#online date

[payingrental]

[aaras-arting]

Well, @nikysdoingstuff and I have been together for a whole year, so we got on a shared canvas and just kinda filled it up. Online dating at its finest folks.  All that aside. Holy shit what an amazing year this has been. I learned so much about what the heck being in a healthy relationship is even like, and fucking hell i couldn’t be happier. I’m so in love, it’s unreal. Well, here’s to this year, and hopefully the many more to come <3

[flowerscentedartist]

Day 4: Online Date

Sans x Self-Ship Week 2021 @selfshipperapproved

[ohitselmo]

8 October ‘20, 11.51PM

Hi, I'm a 24-year-old Switzerland-based student, writer, artsy-lover, weirdo, whatever. In my 24 years, I've never been on a date with someone from a dating app until last week. I thought I should finally go out and meet new people. A dating app seemed to be the easiest way, so I downloaded bumble (after consulting my friend of course). A few minutes after setting up my account, I received my first matches and I started talking to them. One guy did not chat or write much but straightforwardly asked for a date. I have to admit, I was hesitant at first because he was still a stranger. Buuuut then again, I signed up to meet new people, so I just agreed to dinner. (I proposed a coffee date but he was not able to meet earlier). He sounded really excited when he asked me out but the next day it seemed like all the excitement was gone. He is not a frequent texter which complicated planning the date a bit. On the day of the date, I was not sure if we were still meeting up because he hadn't confirmed the time until a few hours prior to our dinner. I chose the restaurant and he said, he could be there at 7.30 pm. The whole time I felt like he was going to cancel on me but I still got ready in time. Before I left the house, he texted me and said that he tries to be on time but that he might be a few minutes late. I don't mind if someone is a few minutes late (and by 'few' I mean 5-10 minutes) just don’t be too late.

I arrived at the restaurant at 7.35 pm because my train had arrived a few minutes late. I wrote to him to let him know that I was waiting outside. I was texting my friends while I waiting for him. At 7.50 pm my friend told me to leave if he doesn't show up in a minute because 20 minutes is a bit more than a "few minutes late". Right then, he texted again saying that he'll be there shortly. Soo I decided to wait a bit more because I was really hungry and ready to have dinner. He managed to arrive at 8 pm. After I had waited for almost half an hour. So, that was my first impression of him. 

The dinner was pretty awkward, lol. There were a lot of times where we didn’t know what to talk about so there were awkward silences and awkward staring at our food. But the worst part is that he was constantly on his phone! As soon as we sat down, he took out his phone and started texting - before we even had a real conversation! After a bit of small talk, he then explained to me that he was expecting a call, so he had to check his phone constantly. Normally, I don’t look at my phone when I’m meeting someone unless I have to show them something or take pictures of my food. Therefore, his behavior seemed extremely weird and rude to me. First, he shows up late and then he only focuses on his phone. Geez, that date was so bad that I started laughing internally. It was my first online date experience and it was really strange. I knew right then that I was not going to see him again after that. 

After dinner, he suggested that we go on a walk. We went outside and he immediately wanted to go to a convenience store to buy cigarettes. Actually, I don’t mind if someone smokes. My friends smoke too. But his dating profile said that he isn’t a smoker, ergo that kind of slightly bothered me. Our walk was better and less awkward than our dinner. We were able to talk without the awkward silences. However, he was still constantly checking his phone and not fully focusing on our conversations. 

We sat down at a place with a view of the beautiful city (but gladly we were not all alone). Minutes later, he finally got the call he was waiting for the whole date. He was gone for a solid 10 minutes to talk to that mystery person. (I seriously contemplated leaving haha). He came back after his call and said he had to leave because his friend was celebrating his birthday. I was fine with ending our date. I walked halfway back with him until we had to go separate ways. When we said goodbye, he actually asked me if he would see me again! I was surprised to hear that! And he even texted me before I got home and asked me if I would go on a date with him again. He promised me, he would be less weird the next time (aka not being on his phone all the time haha). I have to say, he was kind of nice (when ignoring the weirdness) and doesn’t look bad but we just weren’t vibing. 

Well, I’ve deleted my dating app today. I don’t use it, and I stopped talking to the people there.

[heart-shaped-femme]

i turned under my bed into a little hideout and i love it. i put some blankets and pillows down there and later i’m going to watch zombieland on a zoom call with my gf. honestly i feel super close to hades down there, i don’t know why but i enjoy it, i think he does too.

[jlynnpeace]

Ever wished you could buy me dinner but now we’re social distancing? Cash app me at $hippiejimi and our dreams of me eating pizza can be fulfilled 😉😂

[honesty-and]

Malaysia Love and Dating online romance scam

“The Internet makes this type of crime easy because you can pretend to be anybody you want to be. You can be anywhere in the world and victimize people,”

A good friend of mine had the grave misfortune of dating a pathological liar.

she said. it’s the emotional part, too—being embarrassed, being ashamed, being humiliated.

She became pregnant at 19. He is 31. Malaysian comedian dumps pregnant girlfriend just months before she is due to deliver.

There is no doubt that he is a heartless criminal who robbed her and broke her heart—and who is almost certainly continuing to victimize other women in the same way. It’s identifying who his actually are that’s the hard part. That is why this individual remains a fugitive.

It's your fault that everyone is suffering!

🎥This video was taken by him. Do you know the place where this house is? We want to send a notice of suit to CHEE SZE KHIN. If you know about that, please let me know.