i saw your follow up that you wanted etta/zev, so here you are <3 ship asks
1 - Have they met their partner's loved ones?
Yep! Zev's obviously met Rica and Endrin as part of the questline in Orzammar, and I think that they sort of see a shared willingness to do anything for Etta in each other that Zev maybe wasn't fully aware he felt at the time. I often think of Orzammar as a turning point for them where It Gets Real.
For Etta we are entering my worldstate headcanon realm here: she's obviously met Isabela at the Pearl, and ended up leaving quite the positive impression on her (take that as you will the details will show up in a fic eventually lmao). Sometime shortly after DAO she's introduced to Noam because of that, my ZevBela OC Kid (there's a lot of timeline shenanigans happening here). Auntie Etta ends up being a solid 40% of the reason Noam later joins the Wardens. She's pissed at them over it. Less so when it leads to them meeting Davrin.
13 - How do they comfort or reassure one another?
There's a lot of joking around, sex that means more than they thought it would. When things get REALLY BAD (think the Leske fight or the Taliesen one), that's where they both FINALLY cut the shit and just let the other one rage and cry for a while.
18 - What qualities do they have that complement each other? Are there any that sometimes cause friction?
I think Zev's slightly more pragmatic approach bolsters Etta's. He's part of why she held firm on recruiting Loghain in the face of Alistair's reaction.
The main source of friction between these two is that they're both used to putting on a show in their own way. They have several "hey maybe you should've told me about this BEFORE RIGHT NOW" moments over the course of their relationship, and the Earring Debacle gives everyone a migraine for a week at least.
🌷 + Maude Dashwood x Henry Mills x Bruce Baker, please??
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Yay, my new babies! Tysm, @dancingsunflowers-ocs! I'm also going to tag @littlebvtterfly and @rose-of-oz.
1. First meeting: Their first meetings were pretty different. Maude and Henry met in the library, he was reading his Once Upon a Time book while Maude was reading something that normal kids her age couldn't read on their own. Maude and Bruce met back in the Enchanted Forest, when they were Matilda Wormwood and Bruce Bogtrotter, they were both brought to Agatha's dark academy in order to be broken into soldiers for the Evil Queen but they managed to run away together, though they didn't make it far. Bruce and Henry met when Maude and Bruce were whispering about something in the back of the library, making Henry jealous, not used to being not the only one who knows the truth about Storybrooke. He was comfortable with Maude, but seeing her be close with another boy made him jealous, later on the two explain that (at the time), they were just friends and Bruce had saw Agnes meeting up with Regina in secret when he was going back home after Agnes made him clean the cafeteria again.
2. Their first kiss: A frantic, messy group hug after escaping Agnes Stern's "Chokey" that turns into soft, surprised pecks on the cheeks and foreheads. It's more about relief and "we made it" than romance at first.
3. Love languages: Maude shows love through acts of service (fixing things for them or helping them with her magic); Henry through words of affirmation (writing them into his stories); Bruce through gift giving (sneaking them treats wherever he can find them, mainly from the cafeteria and at Granny's).
4. Intimacy: Primarily emotional and physical closeness. They are often found piled together on a beanbag in the library, Maude reading aloud while Henry taking notes and Bruce leans against them.
5. Sentimental moment: The day they find a "blank" page in the storybook and realize they can write their own ending together, separate from the Dark Curse.
6. Dynamics: Maude is the tactician/worrier; Henry comes up with the "dates" (Operation missions); Bruce handles the supplies and snacks.
7. Theme song: Naughty from Matilda the musical (a defiant anthem for standing up to adults).
8. Wedding: They would have a fall wedding at Granny's Diner. It's cozy, casual, and smells like cinnamon and old books.
9. Future children/pets: I think they would rather have pets instead of children. They would get a giant, lazy Newfoundland dog named Magnus (after Jodie Honeycutt/Miss Jennifer Honey's father, the woman who helped Maude become the woman she is) and a library cat named Dewey.
