#north node 12th house

[divineawakeningoracle]

Runner/Chaser Synastry

When one partner repeatedly ghosts, breadcrumbs, is hot and cold, have one foot in and one foot out, out of fear of rejection, vulnerability, commitment or loss of freedom and autonomy, they are considered a runner. When the other partner pushes for communication, connection, and applies pressure to the runner, they are considered a chaser. Chasing can be energetic which includes, constantly mentally ruminating over the runner's actions, last conversation and interaction, imagining scenarios of reconciliation, checking for signs and synchronicities, checking their phone for missed calls or text messages. Constantly talking about the runner to family, and or friends, getting/watching tarot or synastry readings about the runners current actions or the future of the connection, constantly calling and texting even when you get no response or when response is sporadic. This is different from limerence where the connection is imaginary, because the runner and chaser may actually BE in a relationship with one another, regardless of popular opinion, if you have been involved physically, and have emotional attachment to one another even if it is not spoken, it is still considered a relationship, however serious or unserious one or both parties consider it to be. Physical and emotional attachment is still a energetic contract and still valid and the laws of relational karma still apply. Runners may start to chase once they sense the chaser energetically detaching which results in a push pull dynamic that can be neverending if Saturn is in hard aspect in the chart. Runners do not run in every connection they are in, which is why I am not going to apply this to the natal chart. I have post for non committal placements but right now I am focusing on the synastry because different connections bring out different energies in us based off of the aspects the chart. Certain aspects to our planets can invoke either the runner or chaser in us all. I have been on both sides of this. If you feel you are in a runner/chaser dynamic and you are the chaser, it is because your persons rejection may be triggering something within you that has to do with abandonment and trying to rewrite a past story that has happened that we do not want to happen again, but the emotions that it brings up for you is the what really needs to be worked through. If that is not the case they may be triggering how you truly feel about yourself, as you may tie your self worth to how you are treated, or seen by others. You may be chasing approval or have a need to feel chosen to feel valid. For most of us it is both of these things. If you are the runner, the connection to this person may make you feel exposed or vulnerable, the feelings they bring up within you may make you uncomfortable so you may pull away to regain the upper hand or a sense of control. You may have been abandoned yourself and or feel so deeply for the chaser that you fear their abandonment, so you do it first. You may feel unworthy of their love and devotion and it may bring up questions of how worthy you are of being loved. You may have secrets, or things that you are ashamed of or feel like the chaser may judge you for or may not approve of, or leave you for. You may feel like if you keep your distance, you can control the pace, outcome and intensity of the connection. The one thing that the chaser and runner have in common is that they both want: CONTROL. Runner/Chaser dynamics are intense especially if there are oppositions because the energy tends to flip, and the roles reverse where the Chaser becomes the Runner, these are the Breakup to Makeup dynamics. Below are a few of the aspects I have noticed studying countless charts, with this dynamic. Per usual look at the condition of you and your partners charts and their aspects separately before looking at the synastry.

Sun opposite/square Venus

Sun opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite

Venus conjunct/opposite/square Pluto

Venus conjunct/opposite/square Lilith

Venus opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite

Venus opposite/square Neptune Synastry/Composite

Mars opposite/square Neptune

Mars conjunct/opposite/square Pluto Synastry/Composite

Mars opposite/square Moon

Mars opposite/square Lilith

Mars opposite/square Uranus

Mars opposite/square Saturn

Pluto opposite/square Sun

Uranus 2nd/4th/7th House Synastry/Composite

Moon conjunct/opposite/square Uranus

Saturn 4th/7th/8th House Synastry/Composite

Pluto 7th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite

Neptune 7th/8th/12 House Synastry/Composite

North Node in the 4th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite

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What happens when the chaser stops chasing?

The majority of runners are not conscious of their behavior and the damage it causes to their person or the connection, they are just reacting and playing their part in the story the stars have written. If they were self aware they would see they are just running from themselves, their own feelings, their own shadow. Usually the chaser stops chasing when they have been triggered to heal what caused them to chase in the first place. That's when the energetic cord snaps and the runner no longer has the same control over the dynamic. The runner always runs back because the intent is never to stay away, it is to ground themselves and regain control. Once that is taken away, they are just left with themselves, the fear of what they ran from in the first place which is abandonment becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. But instead of leaning into what this is triggering and try to heal it, they begin to chase and the chaser who by then is awakened to the toxicity of the runners ways, runs from the connection, if the chaser takes the runner back, the runner will just run again, especially if they have not healed what caused them to run in the first place. They are not coming back because they have finally chosen the chaser or realized how much the chaser or the connection meant to them, they are coming back to feel in control again. If they can win back the chaser this validates that for them. Understand and overstand, it is chess not checkers. It is only a game if two people are playing. To no longer be the pawn you must remove yourself from the board, energetically, mentally, emotionally and physically. A dynamic where you have to wonder where you stand and makes you question your worth is not built to last or sustainable, what it is, is a lesson.

