OC "Secrets and Lies" Ask List.
What was the first lie your OC ever believed? How did they come to learn the truth? Or have they yet to do so?
Would your OC ever read the private diary of a friend or lover, if they had the opportunity?
What is your OC's view on "lying by ommision"? Is it as bad as outright lying in their view?
Has your OC ever had a secret crush on another person? Did they ever confide in anyone else about these feelings? Or were they buried too deep?
Does your OC ever tell "white lies" to spare someone's feelings, or to protect them from an upsetting truth? Or are they unsparingly blunt and uncompromisingly honest?
Is your OC secretive about their wealth? Or are they open about their financial or material resources?
Are there any secrets held by your OC's culture of origin that are held to be sacred? What are the punishments for revealing these to outsiders?
How good is your OC at telling when someone else is lying? Are they able to judge by someone's body language or facial expressions? Or are they easily fooled?
What is the funniest lie your OC has ever told? What made it so comical?
Does your OC have any dark (or not so dark) family secrets? Did they learn about them by accident or were they told?
Is your OC secretly a lot better at something than they let on? If so then what is their reason for pretending otherwise?
Has your OC ever been lied to and forgiven the person who deceived them? How long did this take them? Do they trust them now?
Does your OC feel guilty about lying? Or does it come very easily to them?
Has your OC ever taken on a secret identity or used a disguise to achieve their aims?
Has your OC ever found themselves having to keep lying to cover an original lie? How far did this go?
Has your OC ever pretended to like or enjoy something that they really didn't? Was this to impress others? To avoid causing offence? Or to please a friend or lover?
What would be the consequences that might follow the revelation of one of their deepest secrets? How far would they go to prevent this?
Is your OC a good liar? Or do they stutter or otherwise show they are struggling with the charade?
If your OC has a particular secret (or several) then how does this impact their day to day decision-making and life choices?
Has your OC ever shared a secret in confidence and then been betrayed by the person in whom they confided?
Has (or would) your OC ever blackmailed someone else with compromising information? To what end might they do this?
Has your OC ever engaged in a secret love affair? What was the reason for keeping it secret?
Does your OC have any fears or phobias which they keep secret from others? Is this because they are embarrassed? Ashamed? Or perhaps even guilty?
Has your OC ever had a secret crush? What stopped them trying to act on this?
Is your OC open about their past or do they prefer to keep such things a secret?
Does your OC have a tendence to exaggerate their accomplishments or sexual prowess? Has anyone ever challenged them on this?
What is a lie that your OC knows to be untrue, but prefers to try to believe? What would be the implications of accepting reality in this regard?
Was your OC ever told lies as a child (such as if they pulled a face and the wind changed, it would stay that way)? What age were they when they realised they'd been lied to?
Is your OC prone to false modesty? Is this from a genuine wish not to appear boastful? Or do they have other reasons to conceal their true capabilities?
If your OC was cursed to only be able to tell the complete truth then what would be the consequences? How long would it take them to get into a fight?
Has your OC ever been influenced by propaganda? How did this affect their behaviour? What are their feelings about it now?
Has your OC ever bought something that turned out not to be what was advertised? (perhaps a forged treasure map, a poorly-made replica of an expensive item, or a fake religious relic) What was the outcome of this?
Does your OC have any secret sexual fantasies or kinks? Do they ever plan to explore these in reality? Or are they very much never ever going to discuss these with anyone else?
Has your OC ever lied to let someone down gently? Perhaps by telling an admirer that they are already taken, or that they would love to try their cooking, but they have only just eaten....
What is the darkest secret from your OCs past? Do they keep it secret for their own sake or someone else's?
If dividing up resources (perhaps rations or treasure) then would your OC always be scrupulously fair? Or would they be happy to keep as much back for themselves as possible?
Your OC is asked by a close friend or partner to give their view on a new outfit or set of clothing. It really doesn't look at all good on them and possibly even looks utterly awful. Would they lie and tell them it looks amazing? Bluntly tell them that they look ridiculous? Or tactfully suggest an alternative might suit them better?
Has your OC ever lied to get someone into bed? What did they promise? And what was the fallout when their deceit was revealed?
Is your OC always honest with children? Or does the occasional (or even frequent) lie to scare them into obedience feel quite reasonable?
Has your OC ever been cheated on by a romantic partner? What was the impact of this? Could they ever forgive this infidelity?
Would you OC ever sabotage someone else's success by spreading rumours or dropping a lie in the right ear? What might motivate them to do such a thing?
Has your OC ever broken a promise to another person? Did they ever intend to keep this promise? What made them break it?
Does your OC cultivate a public image that is entirely at odds with their true agenda? How far would they go to maintain this fiction?
Will your OC willingly admit when they are frightened or in pain? Or have they trained themselves to remain stoic at all times?
Does your OC distinguish between groups when it comes to their willingness to lie? Perhaps they would never lie to members of their family or tribe, but outsiders are fair game? Perhaps they instinctively distrust certain people based upon their sex or race or nationality?
What secret completely changed your OC's worldview once the truth was revealed? How did this revelation affect their sense of identity?
Who was the person who made a promise to your OC and then let them down? Have they ever forgiven them?
When it comes down to it, does your OC even believe that there is such a thing as the objective truth? Or is the world just a morass of conflicting beliefs, convenient lies and subjective opinions?
Can your OC handle the truth? Or would they prefer to live in blissful ignorance if given the choice?
How important is it to your OC that they maintain a certain image to those closest to them? How far would they go to maintain this image? What secrets do they conceal that might change how their friends or family view them?
Art by Michael Lang.