10. Flower: A dandelion. It's resilient, grows in the cracks of pavement (kind of like them in a way), and you can make a wish on it.
11. Trait: Bravery, for all of them. They fall for how the others stand up to Regina and Agnes in their own way.
12. Turn-on: Intelligence. Seeing Maude solve a riddle, Henry decode a map, or Bruce outsmart a guard.
13. Turn-off: Betrayal/Secrets. Since they grew up lied to by the town, they value radical honesty above all else.
14. Grandkids: They are the "cool, eccentric grandparents" who live in a house full of hidden passages and magic books, always telling "tall tales" that are actually true.
15. Similar "couple": The Golden Trio, Maude as Hermione, Henry as Harry, and Bruce as Ron (I don't support JKR)
16. If one dies: The other two would become the living archives of that person. If Henry died, Maude and Bruce would spend the rest of their lives finishing his book to ensure he is never forgotten.
Finding gifs for all three of them that made them look the same age that looked good was so hard!! Please ignore the text on the second gif, I tried to find something better but I couldn't find anything.
There's two answers to this depending on when you're looking in on their story! In their early relationship, after college and throughout the Personal Story, Zojja tended to be a restless sleeper compared to Leyya, who more often than not slept like a brick. It worked out well enough, with some nights having Leyya asleep up against Zojja's side while Zojja read until she settled.
More recently, since their reunion in [REDACTED], it's flipped. Zojja settles quicker, but Leyya has a lot of trouble sleeping on account of the demon still residing inside her mind. There was certainly some getting used to there. Leyya often just spends her nights curled around Zojja, letting her sleep while she drifts in and out herself.
7. Who is more sentimental?
They're both surprisingly sentimental about a variety of things. They grew up together, spending much of their childhood together and staying close even when they went to different colleges. They share a lot of fond memories about things they witnessed and experienced, but the big difference is how they express it: Leyya is far more likely to verbalize things she's reminiscing about, while Zojja dwells on them internally.
17. Who fell in love first?
It was Leyya.
Though she's never said out loud that she loves her, she realized she was starting to fall when they were still in college. It was what prompted Leyya to come out to Zojja first, primarily because she wasn't sure if Zojja liked girls or not.
Zojja came to the realization some time later, a little bit after Snaff died and Leyya was immediately there with her, staying in the lab while she got herself together enough to be seen by anyone out in Rata Sum proper. That was about the time the affection they'd been hinted at surged out full force.
And yet to this day, despite the affection and despite the fact that they've been in a physical relationship for some time? They STILL haven't actually said the words out loud.
I'd love to throw myself into the OC shipping game please!! I'm about 5'6, brown eyes, glasses, dark waist-length hair. I love reading, playing/listening to music, and going for walks. I'm quite introverted and awkward in conversation until I've gotten to know people and then I'm chaos on legs, it doesn't take much to make me laugh at all. I hate being told what to do, and I love having people around me but I also like having time to myself I'm pretty physically affectionate too, my love language is hug attacks <33
DIPPER DIPPER DIPPER
You wouldn't even have to tell Dipper that you need some time to yourself, this boy just knows. He can read people incredibly well, and if anything he see right through them! Or most of the time, there's some people he can't read and he gets super frustrated. He's gonna do everything in his power to make you laugh whenever he can get the chance, your happiness, smile and laughter is everything to Dipper and it melts his heart!
Dipper is extremely emotionally intelligent. he can pick up on the slightest changes in people’s demeanor, he can tell if someone is sad or happy even if they aren’t good at displaying emotions. Very good at reading the room. He will always respect your limits, and he would never push them.
Everyone thinks he’s super analytical of what to do, but he definitely isn't but he might as well just roll with it. He's just a mess. He bases it on how he feels in the moment. You both have something to do today? He’d much rather have a plan, but then he’d throw it all out the window because he values authenticity and also because he can. Occasionally he tends blurts out things he doesn’t mean to say because he’s fed up with someone like Irais, he has no filter. Absolutely none, and it gets him into trouble. So yeah, he’s kinda messy not that many assume that he is.
