I'm not numbering this post, as it's not next in my story. It's what I'm going through right now...
Today is Monday, I missed school, cuz of daycare issues, so it already started out bad. On Friday, James missed court. (I'm fighting for my girls, was only just to start out with visitations but now I think I want them with me right away, without transitioning). Reason is, he's been drinking alot, not caring where they are. N got them kicked out of his gf's house cuz they moved in with her, so he doesn't have his own place.
I wouldn't have had any idea about this until James' stepdad msged me on Saturday and told me he called ICFS on James, also, this isn't the first time. He also said he was going to keep the girls at his house. I don't know what's happening right now. I tried calling the case workers to see if they had opened a file with him, or not. But nobody has called me back. I'm going to try again in the morning before school.
So far though, I've registered for a parenting class for after separation or whatever it's called, required by the court for both parents to attend, I've also contacted an elementary school and let them know there might be new students soon, late in the year.
I'm just worried as to what they're going through or whether they're safe. But I know if it's not for social workers apprehending them from their dad now, it will be from court and using this information against him.
I will eventually get to this point in why they're in his care and not mine and how so much history has made it impossible to deal with him civilly. It's just so long to get there and I need to vent.
I'm alone, with my 4 year old, his dad is far away for almost a month now. This sucks doing this all alone. I just wish those workers would let me know something. Omg.