulfilled and alone because you were supplying all of the spark and personality and excitement in the relationship. But you'll be fine.

Men are biological parasites. The origins of sex are literally the scientific definition of parasitism. When men wax philosophical about "the other half" or how "men and women complete each other," it's because the host completes the parasite. Again, projection. The parasite is nothing without the host. But men are too short-sighted to realize that it's completely one-sided. The host has absolutely no need for the parasite. In fact, it's the only thing holding her back.

[gracecode]

ever see a family that has a shitload of children and all of them are girls except one and that one boy is definitely the youngest. fills me with rage every single time

[its-terf-or-nothin]

I hear leftists call people uterus-havers and vagina-owners often, but I rarely see the same energy directed towards people with penises and that makes me very sad, so I figured I should be kind and include them in my blinkies, let’s hope they love them!

[never-tell-me-what-to-do]

we need to stop looking for male allies.

we can't change men. they cannot help us tldr in the bottom

The situation that women in the middle east are experiencing today is worse than it was for women in ancient Greece and Mesopotamia, roughly 3000 years ago

women today even marry earlier than their ancient predecessors there are more child brides, more human trafficking, and even less protective rights for women. and these persecutions are legitimized by the world's largest religion today, which only keeps growing in population, power, and legal jurisdiction. the desire for human rights has only gotten larger among women in every culture. The fight for freedom has been a constant and unwavering battle for women. feminism has continued to bloom exponentially, yet our status didn't really change, every improvement is from advanced technology and the struggle of women before us we don't give the women before us enough credit. every luxury we experience today is because they died for us. but I think the reason we're stagnant is because our socialization. women are taught to cater to men, so even our feminists want to direct our feminism towards our oppressors, "convincing them" to not be sexist. fighting to change their minds in hopes that it will make our situation better. that's the problem. those men aren't just sexist because they're delightfully ignorant, they're sexist because the world caters to them. like our feminists that work to forgive them and change minds. women have been preaching feminism to men since feminism existed. they were the first people women preached it to. There is a vastly unintuitive irony in the feminism that continuously revolves around changing minds when men shouldn't have had a different opinion in the first place. men aren't victims here. if they could undo their socilization they would. But they won't because that would require being treated equally, and they're not. they could never fathom being in a woman's shoes, so they will never completely empathize it hurts to know that the men you are taught to trust want to defend the patriarchy in an act of self-preservation, but they do. that's why even nice men seem eerily out of character when you bring up feminism. that's why we need to cut them out. never talk to them again in situations outside of work or survival. the oppression of women is unlike any other. a woman is oppressed in every man's life so long as he was born. He saw firsthand the oppression for 10,000 years and didn't do anything about it. men make up 80% of the government on average. every single liberation for women came from 20% of women. it came from women threatening men, it came from women demanding for a crumb of liberation instead of asking nicely. It came from solidarity and working together, strikes, campaigns and being unrelenting. those who think men can change their minds don't understand how deeply ingrained sexism is everywhere. in every culture, in every point in history, in every corner of society, by every race, nationality, ethnicity, family, friend women were considered oppressed. this is 50% of the human race that makes up less than 1% of written history.

if men could be allies, they would've done so already STOP TRYING TO CHANGE MEN. WE CAN ONLY CHANGE OURSELVES. WE CAN ONLY SEPARATE

GO 4B. FOCUS ON OTHER WOMEN

tldr: women's liberation has only gotten worse for women in the middle east, Even though the feminist movement has only gotten bigger. If feminists cannot change their husbands, fathers or sons minds, then we cannot expect to them to undo their socialization even in theory. Women are socialized to cater to men, and even our feminism is directed towards trying to change men. But if men wanted to, then they would've already

[sickofeverythingmale2]

We have gotten way too desensitized to men's violence. We don't even blink at it anymore. War crimes being committed on a massive scale, and it's just? Accepted? I guess at this point. Literally all around the world, mass rape, bodies flying apart, torture on countless people. Women are making posts about the war crimes being committed in so many different countries, all of them being committed by men against anyone under the sun, but it's all noise. It doesn't matter how many times you try to shove such a thing in people's faces, it doesn't matter. Men know they're capable of such things. And women are convinced that the men in their lives are different from the men out there.

Which is why I think it's so important to separate from men as much as you can. If you continue to live with them and tolerate them, you're not going to see how crazy this is. It's not even a blip on anyone's radar. Women are crying out why people don't care about atrocities like this, and darling, I'm sorry, but women can't even stop fucking men to save themselves. They're not gonna do anything about stuff happening in an entirely different country.