Dipper appears very professional and clean to others who don’t know him but you'd be very wrong. Honestly, Irais especially knows how messy the marshal commander is, his eyes are usually always blood-shot. If you look close you can see the cracks, he's messy okay?
He would absolutely love to go on walks with you, he likes nature and he will most likely have something to say. He actually likes your chaos, like you're so fun and he didn't know he needed that in his life. Your hug attacks are so important to him, he loves them!
Emily with Henry and Emily with Caius please, I want to see where all the differences lie...
5, 7, 10, 11, 20, 26, 32 (idk if Twilight vampires can get drunk but just pretend), 38, 40, 46
Thanks for the numbers, bestie! I would have answered this sooner but I got rly busy all of a sudden lol. Also I knew answering this ask in full would take a while.* Anyways, two ships so we're gonna do two sections... so you bet your ass I'm adding a cut.
I'll do the tiny text as well to save room... and one meme/shitpost each for the lulz (featuring shoddy edits of FC Olivia Cooke as Emily) because I don't know where else to post these lol... I have many more beyond this if you're interested.
*It did, I was working on this for like, two and a half hours, probably longer...
Emily and Henry
5 - Do they argue often? If so, what do they argue about?
Honestly, I can only think of one time off the top of my head where they had a really serious argument, and that was their famous "you're just being paranoid" "you're getting sucked in by these weird vampire people" fight. Other than that, maybe the occasional friendly squabble as kids over who cheated at chess and the like.
7 - How often do they say 'I love you?'
That depends on where in the timeline we are. When they're still trapped in the lab, very infrequently since they don't want Brenner suspecting they could be involved together in any way. When they sneak into each other's rooms, sure, maybe a couple times, but that doesn't happen that often. Post Upside-Down Banishment, I think the habit of not directly saying I Love You kinda carries over, but since they're more free to do and say what they want, it does happen a bit more frequently. They show love in other ways.
10 - Do they share any hobbies or interests? How do these things bring them together?
Their mutual desire to reshape the world and dislike of the human race lol. But in fairness to the question, they both like to draw, especially when they were the experiments and not the orderlies. They both like drawing what they see and what they hope to eventually see in their so-called perfect world. I have a headcanon that Emily keeps a sketchbook on her, even when she's poking around the high school in the Overworld. It's full of landscapes, portraits of Henry (partially so she remembers his human face), the occasional erratic Mind Flayer doodle, and the drawing of the Creel House she did as a child is taped to the inside back cover.
They also both have an appreciation for nature, both in the Overworld and in the Upside-Down. You cannot convince me otherwise that they don't play games with Demodogs and Emily hasn't given every single one of her bats names.
11 - How do they feel about nicknames/pet names?
This is an interesting question because I've thought extensively about this. When I was originally conceptualizing their dynamic, I just could not for the life of me figure out what pet names they would hypothetically use. Henry just didn't seem like a guy who would use terms of endearment like that (or in general, Henry using pet names just doesn't seem right to me)... and that's when I realized their names are the terms of endearment. They've both had their names stripped away and replaced by numbers, taking away their humanity. That first step of trust between them was sharing their real names and covertly using them when Brenner wasn't around. Their names are very important to them, so calling each other something other than their names feels wrong... so yes and no?
20 - How do they comfort each other when one of them is upset? Is this method of comfort effective?
The surefire way to get Emily to calm down/relax/chill the fuck out is to play with her hair. This is one of the few traits of hers I passed on from myself. Maybe it's a reflex from having it shaved at one point, but many a time, Henry has just finger combed her hair or scratched her scalp to get her to calm down after god knows what kind of shit happened. Henry probably learned to braid hair so he can just braid and unbraid her hair when needed... maybe he learned it from Alice?