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Madison 🕊️✨

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12th house = Your Divine Protection (Asteroids and Nodes Edition)

For specific descriptions, it may depend on your sign, houses, and aspects below ^^

Chiron

You are protected through experiences that may feel painful at first, especially those connected to authority (mentorship), control, work, and stability. Instead of shielding you from difficult situations, your protection ensures that these experiences ultimately strengthen you rather than break you. You may encounter powerful figures or structured environments that make you question your worth or independence, but you are never meant to remain trapped in them. The pain becomes part of your growth, not your downfall.

You may find yourself dealing with authority figures (mentors) who try to control your direction, define your value through productivity, or limit your autonomy. These experiences can trigger wounds around validation, power, or self-worth. However, your protection ensures that over time, you begin to see clearly and reclaim your independence. Even if someone appears dominant or influential for a while, their control does not last. You learn how to stand on your own, rather than allowing others to determine your stability or success.

Eventually, these challenges transform your relationship with power. Instead of feeling subordinate or dependent on external approval, you develop your own inner authority. You begin to define your worth, structure, and direction for yourself. Your protection works by turning wounds connected to control and hierarchy into lessons that build resilience, leadership, and self-sovereignty. No external authority can permanently limit you, because your healing process strengthens your independence from the inside out.

Lilith

You are protected through the exposure of hidden truth. Situations involving manipulation, secrecy, jealousy, or psychological control cannot remain hidden from you forever. Even if someone tries to confuse you, control you emotionally, or operate behind your back, the truth eventually becomes clear. Your protection works by revealing what was concealed, allowing you to see reality as it truly is before lasting harm can take hold.

You may go through periods where you feel influenced, misled, or psychologically pressured, but you are never truly powerless. Your awareness begins to sharpen, and you start recognizing patterns, motives, and intentions that were not obvious before. This realization allows you to reclaim control over yourself. Your voice, perception, and ability to think independently return, helping you break free from anything that tried to limit or define you. What once felt confusing or overwhelming begins to make sense, and you regain your clarity.

Over time, this protection strengthens your independence and personal authority. People who attempt to manipulate or weaken you lose their influence once you recognize them clearly. You become harder to control because you trust your intuition and protect your energy more consciously. Your protection ensures that no hidden enemy, toxic dynamic, or psychological manipulation can permanently define you. Instead, every experience sharpens your discernment, strengthens your boundaries, and helps you fully reclaim your power.

North Node

You are protected through redirection. Emotional disappointment, rejection, or loss may feel painful at first, but these experiences are guiding you away from paths that are not aligned with your growth. Instead of allowing you to stay attached to what is familiar but limiting, your protection quietly dissolves those attachments. What feels like loss is often a necessary shift toward your true direction.

You may notice that after emotional setbacks, you do not stay stuck for long. Circumstances begin to move quickly, feelings change, or new opportunities appear before the pain fully defines you. This movement is part of your protection. It prevents you from building your identity around disappointment. Instead, you are pushed forward, sometimes faster than expected, so you can continue evolving rather than lingering in regret.

Over time, emotional pain becomes a catalyst for your confidence and independence. Each setback strengthens your sense of self rather than diminishing it. You begin to stand more firmly in your identity, relying less on external validation and more on your inner direction. Your protection ensures that every ending, even painful ones, moves you closer to your purpose. What you lose clears space for who you are becoming.

South Node

You are protected by being released from karmic patterns rooted in conflict, pressure, and emotional survival. These are situations that may feel familiar, even if they are stressful, because they reflect patterns you carried from the past. Your protection works quietly, allowing tension or instability to reveal itself fully so you can see the truth. You may feel overwhelmed, guarded, or emotionally drained at first, but this exposure is what prevents you from remaining trapped in cycles that were never meant to stay in your life permanently.

You may encounter people or environments that feel aggressive, controlling, or mentally exhausting. These situations can make you feel judged, pushed out, or forced to defend yourself. Over time, however, your awareness becomes sharper. You begin to see these dynamics clearly, without confusion or emotional attachment. What once made you feel powerless or stuck slowly loses its hold on you. Your protection strengthens your ability to detach mentally and emotionally, helping you recognize that you no longer need to fight for your place in environments that do not respect your peace.

