#nonmonog

[lunnam0th]

almost passed out in class today bc of my pots and i am so glad i didn’t bc not only would that be embarrassing in general, but i would’ve passed out in front of all of the lesbians in my class which would’ve been mortifying 🥲

[chinbiz]

There’s not enough polyamorous memes to show other polyamorous people so here’s one (obligatory disclaimer that this is based on my own experiences and you don’t need to fully relate to it to be polyamorous)

[geniesharem]

Stolen from a Facebook meme group

I can't stop laughing. This is great.

[nectarink]

Ugh I wish I had a girlfriend. I love men, looove men, but it’s different. I wanna do all the girly sleep over things and then pleasure each other!

[justkiddingstitch]

my gf and I are everything the conservatives fear queer, vegan, leftist, anti-capitalists, eco-friendly, goth, poly, pro-choice, antifa, we have body mods, colored hair and we don’t want kids (just lots of cats)

[basilwill]

I’m so proud of myself lately, now someone come kiss this butch.

[polyanarchist]

Polyamorous is a sexual orientation. Polyamory is queer.

I've gotten into sparring matches with other queer people about this, but having been out as bisexual since I was 11, being poly and the long, painful path to discovering that feels more like the queerness as I've heard it described by other queers than anything I've ever experienced related to being bi. Besides the fact that it's still something you can lose your apartment or your job (or your kids if you have them) over, it's also hard to be open about it without people assuming you're some kind of super-horny pervert who doesn't care about emotional bonds and only wants sex and can never commit and will probably die alone and that you probably have icky diseases to boot (hello assumptions about gay men that have only recently started changing). 

My parents treat it like the way I imagine mild-to-middling homophobes treat their gay kids — they "accept it" and have even very tolerantly "allowed" me to bring multiple partners to meet them, but they are pretty clear about the fact they think "these things can never work" and it "won't lead to real happiness" and that if I go through a breakup then it's because of my obviously misguided choices and not just because sometimes relationships are like that.

If I could choose an orientation I would be monogamous. It's such an easier life in this society. But I don't feel like I have a say in the matter. Not that I'll like compulsively cheat or anything, I just get really unhappy and it feels like being cut off from everybody. It's hard for me to separate romantic, sexual, and platonic feelings and so having to keep my friends at arm's length to make sure the relationship didn't get to close and "cheat"-y felt like being in a cage.

[emotionalblkthottie]

🌹abt last nite + bathroom selfies 🌹 (🔪they / them 🔪)