Henry's not one who usually needs the comforting since he... I don't want to say let's things slide off his back, but it's more like he simmers until the pressure cooker just explodes (ex. The incident of September 8th). But if I had to take a guess, I could see Emily just performing some kind of physical contact, usually a hug, hand squeeze, or small kiss to just ground Henry back to reality. They're both very touch starved and Brenner's rules don't help at all, so they have to get that shit in where they can.
26 - What sacrifices do they make for the other?
Alexa, play 'If You Love Me, Let Me Go' (or whatever the song's title is).
No, but in all seriousness, I feel like they both have had to sacrifice many things for both each other and for the advancement of their goals. Emily in theory has a shot at living a somewhat okay life with the 'friends' she's made (Eddie doesn't need sarcastic quotes, they're real friends despite what Emily herself may think or not) on the Overworld since she can get up there, yet she chooses not to, prefering to spend more time in the Upside Down with Henry since for multiple reasons, he can't leave.
I don't want to say Henry's the more dependent one of the two (he is), but it's hard to pick out any one thing Henry's truly sacrificed for Emily other than the previously alluded to "letting her go" thing compared to what she's given up for him. In reality they both mutually gave up a lot of things for their goals like their humanities (nameless numbers aside).
32 - Do either of them drink? Who's the lightweight/who's the caretaker?
Canonically it's been stated multiple times that Emily doesn't drink or do drugs (she berates Eddie for it constantly) because a scrambled mind means she's disconnected from her abilities, something she especially hates after Brenner's Soteria implants. Henry's probably the same way.
But for shits and giggles, let's do a hypothetical. Henry's a much lighter weight than Emily would be. I could understand how someone could see him as an angry drunk, but I think Henry just blubbers and essentially behaves like a sad, wet cat. Emily can and would drag him home and let him cling to her while he lets it all out. I think Emily would be the more aggressive drunk. I can see Emily getting into a bar fight and Henry (or Eddie since he was probably the one to drag her there) having to pull her away and then be forced to deal with arguably something worse than a drunk Emily: a hungover one.
40 - Do they have any regrets in their relationship?
As far as getting and staying together, no. They'd have lost their minds without having each other to rely on. But I think on occasion Henry regrets not warning Emily about what really went on in the lab when Brenner was persuading her to stay. They wouldn't have bonded or even formally met if so and who knows where else little orphan Emily would have ended up otherwise.
And I think once or twice they moreso regret not being able to have the relationship they really wanted, away from the lab and allowed to grow naturally. They're both steadfast in their hatred of the human system, but I'm positive they've both at least entertained the fantasy of having met as kids at school, falling in love in the real world in the 'proper' way, and then living in the Creel House as a real family unit after they had Eleven/Jane/Elaine the way they should have. It's the "In another life, I would have liked doing taxes and laundry with you" trope, just an incredibly angsty variant of it because even if they had that chance in circumstance (aka no lab to imprison them in), their views on the human system would prevent that almost entirely.
46 - Do they consider the relationship casual or serious? Is the answer different depending on who you ask? Why?
There's no question that they see this very seriously; it's all they have really. There isn't anything casual or normal about the kind of bond they have with each other. As I said, I think Henry's more dependent on Emily than the other way around, but they're both extremely attached to each other. Their relationship is the most important thing to them at the end of the day, even more than their goals because their plans may fail, but they will still have each other...
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And on that admittedly ironic note let's move on to...
Emily and Caius
(I just made this one a couple hours ago lmao)
5 - Do they argue often? If so, what do they argue about?
Honestly? I don't see them arguing much since more often than not they're virtually on the same page. Maybe it's not so much arguments as it is "one of them is being stubborn and the other has to get them to do what they're supposed to." Emily's usually this hypothetical 'stubborn' one, though, because she's still the same Emily who likes to rebel against the system (even if now she's part of the people creating it) and tries to get out of her, quote, "stupid duties." She's a... we'll call it a free spirit. Nine times out of ten this means Caius has to bribe her in some way to handle her responsibilities, not that he minds that, I don't think.