Eventually, this protection leads to separation and release. People, situations, or patterns that once caused stress or forced you into survival mode begin to fade or lose influence over your life. Even if the process feels intense, it is freeing you from burdens you were never meant to carry forever. You are protected by being guided out of conflict, not kept inside it. Your divine protection ensures that the struggles of your past do not define your future, allowing you to move forward with clarity, peace, and a stronger sense of personal authority.

Juno

You are protected through the quiet ending or prevention of partnerships that would have harmed your dignity, stability, or emotional well-being. This protection does not always appear dramatic. Instead, connections may fade, pause, or never fully develop in the first place. This happens to preserve your self-worth and prevent you from becoming tied to situations that could have damaged your peace or reputation.

If a partnership requires you to fight for validation, prove your worth, or endure tension and instability, you may naturally begin to withdraw. You might lose interest, feel emotionally distant, or find that circumstances create space between you and the situation. This is not rejection, it is protection. You are being guided away from connections that would have drained you or forced you to compromise your value. Conflict loses its hold over you because your protection prevents you from staying in dynamics rooted in competition or insecurity.

Over time, this protection helps you maintain your emotional balance and personal integrity. Instead of being pulled into unhealthy commitments, you are guided toward rest, healing, and clarity. Connections that are not meant for you dissolve quietly, without needing chaos or confrontation. This ensures that your energy is preserved for partnerships that are truly stable, respectful, and aligned with your well-being. Your protection works by removing what cannot honor you, so you can remain grounded in your worth and long-term peace.

Part of Fortune

You are protected by being quietly redirected toward peace, fairness, and long-term success. Even when you find yourself in situations where you feel misunderstood, judged, or emotionally unsafe, unseen forces work behind the scenes to remove you from harm. This protection does not always announce itself immediately. Instead, it gently shifts your path, guiding you away from environments that could damage your well-being or reputation. What feels like distance, separation, or withdrawal is often your protection moving you toward alignment rather than leaving you behind.

You may experience moments where you are forced to make difficult decisions, especially when something no longer feels balanced or fair. Even if part of you wants to stay because it feels familiar, your protection prevents you from remaining in situations that quietly drain you. Over time, truth reveals itself, and balance is restored. Situations where you were misunderstood or placed in unfair positions eventually lose their power over you. Your protection ensures that you are not permanently defined by temporary conflict, criticism, or emotional division.

This protection also strengthens your ability to walk away from what disturbs your peace. You are guided toward environments where you feel respected, stable, and emotionally safe. Even when endings feel uncertain, they are creating space for something better aligned with your well-being. Your divine protection ensures that fairness returns to your life, even if it happens quietly or gradually. You are not meant to remain where you are harmed or misjudged. Instead, you are guided toward places and situations where your peace, integrity, and future can grow without interference.

Vertex

You are protected through fated turning points that bring truth to the surface. You may experience sudden realizations or unexpected events that reveal deception, hidden motives, or things happening behind your back. Even if someone tries to mislead you or withhold information, the truth eventually becomes clear. Your protection works through your ability to see clearly and detach once you recognize what is real. Once the illusion breaks, the situation loses its power over you.

You may also find yourself placed in situations where you are carrying too much, too much responsibility, emotional labor, or pressure that was never fully yours. At first, you might try to handle it all, but over time you realize it is unsustainable. Your protection strengthens your boundaries. You begin to refuse what drains you. When dishonesty or imbalance is involved, the weight feels even heavier, and that heaviness becomes the signal that something must change. Once truth surfaces, the burden naturally begins to lift.

Ultimately, your protection ensures that no deception or overwhelming responsibility can permanently trap you. Situations built on imbalance eventually collapse, forcing release and clarity. Even if events feel intense or heavy at first, they are redirecting you toward independence and freedom. You are protected by moments of truth that may feel sharp but are necessary. These turning points help you reclaim your autonomy, separate from what exhausts you, and move forward without hidden harm weighing you down.

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My whole birth chart points to me being murdered bye

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What about natal North Node in Libra (in scorpio degrees) in 12th house ?

Thank you 💕

focus on the dreams, illusions, spirituality , and whats hidden will be a theme in your life. with it being in libra it will show a need of knowing how to balance this in your reality because it can become difficult, as the south node is in the the house of practicality, jobs, and health.

a desire to focus on spirituality could be a thing as well. could even consider getting a job in that area.

the 12th house also speaks on travels in far away places, like the 9th house.. but the travel is more tropical and could possibly be in spaces people know nothing about.