#nonbinary reassurance

[birds-and-the-enbys]

If being nonbinary is a massive part of what you do, who you interact with and how you go about things: amazing!

If being nonbinary is only a small part of your life and what you do: fantastic!

If it changes or you’re somewhere in the middle: incredible!

Being nonbinary is a part of you but how much you make it part of your life is your choice and nobody can tell you otherwise

[selves-acceptance]

your identity is not too complicated to be respected.

you shouldn’t need to change yourself to be respected.

[birds-and-the-enbys]

❣️You shouldn’t have to justify your identity to someone

Your reasoning for your label/pronouns/name can be as simple as ‘because I like it’ ❣️

❣️You can say that you don’t know why you’re [X] or why you feel this way, you just do

You’re allowed to exist without explanation ❣️

[birds-and-the-enbys]

Shoutout if there are pronouns you’d rather use but feel like they’re too specific or complicated

Shoutout if you have another name that you use so people will take you seriously

Shoutout if there are more specific labels for your sexuality and your gender that you know most people won’t recognise or understand

You’re still valid, even if you’re differunt around differunt people

💚 🤍 💜

[birds-and-the-enbys]

☀️You don’t have to hate your birth name in order to justify changing it! ☁️

☀️You don’t have to hate your given pronouns in order to prefer other ones! ☁️

☀️You don’t have to dislike your body in order to justify transitioning or presenting in a certain way! ☁️

☀️Everything about your transition, social or medical, is up to you and you don’t need to justify your choices to anyone! ☁️

[birds-and-the-enbys]

🍁Hey! You see that outfit you picked out? Well it’s a super nonbinary outfit and you look awesome!! Keep being your fabulous nonbinary self 🍁

[birds-and-the-enbys]

✨Coming out is not the final/first stage of being nonbinary!

It can be part of your nonbinary experience but it doesn’t have to happen first!

It doesn’t have to happen at all!

Coming out is not a goal that you have to achieve, it is a choice only you can make ✨

[birds-and-the-enbys]

🐬Massive shoutout to nonbinary ppl who can’t tuck/bind for medical/ health reasons

It can be really painful to deal with the dysphoria and watching other enby ppl present in a way you cannot follow 🍃

🐬It can be frustrating that certain outfits don’t seem right and you can’t change it

your body is a nonbinary body and you are still nonbinary enough 🍃