7 - How often do they say 'I love you?'
The cool thing is they can say it in many different languages to keep it interesting. I would say often, but not to the point that it could be considered annoying to others. They don't do that cheesy "I love you" "I love you more" "I love you most" bullshit (unless they're actively trying to be annoying because someone's being an asshole about boundaries... Aro). But they say it enough and can show it via other means without verbalizing it.
Caius says it out loud more often though because Emily's lacked affection aside from Henry for her entire life. That touch-starved insecurity about being able to receive proper love is just part of who she is. She's frozen in time with that insecurity and Caius makes it a point to pick up that slack to remind her that she can and is loved.
10 - Do they share any hobbies or interests? How do these things bring them together?
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In all seriousness, though, once again art is a connective tissue. I don't know how this headcanon started or got so widespread, but people say Caius is a painter (and I'm obsessed with this idea) and Emily still draws. They teach each other their prefered mediums, so Caius has helped Emily learn to paint while she introduces him to the benefits of having a simple sketchbook and pencils for capturing moments.
I think there's also that shared love of learning and sharing stories since Emily's been locked out of the world at large for most of her life save for the books she read when hiding in the library when she was homeless. I headcanon Caius as a history buff (especially when it comes to wars and general combat because we all agree the dude's a warrior, full send) and Emily just likes hearing all these accounts and events since there's just so much she doesn't know about the world. "I wanna know about the strangers like me." That, and she likes hearing the myths, legends, and stories that come with that.
I like to think that a popular story that Caius grew up on, then passed on to Emily to become her favorite tale is the story the original God of War games told (since I fuckin love that franchise so let me have my easter eggs). She never gets tired of hearing about Kratos' journey.
11 - How do they feel about nicknames/pet names?
Emily's general philosophy on pet names stays largely consistent. She doesn't really call Caius any cute names very often, maybe in front of other people to put up a more sickly sweet front once in a while. She moreso uses terms of endearment in a mocking/sarcastic way (there's a perfect example that comes much later on in Necrosis, but for spoilers' sake I'll keep that to myself. Emily uses nicknames sometimes, occasionally calling Sulpicia simply "Picia" and she refers to Athenodora as "Thena" since Caius called her that or Dora since her name is a bit of a mouthful.
Speaking of, on the other side of it, Caius' favorite pet name for Emily is Agapé, or one of the Greek words for love. Sometimes he calls her 'love' or 'my love' in English and some other languages. Once in a while he'll call her a queen in various languages (since technically she is). I think it's just another way Caius hammers home his affection for her, a la what I said for bullet point 7. Though, sometimes Caius calls her by her name when he needs her attention for something important or serious (like to snap her out of a frenzy for example). It's like a softer version of the dreaded "Middle Name" when you're in trouble.
20 - How do they comfort each other when one of them is upset? Is this method of comfort effective?
Again, the go-to for calming Emily down is her hair. But since her traits are exemplified because of her transformation, full physical contact is also a viable option. Sort of like what I said for Henry, a hug or kiss will work magic. I hesitate to say cuddles because that's too soft a term for these two, but that will also work. I think it's because Emily was a bit touch starved as a human, and that only got magnified.
Caius has a very... notorious temper. The smallest things can set him off on a bad day. Usually Emily just lets it happen because a) it's never directed at her and b) she has a superiority complex over those that temper is being directed at. But sometimes she knows Caius' hissy fits help nobody and all she has to do is just grab and hold his hand. Maybe it's not so much of a "calming" move as it is a "keep it in check" move, but in essence it's the same thing.
Again, for spoilers' sake I'll keep the details to myself but there is a point in Necrosis where Caius get a slightly different kind of upset. In that case, Emily knows giving him space is the best way to start before she gets him the "cuddles but we're not calling them cuddles because we're not cute, we're angsty chaos vampires."
26 - What sacrifices do they make for the other?
I mean... Emily sacrifices her life in more ways than one. She's literally an undead creature now, but further than that, she gave up the life she'd known for like, 25 years, the first person to show her love and the first friend she'd ever had. She willingly goes against her dislike of the institution of marriage for Caius and the life and family he provides.
Emily's my character, I'm allowed to make fun of the decisions she makes at my behest.
In some ways, Caius only made gains when he got with Emily since he got a woman that really understands and enjoys being around him rather than just eternally moping (like some people...) and raging after Thena died. But bringing Emily on board means that there's eventually a lost of stability, something Caius and the rest of the Volturi value. Again, I'm being vague for secrecy's sake, but Emily makes waves and it's gonna hurt when they crash ashore. I don't know if you would count that as a sacrifice rather than the probably more accurate term, a consequence, but it's not in Emily's nature to let things stay smooth all the time and things can and will get ugly.
Not for them and their relationship, mind you.
32 - Do either of them drink? Who's the lightweight/who's the caretaker?
Unfortunately, as you inquired, alcohol doesn't affect vampires. In fact they can't really drink it cause they'd have to cough it up since they can't digest anything that's not blood. Emily still hates the idea of drinking regardless.
But again, for shits and giggles, let's have fun.
Emily's still probably an aggressive drunk, but I feel like since she's more open now, she can also be a bit of a flirty drunk if her mood was right. She's (somewhat) less of an angry person compared to when she's a human in Hawkins. I don't know how super clear I've been on this, but Emily's a horribly repressed bisexual disaster, so despite the fact that she's married to Caius, when drunk I feel like she'd lose her inhibitions and will probably make a pass at Heidi especially or Chelsea (maybe Sulpicia if she's out of it enough). Either way, it's kind of amusing for Caius to watch, but eventually he gets her attention and cuts her off to get her back to their room, even if she's complaining the whole way or getting really handsy with him.
I don't see Emily as a light weight exactly, but compared to Caius she seems like it. The man would be able to hold his alcohol and extremely well at that. He drank Greek wines as a human most definetly, probably on the regular, so he'd have a high tolerance from that alone. To me, Caius reads more like a guy who would do small glasses of whiskey by the fire with Emily curled at his side (as opposed to others in the coven I could name who get absolutely sloshed constantly having downed many bottles of god knows what). But if Caius were to get drunk, similar to Emily I could see him getting more aggressive since he's just Like That in General, mostly just hurling swears and insults unrestricted or throwing something across the room until Emily just gently gets him back to their room till he sobers up.
...honestly I don't think it's wise for any of the Volturi to get drunk because I don't see it ending well in any way.
40 - Do they have any regrets in their relationship?
Caius, no, not in a million years. He's very happy with Emily and considers himself incredibly lucky she came into his life. I feel like he understands how important Henry was to Emily, but only to a point since it seems like she's thriving with him and his wacky family/coven, faring so much better than when she was with Henry. Is it selfish and egotistical of him, absolutely. But he'd never ever go as far to suggest Emily's better with him across the board or that she shouldn't have been with Henry at all because that's just not true.
Emily was frozen in time when she was still in love with Henry. She already left him before she was turned, sure, but that love didn't go away the second she did that, and it wouldn't have for a long time. So for as long as she will live (probably several thousand years), a part of her heart will always be his and his alone. As a result, sometimes she misses him, sometimes a lot. Sometimes she even questions why she left him, wonders if he found his own happiness after the fact, worries if her leaving him led to him dying, oh god, don't let that be the case...
Emily tries to not go down that train of thought because then she's asking questions she doesn't want, have, or need the answers to. So, I would say once in a great while she gets in her head about if she made the right decision/regretting her choice, but she can't help it.
46 - Do they consider the relationship casual or serious? Is the answer different depending on who you ask? Why?
Serious. Very serious. Again, I have to reiterate Emily doesn't like the institution of marriage and yet she agreed to fully commit and marry Caius. That, and I sure hope it's serious since casual relationships don't come with the kind of influence and power Emily gets... although I will say it went from Casual to Serious extremely quickly.
